Frank Cascio "My Friend Michael"/ Excerpt @pg151/New Interview Post 3743

Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

Hey guys I've just been told that the date has been push back till Dec 9 for England.
thank God I pre odered from amazon US
 
Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

Can someone tell me. Why is it ok for Frank Cascio to write a book about Michael but not for Mike's family?
Anyway for me the Cascios are backstabbers.
 
Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

Can someone tell me. Why is it ok for Frank Cascio to write a book about Michael but not for Mike's family?
Anyway for me the Cascios are backstabbers.

I personally think Frank probably knows more about Michael than Michael's family, since he spent more time with the Cascios in the past 20 years.
 
Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

Whatever Frank may know about Michael he should keep it to himself. That's the proper way of honoring a friendship, not selling your life experiences and memories!
 
Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

Can someone tell me. Why is it ok for Frank Cascio to write a book about Michael but not for Mike's family?
Anyway for me the Cascios are backstabbers.

first of all let me warn you that this thread is NOT the place for song discussions or any opinions/ feelings related to those. This is a thread about Franks' book.

That being said no one ever questioned if it's ok to write a book or not. You cannot stop anyone from writing a book and that's obvious from multiple books being released. I read all of the books as well - including Latoya's and Jermaine's. The issue with those books is that you have Latoya who herself wrote she hasn't seen Michael for the good part of last 14 years. Jermaine's book also mentions how he couldn't even reach to Michael and how Michael refused to see him. So however you look most of the Jackson's weren't close to Michael in the later years and again most of them haven't seen him after the 2005 verdict till 2009 May.

On the other hand you have Cascio's who have been close to Michael for all the time period. That is what makes Frank's book interesting and worth while.

Our actual evaluation of the book - good or bad - will come after we read it.
 
Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

first of all let me warn you that this thread is NOT the place for song discussions or any opinions/ feelings related to those. This is a thread about Franks' book.

That being said no one ever questioned if it's ok to write a book or not. You cannot stop anyone from writing a book and that's obvious from multiple books being released. I read all of the books as well - including Latoya's and Jermaine's. The issue with those books is that you have Latoya who herself wrote she hasn't seen Michael for the good part of last 14 years. Jermaine's book also mentions how he couldn't even reach to Michael and how Michael refused to see him. So however you look most of the Jackson's weren't close to Michael in the later years and again most of them haven't seen him after the 2005 verdict till 2009 May.

On the other hand you have Cascio's who have been close to Michael for all the time period. That is what makes Frank's book interesting and worth while.

Our actual evaluation of the book - good or bad - will come after we read it.
No need for the warning. I know that this is a thread about Frank's book. I only wanted to express my opinion about him and his book. For me he's a backstabber of the worst kind and my opinion is not formed on solely one reason. I will not spend my hard earned money for this book and will take it with a grain of salt. Even if everything he writes is positive... I don't care how long they were close to each other. Friendship is not measured in days or decades but by the heart, the respect, caring and love for one another. And there with the Cascio guy I can see a lack of these things. I can be wrong but that's my opinion about him.
 
Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

Whatever Frank may know about Michael he should keep it to himself. That's the proper way of honoring a friendship, not selling your life experiences and memories!

Exactly! He should treat MJ's friendship as a precious gift and cherish the memories and times he spent with him...Give the man something he's never had - privacy.
 
Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

No need for the warning. I know that this is a thread about Frank's book. I only wanted to express my opinion about him and his book. For me he's a backstabber of the worst kind and my opinion is not formed on solely one reason. I will not spend my hard earned money for this book and will take it with a grain of salt. Even if everything he writes is positive... I don't care how long they were close to each other. Friendship is not measured in days or decades but by the heart, the respect, caring and love for one another. And there with the Cascio guy I can see a lack of these things. I can be wrong but that's my opinion about him.

I agree with you. You didn't even mention any songs lol. I also won't be buying this book and will encourage others not to buy because of how I feel about Frank.
 
Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

And as I said, if every MJ's friend was to write a book on MJ, we'd have a whole library. And all MJ friends would be making money thanks to their friendship with MJ.
 
Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

And the books coming from people with good intentions will help to show what a nice & kind person Michael was!

And Franks book will be just like that!

And 2 me that's all what really counts!

Money will always be earned.
And Frank IMO is not the wrong person to receive a little of it!
 
Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

Can someone tell me. Why is it ok for Frank Cascio to write a book about Michael but not for Mike's family?
Anyway for me the Cascios are backstabbers.



I still do not understand the need to write a book to talk about Michael. Liz Taylor and Diana Ross did not write books to talk about their relationship with Michael and bla bla bla...... I'm really tired of this flood of books (except Joe Vogel's book is about Michael's music and nothing else). An epidemic of books about Michael. Everyone wants to write about Michael. :doh:

Maybe I'm too stupid to be able to understand it. :ph34r:
 
Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

No need for the warning. I know that this is a thread about Frank's book. I only wanted to express my opinion about him and his book. For me he's a backstabber of the worst kind and my opinion is not formed on solely one reason. I will not spend my hard earned money for this book and will take it with a grain of salt. Even if everything he writes is positive... I don't care how long they were close to each other. Friendship is not measured in days or decades but by the heart, the respect, caring and love for one another. And there with the Cascio guy I can see a lack of these things. I can be wrong but that's my opinion about him.

I agree with you. You didn't even mention any songs lol. I also won't be buying this book and will encourage others not to buy because of how I feel about Frank.

if your opinion of frank is based on the songs , then it's irrelevant in this thread.

you can read his book and then hate him for it. but you cannot mix your feelings due the songs to the book. you can simply stay away from this thread.
 
Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

Is any money from this going to charity? To me it depends how personal this book gets. I feel a little uncomfortable reading really personal things about Michael. If it's just general in the sense to show how great Michael was then it's fine.There are some things you tell family and friends that should remain private. I have to hear about the contents before deciding.
 
I still do not understand the need to write a book to talk about Michael. Liz Taylor and Diana Ross did not write books to talk about their relationship with Michael and bla bla bla...... I'm really tired of this flood of books (except Joe Vogel's book is about Michael's music and nothing else). An epidemic of books about Michael. Everyone wants to write about Michael. :doh:Maybe I'm too stupid to be able to understand it. :ph34r:
You are not stupid. Please do not ever say that. It's perfectly understandable to feel skeptical and weary. :huggy:Although I pre-ordered the book, I still feel mixed about it.
 
Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

Can someone tell me. Why is it ok for Frank Cascio to write a book about Michael but not for Mike's family?
Anyway for me the Cascios are backstabbers.

In my point of view, Cascios or Jacksons or whoever can all write a book about MJ whatever they want. It's people's decision to buy the book or not. However, I am just want to point out. It quite interesting that both LaToya and Jermaine admitted that they barely saw MJ for last 20 years. I just don't understand how can they describe so many details about MJ's life for the past 20 years. It just doesn't make sense at all. To me, all the things they said is like hearsay. If they stated it's hearsay in their book I won't have a problem (at least JRT actually stated his source in his book even though lots of source might be questionable. But at least he actually list out his source). My problem is LaToya and Jermain like to tell you stories like they are actually there but the truth is they didn't. On the other hand, the Cascios actually have more contacts with MJ than the Jacksons. As for the book, I think I should save my comments after I actually read the book since we don't know what's in the book yet.

As for the Cascios being backstabbers, I don't know where this comment coming from. To me, they supported MJ all through his life. Frank spoke up for MJ in interview during 05. They remained contacts with MJ before MJ's death. They always spoke nicely about MJ unlike many other Jackson family members. I don't understand the backstabber part or is this because of the tracks on Michael album?
 
Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

Is any money from this going to charity?

