innuendo141
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Anyone that thinks that Paris' "separate the artist from the art" comment could have been about her father should not be allowed on the internet unsupervised.
Anyone that thinks that Paris' "separate the artist from the art" comment could have been about her father should not be allowed on the internet unsupervised.
SmoothGangsta;4296805 said:I don't really understand her response tbh. If someone makes fun of my full family and also believes my father fondled kids I wouldn't really be liking their tweets and supporting them.
Anna;4296813 said:Paris isn't responsible for how other people perceive or twist what she says and it's not her duty to mollycoddle her father's fans every five minutes. She loves MJ but she is her own person.
ozemouze;4296829 said:It’s all true in general, only totally irrelevant to what happened. Why keep repeating self-evident things, when no one questioned them to begin with (a marginal number of entitled “fans” doing that doesn’t justify putting the whole fan community in the same category and using strawman arguments). And hurray, the focus is on Paris, again, and the whole case will go down in history as a “Paris vs fans” one, despite not being that at all.
Hopefully Paris will understand one day that if there’s an interest for her music in the fan community it isn’t because of her father, but genuine (otherwise people, even though sympathetic towards her as a person, just won’t care about her work), and that “fans” who harass her don’t represent the majority of the fandom.
ozemouze;4296884 said:I don’t agree with the OP post, but it wasn’t disrespectful or commanding towards Paris or questioning her right to be her own person at all (and Lightbringer shouldn’t get insulted for it). And we all managed to disagree in a civilized manner in the beginning of this thread.
Sorry for thinking people contribute to a discussion board in order to change POVs and engage in conversations, not just proclaiming things which should then be left alone.
When your "honest opinion" is disrespectful, no. It wasn't constructive criticism, it was just ignorant and rude. Disrespecting Michael's children is against forum rules.
My interpretation of Paris' response re: 'separate the art from the artist' was in acknowledgment that while Sia may have negative views of her father, she can still appreciate her art, hence her favourable reply? Wishful thinking? I dunno..
It's evident that she replied with no prior knowledge that Sia had publicly admonished her father, but it was too late retract her statements when it become apparent that this wasn't fabricated. Instead, she's taken the moral high ground, and approached it in the most adult way.
It must be hard to have avid MJ fans constantly moderate your interactions with other people. Its unreasonable to expect her to know of every single person that has said something distasteful about her father. MJ isn't her obesssion like he is ours. Her relationship with MJ is totally different. Fans are normally well intended however they don't help themselves when they go in so aggressively. It's exactly why we have a poor reputation and not taken seriously. There's probably a degree of defiance on her side that she won't allow fans to police who she can interact with! She's not our pawn in this complex
process.
Paris has plain and simple responded to a compliment in good faith. Had she known what she knows now - maybe she wouldn't have afforded her a response. Who knows? I do think that Sia has some audacity though - esp with her later responses.
And if the real meaning behind her response was a nod that she feels there's some credibility to the allegations, as devestating as it will be, there's nothing we can do about it sadly.
And sometimes, it is good to just be quiet. She does not have to response to everything & everyone one. I am now to the point, I like it when she is quiet.Yeah I saw these tweets too and Brett Barnes replied to it as well. He said he could never do something like this, but more power to her, which means Paris. Some fans said Paris is "killing Sia with kindness" here.
I also read a long list of tweets by Paris where she explained why she can't get worked up about things anymore, how she's "zen" these days etc. But I can't deny that I wish she would go against these assholes. She used to be like a rebel in some tweets years ago, go against people that did her or MJ wrong. But she has changed when it comes to that.
Better? Worse? I have no idea, what matters is how it feels for Paris herself. I have no doubts at all tjat she KNOWS MJ was 100% innocent.
And sometimes, it is good to just be quiet. She does not have to response to everything & everyone one. I am now to the point, I like it when she is quiet.