You mean regarding to my breakup? Yes, it was really a tough one. But my boyfriend and I are back together now. Both of us have difficult lives to face with. Nonetheless I guess both of us cannot deny that we still love each other. So after a long discussion, we have decided to fix the broken part in our relationship.
I'm doing okay. So far I'm doing fine. My sexual identity is under stealth mode so as long as I'm in this mode, I think I will be okay.
Well to elaborate my previous answer, yes I am planning to move out. My boyfriend is currently living in San Diego. He used to live in my country but he has returned to USA.
Unfortunately I don't think it's possible for me to move out right now. I still have my business to manage. I can't shift my business and clients to San Diego just like that. There are a lot of things that I need to wrap up before I can move permanently. So from my rough estimation, I can only move to San Diego at the end of year 2009 or 2010.
But most of all, my plan needs to be executed smoothly without triggering any kind of suspicion from my family.
Don't get me wrong though. I love my parents and they are indeed great loving parents. However they do not understand and also cannot grasp my sexual orientation as it is against our religion and culture.
If I could I don't want to leave my country and my parents as they are not getting younger. But I have to do what I have to do for the sake of my own future. I do not want to waste my future in a long run.
By the way, nice meeting you Emwill. I always appreciate a very open minded, caring and positive good friend. Hence it is great to know you.