I don't think that anyone is "blaming" her because I think we know well enough by now that at the point Murray came down the stairs, MJ was already well past gone (sadly).......but I think that people are commenting on it being rather strange that she reportedly saw the very frantic personal doctor of MJ, he asked her to get help/security/Prince......yet she ONLY just got Prince and for "whatever reason" (and that I think is what so many find strange) decided to just completely disregard the request of a frantic doctor, to get help and security............and particularly her not explaining WHY she chose to completely disregard the request to get help/security............but states she basically just toodled on along and continued to make lunch. I would think that MOST PEOPLE in such a situation would get a real disconcerting sense that something really wrong or bad was going on and that if a doctor is frantic and asking for help/security, that something is very serious...........and they'd go get help/security.
^^ Right. Agree.
There are really two facets here. One is the usefulness of her testimony in court, and the other is impressions of her character. I do think her testimony was useful, in depicting Michael as a HUMAN BEING, who loved and cared for his children, and who obviously had some concern for their health/nutrition, and for his. So in that, she did a good job testifying.
Second facet is how she actually behaved in what
clearly was an emergency situation. Murray was YELLING from the stairs, and while she didn't know exactly what was going on, she could assume that it was a health crisis Michael was having! I know not everyone would agree, and that's ok, but I found her behavior
shocking, from a HUMAN standpoint.
I KNOW. I was once in an extreme emergency situation. . violence in the workplace, with
many casualties. People behaved in different ways, but there was ONE person -- a colleague -- whose behavior seemed so inappropriate to me, that I crossed her off my "
want to know her better" list. She seemed UNSAFE to me, then, unable to react/think clearly to something unanticipated. I wouldn't, and didn't, trust her, in the future. In the aftermath, while others were comforting people, trying to help, this person "
returned to her work," and began compulsively CLEANING, and organizing files and papers (with things that didn't need to be cleaned/organized). While I understand her behavior as trying to take back control of chaos,
I do not RESPECT her behavior. And, I feel the same about Kai Chase. Doesn't matter. I will never meet her, don't want to know her. In court, she did fine, and that's what matters here.