I'm also very curious to know where the money goes. :fear:




You are not stupid. Please do not ever say that. It's perfectly understandable to feel skeptical and weary. :huggy:Although I pre-ordered the book, I still feel mixed about it.

:hug:


If Michael were here, these people would not be writing books. Fact.


:(
 
Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

Would there even be a book if their credibilty wasn't shot? Doubt it. Which says alot to me. Their trying to save face and that for me will not work. Cause they already reuined something that could have been great and was never questioned before about MJ and will now be tainted forever and that's unforgivable. And u best bet they will address the issue in the book. And it will proably be a weak explaination as it was on the O show in person.
 
Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

Would there even be a book if their credibilty wasn't shot? Doubt it. Which says alot to me. Their trying to save face and that for me will not work. Cause they already reuined something that could have been great and was never questioned before about MJ and will now be tainted forever and that's unforgivable. And u best bet they will address the issue in the book. And it will proably be a weak explaination as it was on the O show in person.
 
Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

you do realize that if Frank doesn't mention anything about the "controversy" in his book and keep it limited to the 25 years of friendship between him and Michael , all of these "credibility shot", "reason for the book" etc would be moot.

and who is "they"? The author of the book is "Frank Cascio"

ps: thank you for making my point
 
Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

I definately won't be buying the book.
 
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Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

you do realize that if Frank doesn't mention anything about the "controversy" in his book and keep it limited to the 25 years of friendship between him and Michael , all of these "credibility shot", "reason for the book" etc would be moot.

and who is "they"? The author of the book is "Frank Cascio"

ps: thank you for making my point

I disagree because they were not public until the controversay of the Album came out. And one would think if they weren't trying to rehabilitate their image to the fans they would have left it at Oprah and move on but, as we see that is not happening.

Also I meant "They" as in the whole family for which Frank will be talking about in his book and the friendship they all had with MJ aswell. Or do u think he will be talking about only himeself & Michael? MJ first met Frank's parents who then introduce their kids to MJ as I'm sure u know. This book will speak and represent the the whole family and they know it and I'm sure their on board with that as they all were when they appeared on Oprah together. That's pretty obvious to me anyways.

Listen if people wanna buy the book knock urself's out I'm just stating that I won't because of the controversary of the album that they created and I see them differently now because of it. MJ's music career was something that was never questioned in that way before until they came along and to me that's unforgiveable considering all the ish he went through. Why did his music had to be dragged in that way too?

And no I didn't need the Jacksons to tell me anything as some swear many fans were brain washed lol But, I obviously don't like the things they have done also and continue to state that. So they couldn't influence me in anyway and they don't. This was something that I concluded on my own reguarding the tracks and I have every right to state that as I do when I see everybody and their mama trying to make a quick buck in MJ's name. Even when they know how private he was but, he's dead so who cares, right? Appreantly not his family and so called friends and them some! Again my opinon! thx
 
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Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

I understand your point but I personally do not think this book has anything to do with becoming public, rehabilitating an image or controversy.

Unlike many people here I had multiple talks with Frank (hoping to talk soon again) and to me from his words it seems to be about Micheal then anything else. I have seen how angered he was with the likes of Aaron Carter and such and how emotionally he expressed his motives as to correct the BS being said about Michael.

so album or no album , controversy or no controversy - to me it seems like he could have written this book after Michael's death to correct the misrepresentation of his friend in the media.
 
Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

Who knows with or without the controversy he would or wouldn't have written something? It's hard to say since it happen only after. And I proably wouldn't still like that either way considering how private MJ was. But, in any case I would be surprised if the book doesn't say a word about the tracks since those were according to them all his last work alive and that it happen in his presents allegedly. That would be like ignoring the big elephant in the room and others would find it another reason to criticize the miss opportunity to further calrify something that is still an issue. Many were not impressed with the O interview at all, including myself. I know it's like damn if he do damn if he doesn't but, they or he made that chose when they decided to present those tracks and leave them on there even when they were warned not to.

