summer
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Oh yeah, totally agree! I don’t know what the whole story is but just wanted to add…If a guy is interested in you he will make a move and ask you out without you needing to ”chase” him or give him all kinds of ”signs”! No matter how shy! I mean think about Michael…he said he is shy but even he went after Lisa Marie…and even though she was still married and Michael was notariously religious. But even all that didn’t come between them. If a guy doesn’t make a move, there is your answer. Period. Take it from another ”older woman”. If a guy is interested in you, he will ask you out, no matter how shy.Advice from an old woman:
If he doesn't add you on social media it doesn't have to mean anything. Sometimes the notifications don't show up, happened to me several times. BUT... if he completely ignores you in "real life", you shouldn't run after him to get his attention. You could maybe try to talk to him or smile at him etc. (one or two tries, not more) but if he doesn't react, don't put more energy into it. Just let people come into your life who are really interested in you and treat you well, otherwise they don't deserve you
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Fingers crossed though, that it works out for you guys![]()
I remember when I had a crush on this one guy in my 20’s and everyone else kept telling me he likes me and the way he acted made me think maybe they are right, maybe he does. So I told him I like him and basically asked him out. Well….WRONG!!