Asking ourselves tough questions.

I understand that the contents of this thread is frustrating for some of you, but abuse towards others who hold a different point of view is uncalled for and will only result in your post being removed and possibly further action being taken. Just be respectful and mindful of other people's feelings.
 
I understand that the contents of this thread is frustrating for some of you, but abuse towards others who hold a different point of view is uncalled for and will only result in your post being removed and possibly further action being taken. Just be respectful and mindful of other people's feelings.

there's a huge difference between different point of view and disrespectful point of view
 
1nn5;4257630 said:
there's a huge difference between different point of view and disrespectful point of view
That’s ripe coming from someone who disrespects Michaels children at every opportunity.
There’s nothing disrespectful about having doubts and concerns as long as they are communicated fairly and rationally, which I have done so.
 
I have spent a long time researching the allegations and reading up on them in the past few months, way more so than I never did with the previous allegations. As well as educating myself more on CSA and Paedophile/grooming behaviour.

The tough questions/points I now ask myself, and feel as fans we need to ask ourselves are:

- Was Michaels behaviour text-book Paedophile? - My honest answer to this question is now yes it was. That doesn't mean I am convinced he was a one, but I cannot deny his pattern of behaviour was disturbing and suspicious regardless of whether allegations were made or not. No, it was not. There is no text-book paedophile. Anyone could be a paedophile. Look at the Sundance co-founder. Is he a text-book paedophile? Most of them are married with kids and live next door like normal folks. A paedophile could be a judge, a police officer, a teacher, a brother, a father. The media would like everyone to believe padophiles look like MJ but this is certainly not true. Look at the number of child sexual abuse victims to know how this issue is rampant in society. But how many people act like MJ? None. Give me one example of someone else like him. ONE EXAMPLE. Have you heard the interview with the man who was in charge of the train station at Neverland? He talked about the amount of letters they used to receive from doctors, nurses, parents of kids who were on their death bed and their experience at Neverland, the inner city kids and the enjoyment they felt being there. He also talked about MJ calling from outside the US everyday to ask who visited and how they felt he wanted to know the details. How happy he was to know his Neverland helped people feels happy ...etc. That was the purpose of Neverland. Which paedophile does that when the real purpose was only to lure kids to molest them? Saville molested 450 kids. Sandusky hundreds. Why MJ's accusers are only 5 when he had access to thousands of children and that was the whole purpose of Neverland going by your logic. And don't ever say he could have been a good guy but a child rapist at the same time this is a complete bullshit.

- If he wasn't 'Michael Jackson' what would we all think? If I think of the allegations and Michaels behaviour/interest in young boys attributed to some random person I would find it really hard not to condemn that person and would find it almost impossible to believe that they were not a paedphile, are we letting our celeb goggles blind us? Well, he was Michael Jackson and you have to deal with that. No one lived his life but him and I am wise enough not to project, not to assume that since I don't do one thing others should not do it. He lived his whole life on tour. Spent most time with his brothers sharing his bed with others. This was normal to him. He was desperate to become a father desperate to be part of normal families. He did befriend the whole families not only the kids. Glenda tapes show that. Brenda Richie, Katherine Hilton, Joy Robson, Brett's family. He was a friend of the parents and continued to be friends of the parents. The kids liked him a lot they followed him like ducks. Sean Lennon said he was the coolest dude ever. Mac's dad said his children preferred MJ's company over Disneyland. He had no issues with anyone sleeping in his bed not even young boys.

- What would make us ever believe the allegations, how many accusers and witnesses are we prepared to accept are all liars and after money? Would we believe Brett Barnes if he came forward with accusations? Would we believe McCauley? Well, the jurors in 2005 waited for ONE SINGLE CREDIBLE WITNESS to take the stand but Sneddon could not produce one single credible witness. There was a reason why some of the jurors felt they wanted to hug MJ. How many jurors wanted to hug Sandusky?

- Why did Michael think sharing his room & bed with children was acceptable, even if nothing sexual occurred why did he think it was appropriate. Why did he continue to think and do this after the first allegations? I have answered that. The priests who have raped thousands of kids how many of them shared beds with boys? I bet none.

- Why would Wade & James put themselves through what they are now for a lie, I'm not sure LN and the response will either help or hurt their appeal against the estate, it almost feels now like they had more to lose than to gain by coming forward with these allegations. Money desperate for money, relevancy and revenge because they feel they were entitled to much more than they had gotten from MJ for the simple fact that they had not accused him earlier. Both act like he owed them the world. have you read the last paragraph of their Billboard interview? He promised us he would sponsor our movie careers he lied to us and look at us now doing a movie and getting our revenge.

- Can we really be convinced so finally that Michael never behaved inappropriately with a child that we can justify the types of comments and attacks that we (as fans in general) have launched against his accusers? I am an INTP infamous for my indecisiveness but with MJ I am 100000% he was innocent simple because if he was not and with the kind of access he had to children and with very very powerful people interested in bringing him down he would have been exposed with irrefutable evidence long time before his death.

Other things I have learnt/worth mentioning:

- I have learnt in the past few months that unfortunately a lot of the arguments that fans use to defend Michael are simply not true and show a huge lack of understanding about CSA and grooming. For example there was no 10 year FBI investigation. Them both testifying under oath that he never abused them is NOT evidence they are lying now. It is text-book behaviour for them to want to lie about it and defend an abuser. The FBI did investigate him and he was under their radar for many years. Sneddon was after him non-stop since 1993. The FBI searched the seven computers they seized from neverland for the key word 'gay' when they found nothing they did not even turn over this revelation to the defence. they hid it until after he died allowing Sneddon to argue in court he was a homosexual with interest in nude men (one or two photography/sexual study books on men were introduced as evidence of that).

- Inconsistencies & Inaccuracies and even entirely exaggerated/made up parts of Wade & James stories do not automatically mean they were never abused. WOW it makes them automatically liars and why would you lie if you were telling the truth? Why Safechuck felt he needed to say that he was having sex with Jackson everyday in the second floor of the Train Station? on non-existing beds in the Arcade and the castle? Why he lied about giving and receiving oral under water in a pool which was surveillance by a third party company and bodyguards most of them were previous police officers? They have to prove he molested them It is on the accuser to prove something happened that's a principle of justice, and here you are arguing that they can lie as much as they want that does not mean they were not molested. so how can we know which story did take place if we can prove that many of the stories he told were complete lies?

- Wade being a 'bad person' and wanting to profit from the situation, again, is not sufficient evidence that he was never abused. He can be a bad person and an opportunist and still be a victim of abuse. WOW so let me get this straight, they can lie, they can profit from this whole thing, they can be bad people, opportunists they can fabricate complete story with are provably lies but that does not take away from their credibility when they say they were abused. Now, why would a real victim of abuse lie? fabricate a story? WHY? WHY? He does not have to. He can tell his story the way it happened without having to lie about anything? How about that?

This is not me saying I believe the allegations against Michael. I have maybe shifted from wholly believing his innocence to having reasonable grounds to doubt it. I am becoming increasingly frustrated at some of the lines of defence that fans, Taj, and the estate are using to defend Michael as I don't feel that they are the solid evidence of his innocence that we claim they are, and could actually support the opposite. you are at a stage where if MJ was on ten occasions with them and he produced video taped evidence that nothing happened on 9 of those occasions you will still say but he could have done it on the ten occasion he needs to provide a video tape evidence of every minute he was with them for me to believe he was not guilty because they are allowed to lie, to fabricate whole stories to exaggerate, to make up claims, to profit financially to do whatever but it is on Jackson to prove he was innocent because unless he can prove he was not then I will side with them

You are advocating against basic principles of justice for which humans took thousands of years to establish.
 
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Soundmind;4257639 said:
You are advocating against basic principles of justice for which humans took thousands of years to establish.

I’m not advocating for anything. Merely stating an opinion and asking some questions which it is nice to see you have answered instead of just attacking me. Thanks for the detailed response and answers.
 
there's a huge difference between different point of view and disrespectful point of view
Indeed. You could try adhering to this yourself in the future and so many of your posts won't be removed.
 
I have read every single post here. As a person who loves Michael for over 37 years...I can say a few things. I saw Michael cry when he heard about first accuasations. I heard that boys father saying that he will take every penny of Michael. I know everything about 2005..etc, etc. We know he was heavily investigated and they found NOTHING.I was also watching many videos about Michaels body language from different experts and all of them said that he was telling the truth. Just look at Wades and James bodylanguage and you will know.As it comes to Michael and women....Lisa is certanly not the only one he slept with. There are others...but fans dont beieve them.Why is that..is a mistery to me.His bodyguards said that he had sex with women in a back seat of his car.And if Lisa said that he was wild and passionate in bed..he would not suddenly stop having sexual desires after divorcing her. He had porn with women.I will be honest here and tell you that I sometimes watch lesbian porn but I am not a lesbian. A lot of things ppl do which does not mean anything.There is no doubt in my mind heart and common sense ...he was not a child abuser.And believe me, I know in how many form they come, because I was a victim of my own father. Michael was just too good and he trusted too much. That is his only fault.
 