Anyway, I look forward to the review from whomever will provide the info and then we all could way in further like we all did with the other MJ books and Etc.
 
Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

I still do not understand the need to write a book to talk about Michael. Liz Taylor and Diana Ross did not write books to talk about their relationship with Michael and bla bla bla...... I'm really tired of this flood of books (except Joe Vogel's book is about Michael's music and nothing else). An epidemic of books about Michael. Everyone wants to write about Michael. :doh:

Maybe I'm too stupid to be able to understand it. :ph34r:

My dilemma about this is, if everybody who actually knew Michael would always keep silent then all we would have about Michael in bookstores would be the "biographies" by Ian Halperin, J. Randy Taraborelli, Diane Dimond, Bob Jones etc. Actually those are the type of books those still overwhelmingly define the public image of Michael Jackson. So do we want only those type of books occupying the shelves of bookstores about Michael and define his public image and how he is remembered? As far as I'm concerned it's not just about fans. We, the fans, of course know about the fact Halperin, Dimond, Jones etc. are lying but non-fans don't know. I have seen even casual fans referencing to Halperin's book as something great and accurate, because he managed to present himself as an "insider" and the "biographer" of MJ when in fact he never even met Michael. But unsuspecting non-fans and casual fans don't know this. They just go into a bookstore and read whatever they find and assume it's the truth.

I will reserve judgment about Frank's book until I read it, but when such books are published at least it will mean people have a choice and they won't only find the type of books mentioned above in the bookstores.

You are right that if Michael lived Frank probably would not be writing this book. Yet, I don't think we can claim with 100% certainty that Michael would not want this. Things change when an artist dies. He himself liked to read biographies of other famous people and artists, he had a HUGE collection of those. I doubt that when he read them he skipped the parts about their private lives. He was probably just as interested in that as we are.

I see there are fans who criticize everything that is released under Michael's name or about him after his death: be it music or a book. But would he really want that nothing would be released about him any more? I doubt that. He wanted to be huge, he wanted to be talked about even hundreds of years after his death. I don't think we can claim with 100% certainty that he would disapprove of Frank writing a book about him if it's done respectfully. (Of course, we don't know yet how it will be done, that's why I say I reserve judgment until I actually see the book.)
 
Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

It's not that I don't want any MJ books out there especially to counter junk from people like Halprin or Dimond. It's the info in them that I worry about. I mean how far are people willing to go just to prove something that MJ said already wasnt true? Like him being gay for example. Or like Gest in an article talking about how MJ vomited in his toliet after he got drunk. I mean what purpose does that type of detail serve? To show he was all man? I mean seriously?!

I remember Harvey Levin when he had his Celebrity Justice show during the 05 trial he spoke to Frank by phone and he then repeated with Frank permission what they spoke about which I thought was unnecessary to air on TV and to share that info with someone like Levin to repeat. In the end Levin was convince that yea MJ isn't proably gay but, the info he thought was still inappropriate. And all I can do was cringe, thinking how did Frank think that info would help? So I hope this book don't even go there. So I have my reasons to worry among other things.

I'm sure when MJ read books of his favorites he too came across unflattering things, negative stuff and private things about them. But, I'm sure he would have perfered that their wasn't so much of that but, more about their art. Considering the fact that he told Oprah that if he had a chance to talk to Michelangelo he would ask him about what inspired him instead of stuff like who he is dating? Cause in MJ own words that's not important to him. So u see I doubt he would want too much private info out there about himself no matter who writes it friend or family and if he did he would have said so in interviews as he did at times. I don't see why that isn't enough? How much more do people want to know about one man? And with so many of us, it's unfair. It's also kinda killlin the mystery MJ work so hard to achieve aswell, which was also his choice.
 
