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mjmagicfan
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I dont have a problem with fans saying they would marry him, but i have known a few fans who said they WILL and that's a little disturbing because he is already mine.
But seriously, why is it weird? MJ is a man after all. I have had people who are fans tell me to "find a life" and "put MJ behind", which i think is way weirder.
I would never kill someone's dream, no matter what.
But seriously, why is it weird? MJ is a man after all. I have had people who are fans tell me to "find a life" and "put MJ behind", which i think is way weirder.
I would never kill someone's dream, no matter what.
someplace_else
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I would say you can only decide to marry someone if you really, personally, know the person. I know, some people marry because of several other reasons that shouldn't matter, but I mean when you marry out of love... that's the only thing that's "weird". Of course we know a lot about Michael but if you haven't met someone in person it's just not a realistic thing to say.
But even if you know someone personally everything can go wrong, so yeah... forget what I wrote, I would marry him
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Really, it's a way too complicated topic...
But even if you know someone personally everything can go wrong, so yeah... forget what I wrote, I would marry him
.Really, it's a way too complicated topic...
StarlightXX
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I guess some fans (myself included 
) found Michael relatable in an affectionate/ romantic/ sexual way. Also Michael talked softly and gently in public so people were drawn to him for that. It is indeed complex but I’m sure most fans know the difference between fantasy and reality. I’ve been reading MJ fanfic for almost 20 years, and I’m at peace knowing it won’t happen.
) found Michael relatable in an affectionate/ romantic/ sexual way. Also Michael talked softly and gently in public so people were drawn to him for that. It is indeed complex but I’m sure most fans know the difference between fantasy and reality. I’ve been reading MJ fanfic for almost 20 years, and I’m at peace knowing it won’t happen.
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Saying "I love you" to an artist or celebrity has always felt strange to me.
The truth is, we don't really know them, we only see the image they project to the public, which often isn’t their true self.
Most interviews, concerts, and appearances are carefully scripted to create a likable persona. And this isn't just about Michael Jackson; it applies to almost all celebrities.
Take Adele, for example. Her team reportedly banned her from using Twitter because she was too real, and they worried that her honesty might alienate her audience.
At the end of the day, we should love people for who they truly are, not for an altered version that’s been meticulously crafted to win public approval.
The truth is, we don't really know them, we only see the image they project to the public, which often isn’t their true self.
Most interviews, concerts, and appearances are carefully scripted to create a likable persona. And this isn't just about Michael Jackson; it applies to almost all celebrities.
Take Adele, for example. Her team reportedly banned her from using Twitter because she was too real, and they worried that her honesty might alienate her audience.
At the end of the day, we should love people for who they truly are, not for an altered version that’s been meticulously crafted to win public approval.
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when people say "I'd marry MJ" i do find it weird.
Because IM already married to him thank you very much !
Because IM already married to him thank you very much !
Of course if a fan say it for express how they like them, is a thing.
If a fan says it seriously, then it could be
1. If she could, could marry him, but of course the person knows its not possible. So its just a dream in heart.
2. if one says it in a way that would be really convinced to marry him and persecute him, then if would be not good.
But of course I believe also in the "like" (more than use the world "love") at first sight .
Is not always necessary to met a person before like it (if for "like" one mean to like externally ).
But of course to know a person you need to personally know them.
And yes, famous people, in the everyday life are so different, but not so much as one think..All depends on different people.
I met a relatively not so famous person, and I like him even before have met him
When I like him without know him personally, he was a singer, but not so famous. I really like him at first sight! His eyes make me feel like something deep attired my attention.
Of course he it was a singer back then, and he had an "image". But a certain point of his career, he changes ways and decided to be more himself with his fans. His fans loved him so much.
I really like him but I knew was impossible love. And of course, he was different person than his image , but not so much. I met him finally , and many times , and my first impression I had when I saw him just in a screen, was exactly the same when I met him the first time. His way to be was exactly like I imaged.
But its a "like" of course not a "love", as for love, one need to know the full sides of a person, that is the more worse hidden side that one dont know immediately.
But since everyone of us have a good and worse side , to love a person, its necessary to accept both sides. And I think I could have accepted also his "worst" side, as I know the human beings can do mistakes. And I know what is the real purpose of love people, so it would be probable that I could really switch from that "like" to "love" a person. But this is surely a love impossible for many reasons, so I simply like him as singer again.
