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[~God~Bless~MJ~]

I am back again mourning..I mean I am mourning all the time, but now I have to let it out here again.

Recently I met a friend with her boyfriend in a drugstore. I was wearing a MJ shirt and her boyfriend was like: Are you still griefing about him? And me: "Yes, I am. It is hard, you know! Cause he died unexpectedly.". He looked to me like an idiot and was laughing like a dumb a** and said: "haha noooooo, he did not die that way." You guyz, I am so fed up, I don´t wanna talk about MJ with anybody. They don´t understand that. They don´t know him nor his message. They only think that he is an drug addict! They are all so blinded by the media!!! They don´t see with their hearts, they did not want to accept the real MJ, the human-being with the biggest heart ever. Anywayz. I turned to his girlfriend (my "friend", I don´t see her often) and I said to her: "You know, I will get over it, life goes on." I mean I love Michael so much, I know that I will never get over his death, but I did not want to talk with them about that anylonger. She looked at me and said (laughing): "YEAAAH sure." She had that kind of look on her face that he is only a star. Believe me, I was hurt in that moment - really hurt. I mean I have enough pain from all the mourning, but then I saw once again what stupid people this earth has and that they only think about themselves. I left it to that and I told her that I had to go, cause I was under time-pressure. I mean I canno expect everybody to be sad about MJ, not everyone was his fan, but why can´t they accept that it might hurt us. That girl knows how much I love him, but this kind of love does not exist for people like that. When I left the drugstore I said to myself: "She has her boyfriend, she has her love life, her job, her future...they are going to get married next year and make a big family. I mean this kind of people only care about their happiness and not about the world, so it´s not a wonder that she doesn´t understand my love for our angel." Let them live in their fake world..but they shall never forget that death knocks on everbody´s door.

 

[Mechi]

Please don't get infected by negativity ever! You need to tell yourself that it is ppls loss if they can't see the truth. If they just eat what they are fed and get poisened slowly.
These times it is hard to find the truth. Brainwashing is done a lot. We're only secure if we question stuff and if we keep open to every side.
Not everybody is able to. The whole tabloid media is based on that. Many many ppl do not find their way through media to the truth.
Just please also know 'friends' will never disrespect you for your opinion, never. Ppl doing so shouldn't be called friends I think.

Try to stay serene and positive and go your way... you only need to be ok with the person in the mirror... that's more important.

And the rest... well chose the important ppl in your life... for example I personally want Michael to be proud... it's not most important maybe... but it's for sure more important than what these ppl said to you.

 

[Experience the magic]

Try to stay serene and positive and go your way... you only need to be ok with the person in the mirror... that's more important.

Well said Mechi :yes:

There are plenty of people who simply don't get how a man we have never met can influence us in this way. Here we do understand, because we have experienced it. It's perfectly understadable that you are mourning his passing to this day. Most of us still do. It takes time to heal from this, and you need to take that time. It doesnt matter what others think, what matters is you and your wellbeing. So take your time, heal in your own way and dont forget that we have your back. We are here for you whenever you need us ok! :better:

 

[Marilyn Monroe]

interesting thread title. hee

hope your fine, it is annoying when people assume you can't love someone when you dont know them personally and they want you to '' get over it. ''
but, we will all get through this together.

;-)

 

[CaptainEoLove85]

People that don't know, won't understand. I like this quote by Dr. Suess: "“Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.” Those who do make an effort to care, even to something that appears trivial to them, are the ones who are your true friends.

 

[A_Powerful_Mind]

I understand what you're going through completely. I had an experience with someone who is close to me in my life and when I told them that Michael had died their first reaction was "YESSSSSSSSS!" and they were smiling.

They don't know it but I have not looked at them the same since then. I don't hate them or anything, and it's not just because it was Michael, but it showed me how truly heartless and uncaring some people are for the welfare of their fellow man.

It's sad, but as said above, don't let it get to you and only concern yourself with the man in the mirror.

Spend all your extra energy being the kind of person you know you can be.

 

[BruceWayne]

Honestly, I think the thread topic say it all.

And the only advice I can give is a "quote" I live by:
"F##k you, f##k them, and f##k everybody that has a problem to do with Michael Jackson..."

Note: "F##k you" isn't aimed at YOU, just want to make that clear so you guys don't think I'm taking shots at you

 

[helena22]

She ain't one of your closest friends, right? How could she never take the time to share your pain?...Since you said you don't see her often, I assume she's one of those casual friends, not one of the best friends. I feel for you...It's in the human nature that when you go through things, you wanna get comfort from people around you. But, unfortunately, some people never care enough...

Glad you let it out and share it with the rest of us. Maybe doing it made you feel a little better? I sincerely hope so.

Honestly, I think the thread topic say it all.

And the only advice I can give is a "quote" I live by:
"F##k you, f##k them, and f##k everybody that has a problem to do with Michael Jackson..."

Note: "F##k you" isn't aimed at YOU, just want to make that clear so you guys don't think I'm taking shots at you

Haha good advice. Cursing is like blessing esp. when you feel down. I cursed a lot during the 2 weeks after Michael passed away.

 

[krism]

hi, im sorry it was a bad experience. just ignore them and keep to your heart what you know to be true. dont allow the negativity to poison your love of michael. *hugs*

 

[Tamou]

Just ignore them. Trust me, we ALL go through it pretty much daily. By family members, friends, people who supposedly 'love' us.

I'm telling you, Michael fans have the biggest hearts in the world too. I mean, I've never seen such caring people. Ordinary people don't understand this love, they're just too into this superficial world that they cannot open their eyes and see what we -and Michael- see.
I'm not saying this in a way to suggest that we're better then them, on the contrary, we've just seen the light sooner, that's all. I mean, I can just feel my love for you all burning right now. I know I sound insane, but it feels amazing.
I wish they could feel it too...