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I got an MJ hater at the Naruto Forum that keeps harrassing me for some time, before he harrassed, he keeps giving me neg. reps regard anything Michael Jackson, on of those reps he gave me, he says I'm retarded, he's the retard, not me. All MJ haters are the biggest retards on the planet. Then he goes on about my tattoo, which had nothing to do with MJ at all, everytime I got messages from him on the PM, I kept deleting them for what reason "MJ Hater". If he goes too far, then I'm gonna report on him. I got a support from one MJ supporter on the Forum as well. I want that b@$^@#& banned if he continues this bullcrap to me.
 
just try to act calm and laugh. What he wants is to get on your nerves. When a hater try to get to me in forums I say "the more crap you say about him the more I love him :D" or something like that (I guess that's sounds proper for a girl :D) haha. Just try to chill.
 
That's not my cup of tea against MJ haters, the more they talk crap, they pissed me and they'r emore retarded then ever. I'd rather punch him in a face.
 
I know it's hard, but the only way to take away a bully's power is to completely ignore them and act like you don't even know they exist. I know this from personal experience. If they know you're bothered by what they're doing, they'll keep doing it.
 
PoP said:
I got an MJ hater at the Naruto Forum that keeps harrassing me for some time, before he harrassed, he keeps giving me neg. reps regard anything Michael Jackson, on of those reps he gave me, he says I'm retarded, he's the retard, not me. All MJ haters are the biggest retards on the planet. Then he goes on about my tattoo, which had nothing to do with MJ at all, everytime I got messages from him on the PM, I kept deleting them for what reason "MJ Hater". If he goes too far, then I'm gonna report on him. I got a support from one MJ supporter on the Forum as well. I want that b@$^@#& banned if he continues this bullcrap to me.
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The words "retard" and "retarded" are offensive, by the way.
 
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I would just ignore him, like others have suggested. Forums, from my experience, tend to be quite awful places. This forum is the only exception I can think of--which is why I am still here, after all this time. The other forums I've joined have been somewhat of a case of 'inmates running the asylum', complete with personal attacks, etc. which is why I'm no longer on there. It's a shame that a minority of stupid people ruin things for the rest of the members. One thing is to disagree on a topic, and perhaps criticize that topic, but another thing is to go out and harass a forum member via PM's, and off-topic posts pertaining to something irrelevant, in an attempt to incense the member.
 
Just like the others have said I would just ignore the person. Which I know is hard to do. But I know about MJ haters especially since during my last 2 years of high school I was always teased and made fun of because I was a Michael Jackson fan. Because none of the other kids could understand what I saw in him. This was back during the HIStory Era. I was forced to spend the rest of my time in high school just totally defending Michael in a school full of MJ haters. I remember in my senior year I almost put a girl in the hospital because she had made fun of my Michael. It is something I am not very proud of doing. But she really pissed me off. I even remember warning her not to mess with me. But she really did not take my warning seriously. So I took her and I really slammed her good and hard in to some near by lockers. I was like an attack dog defending it's owner's property. When it came to Michael Jackson you really did not want to mess with me back then. But since then I had learn to ignore the ignorant MJ haters because all they want to do is make you mad. Like I said I know it is hard to ignore MJ haters when all you want to do is just punch them in the face. But just try it.
 
MJsBollywoodGirl7 said:
Just like the others have said I would just ignore the person. Which I know is hard to do. But I know about MJ haters especially since during my last 2 years of high school I was always teased and made fun of because I was a Michael Jackson fan. Because none of the other kids could understand what I saw in him. This was back during the HIStory Era. I was forced to spend the rest of my time in high school just totally defending Michael in a school full of MJ haters. I remember in my senior year I almost put a girl in the hospital because she had made fun of my Michael. It is something I am not very proud of doing. But she really pissed me off. I even remember warning her not to mess with me. But she really did not take my warning seriously. So I took her and I really slammed her good and hard in to some near by lockers. I was like an attack dog defending it's owner's property. When it came to Michael Jackson you really did not want to mess with me back then. But since then I had learn to ignore the ignorant MJ haters because all they want to do is make you mad. Like I said I know it is hard to ignore MJ haters when all you want to do is just punch them in the face. But just try it.
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Wow, great story! I wish I had the guts to do that, lol.

But, yeah, PoP, just ignore the haters.
 
smoothcriminal12 said:
The word "retard" and "retarded" are offensive, by the way.
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I used that word referring "foolish" person, I looked it up. I used that on people just being too stupid, even those frickin' haters and I can use it if I want. I never used that on mentally disable people, that'd be prejudiced of me and that's not who I am.