I have written before about my experience with my tutor who was a known predator. He did not lure anyone did not groom anyone did not have an amusement park did not buy stuff for girls did not befriend children nor groomed families he did not share his bed with girls but he never seized an opportunity to molest a child he came in contact with. He was married with children and a math teacher. What did he have in common with MJ? Nothing this is a guy with tens if not hundreds of victims. The first time I spoke about my experience was here. I hated his guts could not bare to see his face avoided him at all costs when I saw him in my school walking he was the devil to me and what he did was way much less than what safe**** and wade r accusing MJ of doing.

I knew about a girl who was raped by her own brother from the age of 4 until she was 14. No one could ever tell this guy was raping his own sister. But the girl did tell her mother and sister who sided with the brother and protected him at all costs. The girl did not go into much detail like these two scumbags and the hurt the memories the fears his presence caused her she told me about all of that. She told me about others she heard about. None of the predators resemble anything similar to MJ. You would never guess these people had interest in kids because they made sure never to draw any suspicion to them. I do also know about a known predator who used to give children money to abuse them. But again nothing remotely similar to MJ he was not a childlike he did not have toys he had a billiard cafe where kids would come and he would go after his victims. But again tens and hundreds of victims no one would say he was a good guy you can tell from a mile he was bad news acted bad news and was a really bad man by all means pure evil.

Why should we believe people who never went to the police to report abuse? I am talking about the ex employees. All were adults none of them ever walked into a police station to report what they claim to have observed. They only remembered to speak to the media when they were fired. Is not this odd? How about the hundreds of employees who were also there, who did not sell stories and stood by MJ even when he could not afford to pay their salaries? Were not they parents with children? Why the only people who saw things were the ones who were fired for things that had absolutely nothing to do with their allegations? Are we supposed to believe all of them lied to protect MJ? They were part of the conspiracy? How could he run away with all of that I mean seriously what kind of logic people use when they reason!
 
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AG5050;4257611 said:
I suppose I am doing that. In challenging what I feel before was a slightly one sided believe that Michael was innocent I am going for the things that challenge this the most as I feel like up until recently I have ignored facts that go against what I wanted to believe. Whereas all the stuff that supports MJ I am so familiar with that I haven’t brought it up in this particular discussion as in this topic I am voicing my doubts, not the stuff that makes me think he is innocent.
I understand about presumption of innocence which is why I would never think it fair or right to talk about it as an accepted fact that he was a paedohpile or abuser, and that from a legal point of view he was acquitted. But going back to the topic title part of “asking ourselves difficult questions” is asking myself whether what is legally proven or not proven sits right with me. For example OJ was found not guilty and it is widely accepted that he was.
The other user seemed to think it outrageous that I was trying to review this from a perspective outside of how it had played out by law. But for me, I think it’s important to do so as the legal justice system is not perfect.

Of course the legal justice system isn't perfect, no one ever said otherwise! But at least it has the institution and code to represent both parties in a court case and to grant their right for a fair process (in theory, of course, but at least there's the aim for that. You have to accept nonperfection and lack of guarantees in reality - unfortunately so, I won't argue that, but still that's the case). And you can't seriously claim that uninformed people would do a better job without understanding evidence and following due process!

I'm afraid the main point is not even MJ's case, but how you approach things in general here: you're thinking in extremes, have unreal expectations from the legal system, while at the same time ignoring and not appreciating enough its basic principles, and you form and value opinions based on unsufficient information and half truths above facts.

Even your reasoning now it's like going from one extreme (interpreting everything as MJ was innocent) to the other (reading his guilt into everything now). You say it's for the sake of argument, but it's not, it's just two opposite sides of bias. What you should do is research the facts without prejudice, and also accept that there's a limit for evidences/documents available - in ANY case, not just MJ's (it's only in shows like Columbo where the omniscient viewer witnesses the crime prior to the investigation, so he/she knows Columbo is always after the real criminal and unerrring), and then draw the most plausible conclusion from those facts.

You've brought up an awful lot of things here, many of them worth for a debate or clarification, but many were vague, misinformed, based on fabricated stories or details unknown to public (so it's basically unfounded guessing), or deliberately interpreted in some particular way - and many of them were actually brought up and answered several times already, so you could search a bit further to find out.

It's a good thing you read upon CSA and grooming, but now you act as an expert, claiming "text book" patterns (is there such thing at all?) indisputably - what makes you qualified to make these kind of claims? Or if you're citing someone why not give the source? Sorry, I really don't want to sound condescending or academic, haha, but you have to admit it's not really an established opinion, and too much generalisation instead of examining the particular cases and their circumstances.

By being too vague I mean e.g. when you say Safechuck is more credible - what can one say to that? That "No, he's not.", and then go: "But yes." "But no."... and so on - you see? :) You should elaborate on what makes you think so, and then it can be discussed.

And some logical inconsistencies: first you say physical evidence is rare in historic SA allegations, therefore it boils down to the credibility of the witnesses - fair enough, no one will dispute that. But then you continue with contradicting yourself by stating that the inconsistencies in R&S's claim and their money motivation don't matter - you simply can't have it both ways. All the while expecting definitive evidence from MJ, when it's also a fact that you can't prove a negative. And why do you have different standards for the opposing parties to begin with - making excuses for R&S lying under oath, but MJ being tried in court isn't enough?

About the reactions you get: you have to understand that there are people who investigated these cases for DECADES now, read the original court transcripts, there are lawyers among them helping to interpret court proceedings. R&S are accusing MJ since 2013, those who were concerned about it had plenty of time and possibility to read the court documents, so why the outrage now? It becomes tiring at some point when people knowledgeable with facts are "confronted" with opinions, logical fallacies and a one-sided film.

And still many of your concerns was addressed here, but you didn't react to them at all - after being the one who brought them up to begin with, so it's a bit confusing if you really cared or just wanted to stir things up for the sake of it (I'm not saying it's the latter, only that it isn't clear because of your lack of reaction to the very topics you brought up). You've asked questions after questions, but it's a bit like you don't really care about possible answers which makes me hesitant about whether it's worth reacting to them at all TBH.

PS: Risking to sound like an annoying smart aleck snob (which I may very well be, haha): if your (perhaps unintentional) goal is to read sinister explanations into everything MJ (or anyone for the matter) does, you will certainly succeed.
In ancient China, there was a man who found that he had lost his axe. While searching for his lost tool, he began to suspect his neighbour's son.

Because of the suspicion, the more he observed the young man, the more the young man looked like a thief. The way he walked, the facial expression and the manner of the young man's speech, etc., basically everything of the young man's appearance and behavior suggested that he had stolen the axe.

Not long afterwards though, to this man's amazement, he found his axe when he was digging in his cellar. With the recovery of his axe, when he saw his neighbor's son again, nothing about the young man's appearance and behaviour seemed to suggest that he had stolen the axe. https://www.uchinavisa.com/lost-axe.html
 
As a MJ fan for almost 20 years i know he didn't do it. now that's saying something. as someone who has mental delays i understand Michael completely. there's no telling if Michael had any mental disorders because he was never tested for but if he did i totally understand him. i'm very childlike and loves children too. i don't know is because of my mental delays or i just love kids. i would say i'm kind of like Michael myself. i love babies and children. i would never hurt a child. i would have more younger friends then older friends because i can interact better and more then i can someone who's older. it's possible he did. and as i said on another thread there's nothing wrong if Michael did had any mental disorders because he would of had still be loved as much he was already was. he was abuse as child. that's is apart of trauma. so it's possible that Michael was basically traumatize his whole life which is sad. Michael loved babies and children since he was child his self. he also loved baby dolls, plushies, super soakers, superheros,video games, etc. Me and Michael is so much a like so it's is definitely possible he had something going with him mentally but not someone who would hurt a child. it's possible he had PTSD or some people think autism but i'm no doctor so i can't say what and what he didn't have. but all i know Michael is innocent and i understand him.

i should point out my mother is a big fan of Michael and she believes Michael is also innocent. she knows deep down in her heart Michael would never do anything like that. and i agree with her. Michael was a sweet kindhearted man who wanted to change the world and that's what he did. :heart:
 
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No one is sick but you. I have zero doubt you are one of the most ardent haters bashing MJ on twitter. Why r u even here you sick liar?