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bluetopez;3525137 said:
It's not that I don't want any MJ books out there especially to counter junk from people like Halprin or Dimond. It's the info in them that I worry about. I mean how far are people willing to go just to prove something that MJ said already wasnt true? Like him being gay for example. Or like Gest in an article talking about how MJ vomited in his toliet after he got drunk. I mean what purpose does that type of detail serve? To show he was all man? I mean seriously?!

I remember Harvey Levin when he had his Celebrity Justice show during the 05 trial he spoke to Frank by phone and he then repeated with Frank permission what they spoke about which I thought was unnecessary to air on TV and to share that info with someone like Levin to repeat. In the end Levin was convince that yea MJ isn't proably gay but, the info he thought was still inappropriate. And all I can do was cringe, thinking how did Frank think that info would help? So I hope this book don't even go there. So I have my reasons to worry among other things.

I'm sure when MJ read books of his favorites he too came across unflattering things, negative stuff and private things about them. But, I'm sure he would have perfered that their wasn't so much of that but, more about their art. Considering the fact that he told Oprah that if he had a chance tom talk to Michelago he would ask him about what inspired him instead of stuff like who he is dating cause in MJ own words that's not important to him. So u see I doubt he would want too much private info out there about himself no matter who writes it friend or family and if he did he would have said so in interviews as he did at times. I don't see why that isn't enough? How much more do people want to know about one man? And with so many of us, it's unfair. It's also kinda killlin the mystery MJ work so hard to achieve aswell, which was also his choice.


I absolutely agree with this statement.

What could Frank possibly write about Michael's art or know-how? All he can write is some personal stuff, which should remain personal.

This whole situation makes me think of a short interlude in DANGEROUS SHORT FILMS on dvd where you can see the news all around the world talking about Michael Jackson's private life or gosspis in all languages around the globe. At the end you hear the sound fading and then the word appears:

THE WIND

This book is clearly not about Michael's genius, but about Michael's privacy. This book is THE WIND! And even reading a review is just a waste of time.

Michael's magic shouldn't be dismantled by his friends like that, especially if Michael was looking for some privacy. However, in order not to forget the moments spent with Michael, Frank or any so called friend should write a book, keep it for themselves and not publish it, but use it as a historic document on the biggest artist living on this planet.

Just imagine a firend of Einstein's writing a book after Einstein's death and talk about his private life? It would be seen as voyeurism and hunger for cash. Unconceivable to write other stuff about someone who came up with E=MC² than about his genius mind.

Michael's E=MC² is his songs and his magic. All the rest is wind and not important actually for the general public at all. It's as Michael himself said : WIND.

By the way, Michael already offered a wonderful glimpse of his private life on Michael's private videos where we get the exact picture of how Michael was when he was not working in the studio.

What am I gonna learn with Frank's book? That Mike would knock on their door at 3 a.m.? That Michael would send them to buy some candies in the shop? That Michael tried to cook? Wow flash news, it can happen to any human on this planet! And flash news, Michael was a human! Thanks Frank for confirming it, but we already knew it.
 
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Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

This book is clearly not about Michael's genius, but about Michael's privacy. This book is THE WIND! And even reading a review is just a waste of time.

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Most certainly isn't about that either.How could anybody possibly claim to know about Michael's privacy?And they are people who will buy that,can you imagine , huh?

Michael's magic shouldn't be dismantled by his friends like that, especially if Michael was looking for some privacy. However, in order not to forget the moments spent with Michael, Frank or any so called friend should write a book, keep it for themselves and not publish it, but use it as a historic document on the biggest artist living on this planet.

THIS.
But they are not friends!Friends don't do that.And it's not an IF there.
 
Re: Frank Cascio to write memoir of his friend Michael Jackson / press release at pg12 / Nov 15 ,201

I have seen how angered he was with the likes of Aaron Carter and such and how emotionally he expressed his motives as to correct the BS being said about Michael.

Didn't Aaron Carter come out and completely deny that story and said it was a complete lie?
 
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