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How will he ever KNow?

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Dutchie said:
I get what you're saying, however I really think that there are some decent women out there who will see past the fame.

I mean, sure, everyone on the planet knows who Michael is. And I can only speak for myself, but apart from being a huge fan of the man I *think* Michael is, I would love to see what he is like behind closed doors. When the mask comes off and the scrutiny is gone.

I think many people (including fans) tend to forget that Michael is one of us- a human being. We are blinded by the fame and fortune, by the hype and the media. I am pretty sure that whatever girl Michael dates, they will always be intimidated by his presence and his aura. But I believe that Michael is patient enough to see through that and wait till it fades away. I also believe he waits a long time before he truly shares his heart, so that he won't get hurt.

I'm too young, but I'd love to see THAT Michael Jackson. The one that likes to sit around in his PJ's and with his children, and watch a movie. The one that spills his drinks and swears when he knocks something over. And the one that looks a mess and needs care when ill or hurt. :yes:

I hope he finds love again someday. He deserves it :flowers:
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I agree 100%! :)
 
Well i dunno, i saw that pic and it was through a mask, and pretty silly :lol: I dont count that as a real kiss at all lol

Annnnd based on what mj and debbie has said about their marriage....iiiii dunno. I'm just gonna leave it alone cuz it's all speculation.

And naw i wouldn't accept any behavior, but i would be understanding I think to little things that might be a bit quirky for REGULAR people in a relationship...cuz there are other factors that go into it, and mJ doesn't live a regular existence. That's what I'm saying lol There are things that he'll do that may not be considered...conventional. But it wouldn't be a conventional relationship from the git go. And as far as figuring out what unconventional things I'd be able to tolerate and not....that would be what DATING is for lol

I dunno i just have a sense that MJ tries to do right. He may f'k up. He probably will f'k up lol. But i mean...based on what i know about him, i'm pretttttyyy confident he's a generally good guy and not a dooshbag or a playa/PIMP in a relationship.
 
J5master said:
Well i dunno, i saw that pic and it was through a mask, and pretty silly :lol: I dont count that as a real kiss at all lol

Annnnd based on what mj and debbie has said about their marriage....iiiii dunno. I'm just gonna leave it alone cuz it's all speculation.

And naw i wouldn't accept any behavior, but i would be understanding I think to little things that might be a bit quirky for REGULAR people in a relationship...cuz there are other factors that go into it, and mJ doesn't live a regular existence. That's what I'm saying lol There are things that he'll do that may not be considered...conventional. But it wouldn't be a conventional relationship from the git go. And as far as figuring out what unconventional things I'd be able to tolerate and not....that would be what DATING is for lol

I dunno i just have a sense that MJ tries to do right. He may f'k up. He probably will f'k up lol. But i mean...based on what i know about him, i'm pretttttyyy confident he's a generally good guy and not a dooshbag or a playa/PIMP in a relationship.
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Well, I agree with you. You know, how much I'd tolerate, would totally depend on how we'd "match" in general. Ya know...communication is da key! :lmao:

And yes, I am pretty sure MJ will mess up more than once in a relationship...I mean, EVERYONE does...no one's perfect. And I agree..he's probably a pretty good, loving guy. :)

Aaaaanyways...:lmao:
 
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I understand where you are coming from but i think Michael has always had someone in his life he cares deeply for.
i wonder if he does now also and i don,t have to say for most to see who it may be. Course none of us can be sure . I think that with Michael if he fell in love it would,nt matter who it was as long as he knows he could trust her to be his partner. Lets face it most fans may dream of being his wife but that a fairy tale . Not saying never but unlikely. I just pray he meets someone that can be happy with and will always watch his back. I truely hope he finds happiness with someone worthy of his love and remember they would also have to be approved of by his children and that may not be a easy thing. The children will be protective of their father . all we can do is hope he really finds real love.
 
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Well, this is an interesting thread. Some of you guys on here are making some good points. As for MJ finding true love, I would not assumed that he did not find that special someone and I also would not assumed that he would find true love that in a fan.

A lot of his fans do not see past the image. I think MJ is the kind of celebrity that adores his fans but would not have any relationships with them because the fan sees the star and not the human being.

waaaiiit hold up. So u sayin MJ cheated on Lisa when he was married to her? LOL I don't remember that.
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Dang, J5, you are like years late! LOL.

I get what you're saying, however I really think that there are some decent women out there who will see past the fame.
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Exactly. They are out there. I would not be shocked if he had great relationships with women who were not into his fame.

Dutchie, everything you said was on point.

This is a good thread. I remember a while back during the trial days, a nice, respectful woman came forward and talked about her years being with MJ and she said some really interesting and great things about him. She was once a member of this board. :D
 
We DON'T KNOW what he is like and how he'd be in a relationship. Would you be willing to accept ANY kind of behaviour towards you ....just because it was MICHAEL JACKSON?
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Excellent point. No telling how MJ was with to any of his women. That is why, no matter how much I hate LMP, there were some things, regarding the relationship she had with MJ, that made me think twice about him. Also, the things this other woman, Shana Manatgal, said about MJ. Man, I remember when she was on ET and she said those things, I wanted to slap Mike. LOL. I love the guy, but wtf? LOL. So, Summer, you made a very valid and excellent point regarding that. You know, when we female fans say that MJ could be this great boyfriend/lover we are saying that based on what we see and read (that is positive) regarding his character, but we have no clue what he is like as a man. Heck, he can be JUST LIKE Randy or Jermaine (sans the child support drama/mess and denying the parentnity of the children mess) and do things that really make us look at him twice. I remember when we found out that MJ loved some porn, some fans almost had a fit! LOL. It was too funny.
 
