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[h=3]Reflections on my feelings about Neverland sale (The Woman in the Mirror)[/h]
Inside my heart I would like that Neverland was kept as once it was and for what it once represented in Michael’s life in the past. Then, one day I would be able to visit it for my own pleasure. However, I have to admit, looking the woman in the mirror, that this is a selfish feeling inside my heart.
When I take a close look to 2003/2007 I see the pain this place brought to Michael’s heart. After all that was done to the place, Michael never went back to the main house; at 2005 he was living there but using a guest house. He never went back to the main house; he didn’t want more visitors over there.
Michael went back to US 2006/2007, he had a house to live with his children, but instead going to Neverland he choose to live like a nomad, asking “friends” for houses to live, renting and expending money on other places and moving around all the time.
In 2008 Michael was trying to buy another place for him and his children to live. If Neverland was, at this time so close to his heart how it was to be in the past, why didn’t he try to stay at NL?
When his children asked him to go there, he said NO. It shows me he didn’t want even his children over there.
Michael built Neverland not for his leisure or the pleasure of his fans. Michael never needed fancy places to live. Michael built Neverland for the ones in need. It was intended to be a place full of LOVE and PEACE to help the others in need, to be a place to connect with higher power (GOD).
The place itself was not important to Michael, but the LOVE energy on there was. For him this LOVE energy was gone, and evil took the place. At this point, Neverland became just a piece of land with no meaning.
If some meaning was left at Neverland, Michael would have visit it back in 2007 or 2008 instead, he kept himself and his children away from there.
Yes, it is sad to see the place that was build with so much love and care, historical by all the good things that happened there in the past to be sold. But I ask myself isn’t that sadness in my heart just my selfish wish to have it as a monument for my own pain?
I see people talking about fans to save Neverland ( a place Michael didn’t want to go anymore) and I also ask myself:
If the fans can raise 100 million and 5 million a month to buy and to keep NL, doing nothing to it, why can’t the fans raise money to build a children’s hospital and keep it?
If the fans can raise this kind of money, why don’t the fans support more effectively organizations such as MJLegacy or others?
Why would the fans to buy Neverland to give it to Michael’s children who have at least 3 other houses, money enough for a good living and their own lawyers for fights, instead buying food and clothes for children without any parent to take care of them?
Aren’t we being selfish when we are willing to make a campaign to raise money to buy Neverland instead to promote and help the charity organizations that are struggling to get funds for humanitarian projects?
Michael was never bound to the material things, Michael would give away awards, gloves, hats, jackets, his own clothes, cars, money, anything he had if it would make someone happy or if he saw anyone in need.
Shouldn’t we look at his example and use the money in the same way?
Maybe this is a good time to take a look in the WOMAN or THE MAN IN THE MIRROR.
Raising money for it is incredibly impractical. If we were to raise $100m, I would much rather see it go to charity or a cause in the place of what Neverland originally stood for. For the enjoyment of childhood, innocence, fun, and escapism.
I will never tire of speaking of Neverland, and I am torn on my feelings for it.
On one hand, yes, Michael left it and Michael was clearly truly emotionally traumatized by what happened there. It has always baffled me that he never sold it after that, even swooped in to save it from default. We will never know his true intentions, because his actions about the ranch weren't exactly congruent. I'm not saying at all that he lied or didn't mean it, just that we don't know the whole truth about what he felt and thought of the place in the end. It's entirely possible that he hated it even more, but it's also possible he was maybe moving towards healing and accepting it again. I hope he was doing that, but we just don't know.
One of the many reasons why I have a hard time with Neverland is not because of what it stood for at the end of his life, but what it meant when he bought and created it. I work in tourism and the amusement industry, and in no small way was that influenced by Michael's triumphs and success with the place over the years. To me, people just brushing it off as "Well, Michael said it was violated" is hurtful because we know Michael was an incredibly strong, determined, optimistic, fantastic person. Neverland, to me, is the physical creation of that, and just to me personally, it's more like we let "them" win by saying Neverland isn't worth anything intrinsically anymore. Yes it was raided, I know. I can't really empathize with Michael on that beacuse I've never been in that situation, but I'd like to believe that what it was created for is bigger and better than that.
It really bothers me that it comes down to dollars and sense for this place - $100m seems at once like way too much and yet not enough, of course not even to mention the upkeep. We know the Jackson children really want for nothing (except their father, but that goes without saying). Either selling it or keeping it both seem like brilliant and yet stupid things to do.
I remember that i read a story and watched some video in 2008 i belive.
It was about MJ buying new land and making new kinda Neverland. Ill try find it.
It has always baffled me that he never sold it after that, even swooped in to save it from default.
I remember that i read a story and watched some video in 2008 i belive.
It was about MJ buying new land and making new kinda Neverland. Ill try find it.