How do we know what his reasons are for refusing? They may have been real and valid reasons...sometimes understood between all parties and sometimes not. Oh well. We didn't hear BET throwing any tantrums becuz MJ didn't show up, so obviously all is cool there....or at least they have enuf respect for him to NOT itch about it publicly. And yeah, it's probably time to let the Grammy's thing go. LOL. We can think about what it coulda woulda shoulda done for him in terms of sales, but since it's a done deal we can easily put it all in perspective and see what it didn't do to him in terms of sales. He obviously didn't suffer as a result. And we have no idea how that night would have turned out anyway. It could have been a last minute bungled appearance that COULD have cost him and brought out all the sharks. Also, I'm starting to think Michael should probably stick to those who have shown him respect in the past and who have shown to be vested in his well-being as a person and an artist. He has a history with Ebony and Jet and they came thru for him with the interview. I think it might be in his best interest, IF it was something he wanted to do, to work with the AMA's...the Grammys main competitor. Dick Clark has shown nothing but respect to Michael and his career as far as I've seen. They go way back, so to speak, like Ebony and Jet.
As for BET, we shall see what they do tonight. They could cut Neyo's bit to scrap the entire MJ reference, OR they could run it....OR they could edit something in. I wouldn't be upset either way becuz thus far they haven't advertised anything MJ-related in any way. So they're technically not due any criticism IMHO, if they decide to cut it. Now, I looked at that video posted in this thread and you have to wonder WHAT is all the secrecy about the Michael bits of the show. Those girls mentioned Neyo's performance but then quickly said they couldn't or wouldn't say more about it. It makes you wonder IF there was more....EVEN THO Michael didn't show up? Hmmm. I hope BET keeps the Neyo part in, at least, but I wouldn't be mad if they didn't. It should be a good show either way. It's Black History Month and seeing people of color being honored and recognized for their achievements is always refreshing. :flowers: