She never called him an idiot. Small potatoes, I know, but that is just to be clear. And I think it's ridiculous how some "fans" will go out of their way to bash someone for something that is obviously, and clearly responsible, feasible, and probable.
And what the heck do you look like? What gives you the right to label her "fat". She is not fat at all. It's a shame when a person has to resort to 1st grade antics to try to prove a point. It's not necessary and it is not right. MJ did call her names as he said he did. He did mistreat her. And he was big enought to apologize for it. When someone scars you with words, it can take a lifetime to get over it. As a "fan" of MJ, you should at least be able to understand this. MJ is not all good, he made mistakes. but what separated him from so many others, he admitted when he was wrong. He tried to hold himself to a higher level. And it was reflected in the kind of person he came to be.
MJ doesn't have to defend himself in this regard. he already publicly admitted this mistake. janet spoke about this when he was alive. And she is simply explaining what led her to where she is in her life. It is only common sense that being his sister, a close sister at the time, that what he said and did had an enormous effect on her. Shoot many of us never met MJ and can recognize the huge influence he had/has in our lives. Imagine being upclose and personal with him. Imagine knowing him one on one.
Now, all of the other drug addict talk, and so forth, I agree, there is no defending her on this. She deserves IMHO, all the back talk she gets for that malicious act of hers. But I cannot and I will not stick my nose down at her for this.