You Are Not Alone

[xX.Joey.Xx]

To Brisbane in Australia. :] Thanks for replying.

[MissyJackson]

To Brisbane in Australia. :] Thanks for replying.

ur very welcome

wow id love to live there all that hot sun

of course theres always contact via here

[xX.Joey.Xx]

Well I will chat with friends on the internet but its so different from seeing them and spending time with them. I love my friends a lot.

At least i'll come back to England eventually. And while i'm in Aus I can enjoy the sun and meet new people, so i'm trying to think of it as a very long holiday!

xx

[MissyJackson]

Aww think of it as a good vacation

[Mechi]

Thank you Mechi. Its more or less my approach to it too. Time out. I know it will pass, eventualy. Its just been a bit hard to handle everything, and sometimes I "go back", and have to face past experiences once more. Part of healing, part of grieving I guess.
No, I am sort of not alone. But feeling alone sometimes has nothing to do with being alone? Its just the knowledge of the distance between people, that are there no matter what. Existencialism?

Well I agree with 'feeling alone has nothing to do with being alone'... not necessarily, it doesn't have to be connected, just it helps me to be alone with myself then... (please know I responded about myself and didn't respond that much to what you typed or might your problem could be. Again I don't know your experiences, circumstances in life etc. and please know I didn't respond any professional way. I constantly refuse to do so here on the board) but my crises, I sometimes go through, have a lot to do with me losing contact to myself in all what's going on in life. Seperating myself and taking all pressure away (even pressure as stupid as to be with my boyfriend or family , spending time with them -only- cuz they like it) helps me with that. I'm not there to make -only- others happy.
I don't know if this could help you also.
But I am someone who needs to know exactly really myself what's going on with all my doubts, grieve about what happened in my life or went wrong and all my weaknesses and mistakes, let's say I need to be open to myself, feel and accept myself like that.
Sometimes it helps to talk with someone to get things clear but sometimes before I can be open with others I need to be open to myself again.
It's not too hard to be myself then, to be open as much as I want someone close... but yeah it's also about going for my own wishes to keep or to decrease distance between me and ppl.

[Mechi]

I'm feeling very down lately because I recently found out my family are moving abroad, and I have to go with them, and i'm leaving all my friends.

I'll come back, when I can, but it wont be for a year or two, and i'm going to miss everyone sooo much.

Its always nice to express your feelings when you feel a bit down and I think this thread could be useful to lots of people. :] Thanks L.J. for making this thread!!

I wish my first post wasn't a depressing one... lol

Hi everyone. :]

Much love
xx

Wow that's really hard. But you're only leaving them for some time and I hope you'll make it to keep such friends.
One of my very best friends is living thousands of miles away. It's amazing how much warmth and love I feel coming from him even though. I hope he feels the same coming from me but he says he does lol so.
Feeling closeness has nothing to do with physical distance. It's hard, hardest if he or I are in problems and would need some physical closeness like a hug or something also...no it's certainly not the same... but the rare moments we get together, we were together and will be together again, those are all worth it.
I hope you'll find even more friends and I hope you'll be able to keep those you have now also! It will make you guys stronger!

[xX.Joey.Xx]

I know what you mean, definately! My best friend is actually someone I met on the internet about a year and a half ago. And I haven't met her yet, but am planning to soon! We get along so well, and we're so alike, I feel like i've known her all my life! Its so strange but I do think of her even more fondly than the friends who live close that I can see every day. So I know exactly what you mean. :]

But still, my other friends arent the sort of people who I chat to over the internet/phone much so I am scared that we'll just lose touch and slip away, while i'm in Aus.

And I will feel strange about meeting new people in Aus because in the end i'm only going to be leaving them too to come back to the UK. :/

Its a big predicament LOL

[rockstar]

you know that you are not alone with us in this thread we'll be in your hearts and see yea soon in here and chate

[MissyJackson]

i cant take much more offline its gettin to me

[rockstar]

LOVE is MUSIC time to party with MJ :party:

[MissyJackson]

i swear i just want a way out its that bad offline right now
hopefully it will all stop but who knows

[rockstar]

MichaelJacksonAdmirer what do you mean something is happen offline

you are not alone i'm getting a DVD of Michael jackson call you are not alone i'm getting it in chapters own $12.83 i can't to go on tuesday to onder sorry for my spelling i can't spell right at all

[MissyJackson]

MichaelJacksonAdmirer what do you mean something is happen offline

you are not alone i'm getting a DVD of Michael jackson call you are not alone i'm getting it in chapters own $12.83 i can't to go on tuesday to onder sorry for my spelling i can't spell right at all

yeah stuff offline

im stressed out with things

[rockstar]

not not you can buy things too not

[MissyJackson]

not not you can buy things too not

hun u might not understand this what im goin through its a bit difficult