help me, please

MyLifeMJ

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help me, please?:thinking::girl_cry:

i'm at work since 8.30 a.m. to 5.30 p.m. and online on MJJC almost all day. my computer has been on a good stuation, noone can see my monitor.

but on Monday, my table is going to change and my monitor will be seen by everyone in our office.:aggressive: so, i won't be able to come to the forum, you know i come here in secretly:secret: since i'm at work.

please, tell me, what can i do? how can i come to the forum stealthily? please, help me, i do not know what to do:girl_cry:
:boohoo::teary_eyed::girl_cry::boohoo:

help me pleaseeeeeeeeee

i'm looking forward to seeing your answers
 
well, if everyone will be able to see your monitor, I'm sorry to say that I don't have a solution :( Just take advantages of situations when nobody is around! And be quick lol. Too bad they're changing your place :(
 
Unfortunately there's not much you can do, other than use 'tabs' so that MJJC is hidden when you're not using it, and you'll have to cut down the amount of time that you're online.

Shows how MJJC is a way of life for some! :p
 
If you are absolutely sure that you can't go without being on MJJC while at work, then, like the others said, you'll just have to grab those quick opportunities, if you have them. Otherwise, I would really try to cut down. It's not worth losing your job. :no: Do you know for sure that your workplace can't just look in the computers' history to see what people have been looking at?
 
Isnt there a print friendly mode on the forum where no images can be seen, just the text? That way It would be much harder for people to see what you are on. :)
 
The person above is right, there is an original skin of the forum which has no pictures and only text, skroll to the very bottom left and choose MJJC plain No MJ.

This ^ And also change settings so you can't see signatures or avatars. :D

Yes, I have done that at work. :fear: :lol:
 
Solution while not curbing the addiction:

-Blackberry
-Iphone
-Droid
and any other personal device with Internet access.

Please don't lose your job over this. I would stop checking MJJC at work altogether, at least on the job. Not fair to your employer although I totally understand the need.
Lunch time on your personal device would be my advice.
 
The person above is right, there is an original skin of the forum which has no pictures and only text, skroll to the ver bottom left and choose MJJC plain No MJ.
Gaz..you sneaky little devil....:lmao:
 
That's one gorgeous siggy TarinJade! ;)

There are ways of deleting your history, but is that logged on a central computer at your workplace anyway?

Thank you blue_eyed_belle! And that's what I was wondering about, even though the history on a individual computer can be deleted, that doesn't mean that there isn't a central hub where all of the computers can be tracked. I don't know what kind of workplace MyLifeMJ is in.

The person above is right, there is an original skin of the forum which has no pictures and only text, skroll to the ver bottom left and choose MJJC plain No MJ.

This ^ And also change settings so you can't see signatures or avatars. :D

:lol: I love it.

Solution while not curbing the addiction:

-Blackberry
-Iphone
-Droid
and any other personal device with Internet access.

Please don't lose your job over this. I would stop checking MJJC at work altogether, at least on the job. Not fair to your employer although I totally understand the need.
Lunch time on your personal device would be my advice.

^I think this is the safest solution so far.
 
That's what I do at work...use the Plain MJ skin.....But I don't have much of a solution either...other than take quick opportunities to go online....That's what I do at work..all the time....When I have a chance, I quickly lurk, I usually don't post that much...and the computers are slower at work, and can't seem to always handle this site...I wonder sometimes if I'll end up crashing all the computers at work :bugeyed

But yeah, I don't think there's much else you can do....It sux though...it really does...:(
 
This ^ And also change settings so you can't see signatures or avatars. :D

Yes, I have done that at work. :fear: :lol:

How do you change the settings so you can't see sigs/avis? :scratch: I didn't know you could do that!
 
The person above is right, there is an original skin of the forum which has no pictures and only text, skroll to the very bottom left and choose MJJC plain No MJ.

This ^ And also change settings so you can't see signatures or avatars. :D

Yes, I have done that at work. :fear: :lol:

How do you change the settings so you can't see sigs/avis? :scratch: I didn't know you could do that!

I think it's an option in your profile/preferences setting.

I even have the plain skin on my own laptop because to me the other skins are just a tad too busy, I slide into visual overkill really fast. I also find the light blue easier on the eyes for extreme MJJC surfing. Also preferring the layout.

Also, I really don't need to let the entire Starbucks and Subway community know that "if it's aching, you have to rub it", you know what I mean? I'm all for that, but there are times and places for it that are more suitable than others. :D
Unfortunately people outside the MJ realm don't understand much, pearls before swine, I don't wanna waste precious pearls.
I already learned that the practical way- when I had a "cat call whistle" on my phone set as a message ringtone. One day my boss walked by my desk and just in that second a text message came in- and gave the impression that I am whistling at my boss walking by.

Yeah, lesson learned.
 