Mikage Souji said:
Wow, great story! I wish I had the guts to do that, lol.

But, yeah, PoP, just ignore the haters.
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I wanted to, but I cannot, I'd rather fight back then stay quiet about. When they get to me, I provoke easily.
 
Hi Pop,
Sometimes reacting does nothing more than to get haters the attention they are desperately seeking. So basically I don't think it's worth more than a polite, detached response.

This is an opportunity for MJ fans to distinguish themselves as kind and honorable human beings, as opposed to haters.

So don't worry my friend, they are much lesser than we think. Ignore, step back for a while and soon he will be gone.
 
People that harass others on messaging boards (MJ hater or lover- it almost doesn't matter) have more urgent issues than your love of Michael Jackson.

If someone feels the need to harass others (mostly anonymously behind some screen name= it's rather rare that someone sending you hate mail will put their actual name under their glaring example of insecurities) per anonymous PM- ignore.

People with issues will look for someone who stands out to them, someone that triggers something in them. So to that hater your love of MJ stands out and it's something you are probably proud to say out loud, you love MJ.

You can trigger a whole bunch of things in others that are never your problem to begin with- could be your looks, your opinions, the way that you stand up for your opinion. Jealousy, envy or just tons of other issues that have nothing to do with you- but all the more with your hata. Or just the bare fact that you are identifiable by something in the grey crowd.

(these people are typically even proud of their anonymity and will even emphasize their own cowardice)

Any kind of anonymous PM sender would love nothing more than to get you into the defensive and for you to start to 'defend' yourself which is typically an utter waste of time. If you start investing time in 'proving' why they are wrong, they'll switch the topic to find something else to harass you about.

Ignore mode is the best solution, they'll go away because they crave some form of 'defense' from their object that they project their self-loathing onto. Because that is what it usually amounts to.

Not reacting might take up some strength, but there is absolutely nothing to be gained from reacting to haters of any kind. They want to see you as idiots for xyz, nothing you will ever say will change that. Misery loves company- don't be the company. They have a need to be hating on you- and they are the ones that have a need to TELL you.

People who seek genuine exchange- even with very differing opinions- will never resort to harassing others in the anonymity of some screen name.
 
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PoP said:
I used that word referring "foolish" person, I looked it up. I used that on people just being too stupid, even those frickin' haters and I can use it if I want. I never used that on mentally disable people, that'd be prejudiced of me and that's not who I am.
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I know what you meant, but whenever I see that word used to describe a "normal" human being it really upsets me because my cousin is mentally retarded and I see the pain and humiliation that he has to go through all of the time.
 
Pace said:
People that harass others on messaging boards (MJ hater or lover- it almost doesn't matter) have more urgent issues than your love of Michael Jackson.

If someone feels the need to harass others (mostly anonymously behind some screen name= it's rather rare that someone sending you hate mail will put their actual name under their glaring example of insecurities) per anonymous PM- ignore.

People with issues will look for someone who stands out to them, someone that triggers something in them. So to that hater your love of MJ stands out and it's something you are probably proud to say out loud, you love MJ.

You can trigger a whole bunch of things in others that are never your problem to begin with- could be your looks, your opinions, the way that you stand up for your opinion. Jealousy, envy or just tons of other issues that have nothing to do with you- but all the more with your hata. Or just the bare fact that you are identifiable by something in the grey crowd.

(these people are typically even proud of their anonymity and will even emphasize their own cowardice)

Any kind of anonymous PM sender would love nothing more than to get you into the defensive and for you to start to 'defend' yourself which is typically an utter waste of time. If you start investing time in 'proving' why they are wrong, they'll switch the topic to find something else to harass you about.

Ignore mode is the best solution, they'll go away because they crave some form of 'defense' from their object that they project their self-loathing onto. Because that is what it usually amounts to.

Not reacting might take up some strength, but there is absolutely nothing to be gained from reacting to haters of any kind. They want to see you as idiots for xyz, nothing you will ever say will change that. Misery loves company- don't be the company. They have a need to be hating on you- and they are the ones that have a need to TELL you.