J5master said:
Tell me when then and with who...lol
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LOL. LMP talked about it on Rolling Stone magazine in 2003.She was basically saying that MJ got some woman preggers and that woman turn out to be that monster. (To Debbie "supporters" sorry, but I have zero respect for the lady. If you guys can't understand that, just send me a pm. Thanks). Yeah, gurl, LMP was letting people know about what Mike did to her. Butcan you blame Mike? LOL.
 
Wow well thats a shocker. then heck, To hell with marrying him :lol: Dude bogus as hell lol I guess i was dead wrong lol
 
Please get back on topic please. And by the way, he did discuss with LMP that he intended to have chiildren. She did not want any more. Now lets get back on topic. How will he know.
Seems to me that he made the wrong decisions twice. How will he know that the woman claiming to love him is not billie Jean, Dirty Diana or even Suzie from the Dance Floor?
 
Its kinda hard talking about this without taking in consideration of his past experiences with women lol

And yeah that's not a WHOLE lot of info that MJ said. LOL MJ has never talked AT LENGTH about it, lets just say that.
 
Please get back on topic please. And by the way, he did discuss with LMP that he intended to have chiildren. She did not want any more. Now lets get back on topic. How will he know.
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LOL. Good point. I personally donot want to talk about LMP. She was a mistake like the other "wife". LOL.
 
J5master said:
Its kinda hard talking about this without taking in consideration of his past experiences with women lol

And yeah that's not a WHOLE lot of info that MJ said. LOL MJ has never talked AT LENGTH about it, lets just say that.
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I think with MJ everything is over the top and sensationalised so it is hard for him top say anything. The media has virtually silenced him and has done so for years. The one time he opened up, look what they did to him.
Now we know that they are waiting in the wings to put a spin on any real relationship he has. So he must be careful that the person h is dating won't go to the media or hug the limelight. They must want him for him, not for the fame that he brings them, They must also be prepared to be hassled by the press and see lies told about him in the tabloids. They will have to deal with more than MJ. They will have to deal with thousands of fans screaming and fainting at MJ's feet too. That is a tall order.:)
 
So he must be careful that the person h is dating won't go to the media or hug the limelight. They must want him for him, not for the fame that he brings them
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Great points.
 
Datsymay said:
I think with MJ everything is over the top and sensationalised so it is hard for him top say anything. The media has virtually silenced him and has done so for years. The one time he opened up, look what they did to him.
Now we know that they are waiting in the wings to put a spin on any real relationship he has. So he must be careful that the person h is dating won't go to the media or hug the limelight. They must want him for him, not for the fame that he brings them, They must also be prepared to be hassled by the press and see lies told about him in the tabloids. They will have to deal with more than MJ. They will have to deal with thousands of fans screaming and fainting at MJ's feet too. That is a tall order.:)
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Yep and I understand the reasons WHY he doesnt talk about it. I know all of this. Which is why we can't assess Lisa/MJ's relationship fairly or judge it. That's what Im saying.
 
Datsymay said:
Please get back on topic please. And by the way, he did discuss with LMP that he intended to have chiildren. She did not want any more. Now lets get back on topic. How will he know.
Seems to me that he made the wrong decisions twice. How will he know that the woman claiming to love him is not billie Jean, Dirty Diana or even Suzie from the Dance Floor?
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Taking a stab at this...Based on the woman being a fan, I would say that he would have to have valid information, communication and meetings of the minds to know what either of them were looking for. Getting to know anyone for love's sake is all about the heart. If two people don't feel it in their hearts, they shouldn't be involved.

A real woman with no agenda, an open mind and intelligence would be perfect for any man...specifically Michael Jackson. But that goes both ways...the man, being Michael Jackson, must know exactly what he wants and whether embarking his feelings into it is beneficial for him, plus would he be as open minded, intelligent and with no agenda (using her for publicity) as the woman.

There's no reason for whomever he would consider marriage or date worthy to be seen everywhere he goes, unless he wanted her to tag along. If he didn't want her to tag along and she wanted to tag along, what would be both their reasons and would this be a tell tale sign of a problem brewing.

Also, would he be offended if she didn't want to tag along and he wanted her by his side. Not every woman wants the fame and glamour, but would gladly be there when he came back home. Eventually, she would maybe have to show her face or not. It would depend on their arrangement and the decision agreed upon.

Answering your question...How would he ever know?

The same as we all do, for the most part. Sometimes we look for love and sometimes love finds us. If cupid shoots his arrow just right there's no stopping love and the rest is whatever is made of it between the two of them. It could be easy, it could be hard, but like I said before there would have to be a meeting of the minds and the hearts for it to work, no matter who the woman was...a fan, a friend, a celebrity or new acquaintance or a past lover.

My date book is empty. We can have a pow-wow anytime.:lol:
 
That's what so many tend to forget about Mr. Jackson, he is a human being that truly has thoughts, sensitivity, and feelings just like every one of us...

He's extremely intelligent, has great conversations, down to earth, a great sense of humor, and certainly knows the music industry inside and out...

Sincerely,
Susie
Cleveland Rocks
my pictures at myspace.com/sdeidjs
 
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Sorry guys, but this thread is overstepping our "personal life rule", and I'll have to close it. :)
 
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