Yet, in general way, for a person that I like ,I dont say that my feelings are not called also love. Theres many different kind of love but always love. There is the love for family. The love for a work. The love for friends. Yet all all love. Of course is not a love like a romance love. An universal love but yet, is not a false love. Its not necessary to know the person personally, for feeling this kind love, that is the love that God have for all the humans creatures. Thats surely a genuine love.
I remember when I was also MJ fan, I really wished to marry him as well...eheh and I was serious back then. Of course it was a dream only, but if I could have been became even just friend of him, I dont think I could not really loved him , at least as a dear friend, not to marry, because for love I also meaning a friend love and always centered not on the person itself...
If a fan says it seriously, then it could be
1. If she could, could marry him, but of course the person knows its not possible. So its just a dream in heart.
2. if one says it in a way that would be really convinced to marry him and persecute him, then if would be not good.
But of course I believe also in the "like" (more than use the world "love") at first sight .
Is not always necessary to met a person before like it (if for "like" one mean to like externally ).
But of course to know a person you need to personally know them.
And yes, famous people, in the everyday life are so different, but not so much as one think..All depends on different people.
I met a relatively not so famous person, and I like him even before have met him
When I like him without know him personally, he was a singer, but not so famous. I really like him at first sight! His eyes make me feel like something deep attired my attention.
Of course he it was a singer back then, and he had an "image". But a certain point of his career, he changes ways and decided to be more himself with his fans. His fans loved him so much.
I really like him but I knew was impossible love. And of course, he was different person than his image , but not so much. I met him finally , and many times , and my first impression I had when I saw him just in a screen, was exactly the same when I met him the first time. His way to be was exactly like I imaged.
But its a "like" of course not a "love", as for love, one need to know the full sides of a person, that is the more worse hidden side that one dont know immediately.
But since everyone of us have a good and worse side , to love a person, its necessary to accept both sides. And I think I could have accepted also his "worst" side, as I know the human beings can do mistakes. And I know what is the real purpose of love people, so it would be probable that I could really switch from that "like" to "love" a person. But this is surely a love impossible for many reasons, so I simply like him as singer again.
Yet, in general way, for a person that I like ,I dont say that my feelings are not called also love. Theres many different kind of love but always love. There is the love for family. The love for a work. The love for friends. Yet all all love. Of course is not a love like a romance love. An universal love but yet, is not a false love. Its not necessary to know the person personally, for feeling this kind love, that is the love that God have for all the humans creatures. Thats surely a genuine love.
I remember when I was also MJ fan, I really wished to marry him as well...eheh and I was serious back then. Of course it was a dream only, but if I could have been became even just friend of him, I dont think I could not really loved him , at least as a dear friend, not to marry, because for love I also meaning a friend love and always centered not on the person itself...
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Blues_Away2023
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I bet being married to MJ would have been a total nightmare.
Nobody here would be prepared for the madness and extreme level of fame that came with being associated with Michael. Imagine the scrutiny alone!
It’s much easier to lust over a celeb and love them for the joy they bring to your life as an entertainer.
Imagine all the yes men around Michael and having to deal with him when he’s at his lowest or struggling with addictions. The stubbornness of someone that powerful and getting what they want when they wanted it.
You would feel like a total stranger in your own relationship.
None of y’all could survive being his husband
Nobody here would be prepared for the madness and extreme level of fame that came with being associated with Michael. Imagine the scrutiny alone!
It’s much easier to lust over a celeb and love them for the joy they bring to your life as an entertainer.
Imagine all the yes men around Michael and having to deal with him when he’s at his lowest or struggling with addictions. The stubbornness of someone that powerful and getting what they want when they wanted it.
You would feel like a total stranger in your own relationship.
None of y’all could survive being his husband
I survived, fyiI bet being married to MJ would have been a total nightmare.
Nobody here would be prepared for the madness and extreme level of fame that came with being associated with Michael. Imagine the scrutiny alone!
It’s much easier to lust over a celeb and love them for the joy they bring to your life as an entertainer.
Imagine all the yes men around Michael and having to deal with him when he’s at his lowest or struggling with addictions. The stubbornness of someone that powerful and getting what they want when they wanted it.
You would feel like a total stranger in your own relationship.
None of y’all could survive being his husband