AG5050 has been insulted by MJInnocent who said he was a paedophile. Don't you think this is some serious sickness ? If not, how would you call that ?
Think what you like, but please stop insulting me. You don't know me.
 
AG5050 has been insulted by MJInnocent who said he was a paedophile. Don't you think this is some serious sickness ? If not, how would you call that ?
Think what you like, but please stop insulting me. You don't know me.

You are actively bashing MJ any chance you get I know as much as that about you and find it astonishing that you are here. for what purpose are you here really? Every time someone posts anything hinting they believe MJ was a monster you come applauding them. I mean it cannot get any more obvious, can it? If you r doing that here on an MJ's forum is it a reach to say you are ardently advocating against him somewhere else? Not everyone is stupid. Move on if you believe he is guilty no one is forcing you to come here like WTF

I will use AG5050's great logic and ask you to prove you do not bash MJ on other forums and you are not an ardent hater. I am accusing you prove me wrong. Now applaud me for my great logic the same way you have applauded AG5050. It's only fair. Still, you are calling MJ every name under the sun every opportunity you get and this is something you know is true so get the hell out of here because you r so transparent and actually sick.
 
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I will not be posting at MJJC again, at least not for a while so we can please stop with all the arguing and name calling, I did not mean to instigate this. I thought this was thread was a safe place to express doubts and ask some questions that have been playing on my mind. I would like to thank those that have responded kindly and rationally and given challenging responses and given me stuff to think about.
I feel like for where I am in my head at the moment the fan community is not the right place for me to be as how I feel and what I have to say is clearly upsetting others and goes against the grain of most other fans, so I feel the right thing to do is to take a step back.

I would just like to say for what its worth that I am, and will always be a huge fan of Michael and nothing has changed that in the slightest. Ultimately I feel I have got to a point where I have explored and discussed the allegations against Michael to a point where I have nothing more to learn and gain from continuing to discuss this and I plan to put the whole thing to rest in my mind, move on with my life and continue to celebrate Michael as the artist and entertainer that I love him for. When this whole thing blows are over (which I am confident it will) and we are back to discussing and celebrating Michael for his work and achievements then I hope to become active in this community again.

I would also like to thank the mods for acting quickly on the horrendous names and accusations that were made against me by a certain user that were completely uncalled for and unwarranted, I do think its great that you are trying to keep MJJC as a safe place for all fans and opinions. And also the users that have sent me private messages of support and also spoken out against the nasty and upsetting things that were said to me.
 
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I saw some of the posts in this thread last night and it surprised me. At the risk of making myself a target too, I just wanted to say you can be a fan and still have doubts creep in. I joined the forum hoping to talk to fans away from people bluntly saying I'm silencing victims or that I've been groomed by MJ. I appreciate anyone who is willing to discuss this topic because we have not all done so before now. I do understand that some will be totally fed up of it if they have been doing this for years. But make no mistake it's not nice having doubts so please consider going easy on people that may have them!
 
for what purpose are you here really?

The rest of your intervention is insulting and doesn't bring anything, but I'm going to answer this one because it's a fair question.

The reason is very simple. I think that the people who can understand the most what you feel as a fan when you have serious doubts on MJ's innocence, or worst, when you think he was guilty, are other fans. I've been talking in private messages about that with some of them and I thank them here.
Of course, a lot of fans can't conceive the idea that MJ could have been this kind of person, so they can't hear people like me saying they are fans, and so they reject us. Sometimes very violently. To them, attacking Michael's integrity is like attacking them personally. I understand that, because as fans, MJ is/was one of the most important bases of our lives. But I think this thread is not for people who can't stand the idea that maybe MJ was not exactly the one they loved. It hurts them, and it hurts the fans they are attacking.

Although, to be totally transparent, I feel that as a community (even if I've never been very much into fan communities), we've all been cheated and abused by Michael, and today I feel the need to have some sort of connection with this community/family. Even if many don't share my opinion, it makes it easier for me to accept the loss of my illusions.

There you go. That's where I am now. But if I'm being rejected by a few members of the "family", no problem, I will deal with it.
 
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So your mission now is to stay part of the 'family' enlightening other fans about the monster that he was so everyone could now understand the grooming we have all been subjected to all those years to begin to heal with each other speaking about our experiences with this monster.