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All of us should be getting the sack. :rofl:

I do log on too often from work. Bad me... :eek:
 
Use it during lunch & check the site when you get home to catch up.
 
I think it's an option in your profile/preferences setting.

I even have the plain skin on my own laptop because to me the other skins are just a tad too busy, I slide into visual overkill really fast. I also find the light blue easier on the eyes for extreme MJJC surfing. Also preferring the layout.

Also, I really don't need to let the entire Starbucks and Subway community know that "if it's aching, you have to rub it", you know what I mean? I'm all for that, but there are times and places for it that are more suitable than others. :D
Unfortunately people outside the MJ realm don't understand much, pearls before swine, I don't wanna waste precious pearls.
I already learned that the practical way- when I had a "cat call whistle" on my phone set as a message ringtone. One day my boss walked by my desk and just in that second a text message came in- and gave the impression that I am whistling at my boss walking by.

Yeah, lesson learned.
Oh God..that is hysterical...I would of been mortified too if that would of happened to me..:lmao:
 
First of all, i want to thank all of you for your caring and lovely&helpful&kind messages. All of your answers make me really happy, you are awesome good friends. i don’t know what to say, you made my day!!! My english cannot be enough to explain my feelings, thank you :thanks_sign: :give_flowers: :thankyou:
 
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Thank you blue_eyed_belle! And that's what I was wondering about, even though the history on a individual computer can be deleted, that doesn't mean that there isn't a central hub where all of the computers can be tracked. I don't know what kind of workplace MyLifeMJ is in.





:lol: I love it.



^I think this is the safest solution so far.

If you are absolutely sure that you can't go without being on MJJC while at work, then, like the others said, you'll just have to grab those quick opportunities, if you have them. Otherwise, I would really try to cut down. It's not worth losing your job. :no: Do you know for sure that your workplace can't just look in the computers' history to see what people have been looking at?

That's one gorgeous siggy TarinJade! ;)

There are ways of deleting your history, but is that logged on a central computer at your workplace anyway?


i’m a statistician and work as a civil cervant. Yes, the central computer save our computer history of course. There are firewall systems and many secutiy settings, we cannot be online on every web sites, like video or some photo web sites or you know immoral things etc.
but there are thousands of people at our work in the whole country.it’s hard for the IT department to track site by site and employe by employe. They know i’m online on MJJC, but it’s not a big problem for them, because it’s a safe site. But on the other hand, it’s a problem for my own manager, because he would think i didn’t work efficiently because of MJ and i don’t want him think about me in this way, because to be honest i’m a great employe. :cheeky:
 
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Isnt there a print friendly mode on the forum where no images can be seen, just the text? That way It would be much harder for people to see what you are on. :)

The person above is right, there is an original skin of the forum which has no pictures and only text, skroll to the very bottom left and choose MJJC plain No MJ.

This ^ And also change settings so you can't see signatures or avatars. :D

Yes, I have done that at work. :fear: :lol:


Kargo, Gaz and Lorraine; thank you for your precious advices, i’ll try these :idea: :pleasantry::dance:

And :smilerolleyes:a request, please : Gaz, will you please do more things for us who have trouble being online at work, i don’t know what you can but please think something else. And again i hope your advices will work for me..
 
Solution while not curbing the addiction:

-Blackberry
-Iphone
-Droid
and any other personal device with Internet access.

Please don't lose your job over this. I would stop checking MJJC at work altogether, at least on the job. Not fair to your employer although I totally understand the need.
Lunch time on your personal device would be my advice.


Oh Pace MioDolceCuore, you can be sure i never ever neglect my job, i’m really a hardworker. But i work faster than many other employes and this give me more time to log in MJJC, thank you for your kind advices, you are so kind, thank you so much again :flowers:
 
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That's what I do at work...use the Plain MJ skin.....But I don't have much of a solution either...other than take quick opportunities to go online....That's what I do at work..all the time....When I have a chance, I quickly lurk, I usually don't post that much...and the computers are slower at work, and can't seem to always handle this site...I wonder sometimes if I'll end up crashing all the computers at work :bugeyed

But yeah, I don't think there's much else you can do....It sux though...it really does...:(


i’ll need those type of tricks dear Arklove, thank you :) :flowers:
 
knowing that there are fans just like me who are online at work also make me happy and happy :laugh:

friends, we must find new methods for this problem :girl_happy: :laugh: :thumbs_up:

btw, it's 11.54 p.m. i’m at home now and can log in safely without checking if someone or my manager is around me :giggle: freedommmm :laugh: :thumbs_up:


again again i want to thank you all my dear friends who are here with me in this thread, thank you so much,

(also sorry for my English :( )

with L-O-V-E
 
Also, I really don't need to let the entire Starbucks and Subway community know that "if it's aching, you have to rub it", you know what I mean? I'm all for that, but there are times and places for it that are more suitable than others. :D

Last time, I minimized the the browser to the thinnest I could so that no one else could see.

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
 
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