Thank u so much for sharing your sister's story with me. That is very unfortunate indeed, and losing a baby, specially a full term baby is very devastating. My baby was only 11 wks and 3 days old and no words can help ease the pain. I can only imagine what she is going through. She must have been so brave to go through all of that alone for the first few weeks, not wanting to let everyone know because of the holidays. My heart goes out to her deeply. Talking about my loss to people actually helps a bit, not with the pain, but knowing that I am not alone. I hope that she takes her time to grieve for it will be a long one. My sister told me, "some people dream of angels, while you, even for a short time, got to be with one." Take care hun.