Mods can you please invite Wade and Safechuck to join this community (assuming they are not already members here) and give them a platform to speak about their abuse to open the eyes of those fans who are still blinded by Jackson's fame. We desperately need them please to heal. Can we please ban Jackson music also? It would be great frankly.

How woke it would be of our Mods to change the banner of this site to MJ Victims Community. That would make JCO8 very proud of the family and we would finally get our revenge from Michael Jackson for cheating and abusing us all those years similar to the way Wade and Safechuck got their revenge for him not supporting their film careers. Can we also dig Michael's corpse that would feel nice let's also discuss how he may have very likely raped his sons. That would also make sense. The possibilities are endless let's start the healing process now please.

For every victim we need to dedicate a whole section to redeem them and show them support. A whole section for the hero Thomas Sneddon and one for Evan please he deserves one. Dimond also deserve her own section for her relentless work to expose the monster who cheated and abused us. Can we also dedicate sections for Mac and Brett? I know they have not come forward yet but we all know they were victims and even if they were not who cares Jackson deserve to be accused even if he did not abuse because he was such a freak.
 
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https://twitter.com/TheReal_ELewis/status/1124014639036157953


Look at this victim he is still defending the monster who cheated and abused us. JC08 go please after him try to convince him to come forward we will believe him if he starts to say he was being raped in the second floor of the train station in Neverland in 1982 I swear to God we will believe him we are a woke family in the process of healing together we will believe everything.
 
I’m not on a mission regarding the opinions of others. If I was, I would be much more present here than I am. As you have noticed, I only make a few small interventions anymore on this thread, when I feel it. Not because I want to convince anyone but because I want to support the people who speak freely and respectfully at the risk of being rejected.

You are free to caricature anything you want, as long as you don’t insult others.
 
Re: Asking ourselves tough questions. [Staff Reminder: Be Respectful!]

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If a particular member's views are too frustrating for you to engage in civil conversation, just add them to your ignore list and move on. Abusive posts will be removed and you may receive an infraction for violating board policy.


Thank you.
 
Re: Asking ourselves tough questions. [Staff Reminder: Be Respectful!]

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If a particular member's views are too frustrating for you to engage in civil conversation, just add them to your ignore list and move on. Abusive posts will be removed and you may receive an infraction for violating board policy.


Thank you.

I assume MJ does not count. We can say here we believe he was raping children but we need to keep it respectful no need to call him a monster for example?
 
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I assume MJ does not count. We can say here we believe he was raping children but we need to keep it respectful no need to call him a monster for example?
If you see a post that you think crosses the line, please report it and it will be checked by staff.
 
Re: Asking ourselves tough questions. [Staff Reminder: Be Respectful!]

This thread is apparently a safe space in which you can think mj raped kids and not listen to anyone who tries to convince you otherwise.
 
Re: Asking ourselves tough questions. [Staff Reminder: Be Respectful!]

I've not stepped outside the LN thread til now. I can't believe some of this stuff is allowed. People saying Michael was a paedophile on a mjj community forum? What?
 
Re: Asking ourselves tough questions. [Staff Reminder: Be Respectful!]

This thread is apparently a safe space in which you can think mj raped kids and not listen to anyone who tries to convince you otherwise.

Believe me, haters are welcome to MJJC. Days will confirme that.
On MJJC you can accuse MJ of pedophilia.
I remember in March, a member asked to create a place in MJJC for those who think that MJ is a pedophile.
Why MJJC is a mix between fans and haters, that's something I don't have a answer for it.
 
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Stop derailing this thread please. This kind of discussion is specifically contained within this one area of the forum so that it's easy to avoid if you find the subject matter offensive.

We might not like or agree with the thoughts being expressed in here, but it's a reality that some fans have doubts. This thread exists so that their concerns can be discussed and the facts can be given to help educate them if they want more information. Some people will change their mind. Some won't.

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Now we are promoting here what Dan Reed promotes. Insane.

@Ann, beside defending the posts of every hater what do you contribute to this thread? How do you address their doubts?
 
Although, to be totally transparent, I feel that as a community (even if I've never been very much into fan communities), we've all been cheated and abused by Michael, and today I feel the need to have some sort of connection with this community/family. Even if many don't share my opinion, it makes it easier for me to accept the loss of my illusions.

I'm lost. Can you explain that?
 
I'm lost. Can you explain that?

Not fully yet. It's been a very long and complex process, both sociological and psychological. I think that loving someone you've never met is the first step of a potentially dangerous path. I'm still dealing with it.
 
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