There is a narrative within the fanbase of MJ being dishonest to get out of things, such as pretending to hurt his foot for RTT performance, the infamous pyjama day, the spider bite incident, and collapse for HBO, and ofcorse all the issues around TII.
People just didn't believe the guy, people likewise did not believe him when he said he had vitiligo till his autopsy came out. He mentioned he struggled to sleep, he mentioned his doctors, he wrote morphine, no one took what he said seriously. It's so sad.
He did show up to things he didn't want to, TII announcement, the 30th Anniversary, I'm pretty sure his appearances in 2001 where he looked off were appearances he probably didn't want to make.
LMP mentions in her book that someone told her the collapse for HBO was faked. I found this disheartening to read too. The fact that she found out from someone (I think it was KF but not sure) tells us she really didn't know what was going on. It also makes it sound like this information made her response to the situation valid. In no world is it ok to be yelling and screaming at a hospital patient, I found this part cold and entitled.