Since this is the 'appropriate' place to post this 'thought', I would like to present you this 'food for thought' :blush:
We can all play our broken record and say how much it shocked us, changed our lives, stopped our world cause it was expected or not... It did rock my world in a way I didn't even expect it would hit me that BAD...
No nightmare or premonition could prepare me for the scary roller coaster ride that 'grief' brings you. Of course, I doesn't help anyone to keep running in circles... It's still sad and hard to swallow Michael's loss but I did find ways to escape that circle of darkness and I did learn 'important' life lessons from it. Life sometimes puts you through hell so you can reach the light :blush:
This is what this thread is all about...
What have you learnt in these tough 5 dark years?
The stuff I learnt is...
1. NEVER take anyone for granted cause one day they'll be gone and then you realize how much they meant to you! Always tell the person you love them no matter what!
2. Tough love does NO ONE any good! When someone calls for HELP? It's the last straw. People tend to be strong till they break and reach out... Take that hand, please! You are their ONLY hope now!
3. When you NEED help? Don't be scared or too stubborn to reach out for help. There are good souls that come into your life at the 'right' moment to 'save' you from your doom. ACCEPT them! They mean no harm as they are send to you. I will always have MJJC as my HOME cause this site and it's wonderful people here are my 'salvation' :blush:
4. Be PASSIONATE about your talent! I've always loved writing and creating stuff but once I lost everything dear to me. My talent was the ONLY thing beside MJJC, I could grasp onto and pull myself out of the darkness that was slowly 'suffocating' me.
5. Above all be HONEST with your feelings... it's okay to grief... It means Michael really has an impact on your life! Talk... Find a way to reach the light again... At your own pace with the help of friends :blush:
These are the 'life lessons' I learnt since 2009. Please share yours?
We can all play our broken record and say how much it shocked us, changed our lives, stopped our world cause it was expected or not... It did rock my world in a way I didn't even expect it would hit me that BAD...
No nightmare or premonition could prepare me for the scary roller coaster ride that 'grief' brings you. Of course, I doesn't help anyone to keep running in circles... It's still sad and hard to swallow Michael's loss but I did find ways to escape that circle of darkness and I did learn 'important' life lessons from it. Life sometimes puts you through hell so you can reach the light :blush:
This is what this thread is all about...
What have you learnt in these tough 5 dark years?
The stuff I learnt is...
1. NEVER take anyone for granted cause one day they'll be gone and then you realize how much they meant to you! Always tell the person you love them no matter what!
2. Tough love does NO ONE any good! When someone calls for HELP? It's the last straw. People tend to be strong till they break and reach out... Take that hand, please! You are their ONLY hope now!
3. When you NEED help? Don't be scared or too stubborn to reach out for help. There are good souls that come into your life at the 'right' moment to 'save' you from your doom. ACCEPT them! They mean no harm as they are send to you. I will always have MJJC as my HOME cause this site and it's wonderful people here are my 'salvation' :blush:
4. Be PASSIONATE about your talent! I've always loved writing and creating stuff but once I lost everything dear to me. My talent was the ONLY thing beside MJJC, I could grasp onto and pull myself out of the darkness that was slowly 'suffocating' me.
5. Above all be HONEST with your feelings... it's okay to grief... It means Michael really has an impact on your life! Talk... Find a way to reach the light again... At your own pace with the help of friends :blush:
These are the 'life lessons' I learnt since 2009. Please share yours?