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feel free to post any romance and/or friendship advice, stories, words, experiences, memories, wishes, questions and song lyrics and whatever's on your heart relating to these 💕
 
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This is on my mind, its not enough to have an affection or admiration or sexual interest/feeling in someone. You have to love their soul. Love is a intentional, constant, and imperfect unconditional commitment to sacrificing for someone's SOUL. You die to yourself any chance you get for them. You give up yourself and you consider what can you give up and what can you give, not what can you get or what you feel entitled to. It's unconditional. You love and sacrifice for someone REGARDLESS OF their humanity, their human nature, their finite selves, imperfections, and impurities.
 
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Another piece of advice I love is. Sometimes you'll give 1% and sometimes the One You Love will give 110% and that's perfectly okay!
 
ooo song lyrics or story, song lyrics or story.....lets go with...song lyrics by our boy Michael!

All you gotta do is walk away and pass me by
Don't acknowledge my smile when I try to say hello to you, yeah
And all you gotta do is not answer my calls when
I'm trying to get through
To keep me wondering why, when all I can do is sigh...

If you would take my hand, baby I would show you
Guide you to the light babe
If you would be my love, baby I will love you, love you
'Til the end of time...
You give me butterflies inside, inside
 
This is it, here I stand
I'm the light of the world, I feel grand
Got this love I can feel
And I know yes for sure it is real

And it feels as though I've seen your face a thousand times
And you said you really know me too yourself
And I know that you have got addicted with your eyes
But you say you gonna live it for yourself

I never heard a single word about you
Falling in love wasn't my plan
I never thught that I would be your lover
C'mon baby, just understand

This is it, I can say
I'm the light of the world, run away
We can feel, this is real
Every time I'm in love that I feel

And I feel as though I've known you since thousand years
And you tell me that you've seen my face before
And you said to me you don't want me hanging round
Many times, wanna do it here before

I never heard a single word about you
Falling in love wasn't my plan
I never thought that I would be your lover
C'mon baby, just understand

This is it, I can feel
I'm the light of the world, this is real
Feel my song, we can say
And I tell you I feel that way

And I feel as though I've known you for a thousand years
And you said you want some of this yourself
And you said won't you go with me, on a while
And I know that it's really cool myself

I never heard a single word about you
Falling in love wasn't my plan
I never thought that I would be your lover
C'mon baby, just understand

I never heard a single word about you
Falling in love wasn't my plan
I never thought that I would be your lover
C'mon baby, just understand
 
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I think love of any kind involves accepting people as they are, the good and the bad. And being in a constant state of forgiveness. And that includes self love.
 
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In friendship:

- Don't be afraid to mention that you enjoy the company of your friends,
- Be present and attentive to each other's needs,
- Respect each other's boundaries,
- Share common interests (board games, video games, conversation topics, etc.),
- Be authentic

In love:

- Communication is key, in my opinion,
- Show your love through words or physical gestures,
- Don't take anything for granted,
- Discuss future plans together,
- Take time for yourself,
- Have a social circle other than your partner,
- Don't be shy about expressing any emotions you're experiencing (sadness, happiness, fear, anger, etc.)
 
In friendship:

- Don't be afraid to mention that you enjoy the company of your friends,
- Be present and attentive to each other's needs,
- Respect each other's boundaries,
- Share common interests (board games, video games, conversation topics, etc.),
- Be authentic

In love:

- Communication is key, in my opinion,
- Show your love through words or physical gestures,
- Don't take anything for granted,
- Discuss future plans together,
- Take time for yourself,
- Have a social circle other than your partner,
- Don't be shy about expressing any emotions you're experiencing (sadness, happiness, fear, anger, etc.)
Thanks love guru 🙏
 
Sad to read that some of you don't have friends...is there no possibility to get to know people? Through work, hobbies, etc.?

I like being alone, too, but sometimes you need people around you. Hope you get the chance to find some friends in the future 🙃 .

And advice...some things that come to mind: don't take anything for granted, always have an open ear for people you care about, be understanding, don't lose yourself.
 
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