I apologize. I was in the heat of the moment with the original post i deleted it.
(very angrey and confused emotions now calmer). Okay, Alh21, Different kind of lady and Mikee Dee, by reading terrell's comment carefully and trying to decode Alh21's more recent comment to me, i see that no one meant any offense. However, not only try to understand how Alh21's comment could easily be miss understood (because they aren't actually saying it with facial expression) , but also now, i don't understand what their other comment means. Alh21, what do you mean when you say you not getting into an argument with me? Do mean , your are not trying to argue and hurt my feelings? Or do you mean, you refuse to start a stupid argument? I don't want to make the same mistake of accusing you yet again .
That I don't want to hurt your feelings, plus I have first hand experience of sexual abuse and it upset me to read your post, mainly because it sounded like, if u aren't taking drugs or attempting suicide then u must be lying, I think I know u didn't mean it to come across like that and I took it the wrong way, I apologise if I hurt your feelings but I didn't mean it to sound that way