People who seek genuine exchange- even with very differing opinions- will never resort to harassing others in the anonymity of some screen name.
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I know, but still I deleted the recent PMs from him anyways, but as I said, if he crosses line not just the stupid crap he says about Michael, if he said something illicit about my tattoo, I'll report on him and he'll be banned for it, just wait. I found one MJ fan at the Forum and possibly had my back.

smoothcriminal12 said:
I know what you meant, but whenever I see that word used to describe a "normal" human being it really upsets me because my cousin is mentally retarded and I see the pain and humiliation that he has to go through all of the time.
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I feel for your cousin, I prefered to use "mentally challenge" or "mentally disabled", You know found a comment on the video Michael shows vitiligo during the Yokohama 87' concert, an individual claims Michael is autistic, the other individual says autism is a form of "retardation", I thougth to myself when I see that comment..."BLASTPHEMY!" Autism is not a form of retardation, it's a genetic thing. I knew some people who are mentally challenged.
 
PoP said:
That's not my cup of tea against MJ haters, the more they talk crap, they pissed me and they'r emore retarded then ever. I'd rather punch him in a face.
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Just tell them that it's not Mike's fault that their mommy or daddy didn't love them or that it's not Mike's fault that their boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on them, if they have one, and they will live you alone.

No,but really the haters in general are people who crave for attention. So, if you can't ignore them, use irony when dealing with them. This is how i deal with them and i have noticed that that pisses them off and in the end they tend to leave you alone. Or just say to them that you would like to participate in their game but you just don't like the subject.
 
kasi said:
Just tell them that it's not Mike's fault that their mommy or daddy didn't love them or that it's not Mike's fault that their boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on them, if they have one, and they will live you alone.

No,but really the haters in general are people who crave for attention. So, if you can't ignore them, use irony when dealing with them. This is how i deal with them and i have noticed that that pisses them off and in the end they tend to leave you alone. Or just say to them that you would like to participate in their game but you just don't like the subject.
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You're right, they do want attention, but in a very stupid way. In fact, they just love picking a fight with anyone, I'll admit that I'm a fighter, but they know I refuse to give in until they quit.
 
I agree with all the above-stated points. One can have a debate about things without resorting to personally insulting another poster. Disagreement and plain harassment are two very different things--and the fact that this poster is doing it via PM tells volumes of what his intentions are--if it's just an innocent debate about whatever, why not just post it in the general forum?

Like Pace says, they're just projecting whatever issues they have on you--they have no idea who you are, and you're just going about living your own life, and being a private citizen. So, continue doing that, and don't let them get to you.
 
I never wanted him to get to me, but he keeps on provoking me, it's very personal. Plus I get real sick and tired of him giving bad reps. because he's an MJ hater, I'll give him that right back. I post in general forums to other MJ hater telling if you don't shut the hell up you'll spend your etenrity in hell. I don't actually say that, but I wish I did, I keep telling them they're frickin' dumb.
 
I never wanted him to get to me, but he keeps on provoking me, it's very personal. Plus I get real sick and tired of him giving bad reps. because he's an MJ hater, I'll give him that right back. I post in general forums to other MJ hater telling if you don't shut the hell up you'll spend your etenrity in hell. I don't actually say that, but I wish I did, I keep telling them they're frickin' dumb.
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If I told people that I'd have no-one left to hang out with in heaven. Gonna be kind of boring when you're up there.

On a serious note, isn't there an ignore function on that forum?
 
You do realize that the more you let them provoke you, and the more reaction they get out of you, the more they'll be inclined to do it, right? That's why Michael always ignored people who were rude to him--he knew they wanted to see a bad reaction, and he never gave them the pleasure to get one. You should do the same.
 
Come on guys, telling me to ignore him and "don't let him get to you", the more he whatever, that's not helping, I keep telling you guys everytime I got a PM from him I deleted them to prove that I'm indeed ignoring him and if he goes too far and started with me one more time, I'm gonna report on him and see if he gets banned.

I wish there is an ignore function too, but all I can do is delete every PM I got from that idiot.
 
Start a rumour that he came onto you in a sexually provocative way but you rejected him. You have to be totally serious about it though and make out you're both completely gay. The minute you indicate it's all fiction it breaks down and looks completely weird.

You can have a lot of fun. I can do it for you if you want.
 
kopwatcher said:
Start a rumour that he came onto you in a sexually provocative way but you rejected him. You have to be totally serious about it though and make out you're both completely gay. The minute you indicate it's all fiction it breaks down and looks completely weird.

You can have a lot of fun. I can do it for you if you want.
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I hope you NEVER find yourself in the situation that someone makes up stories like that about you. Believe me, that pain s*cks like nothing else- especially if it transfers from 'online only' into your actual real life.
On top of being a completely unacceptable idea in itself- it's double unacceptable being suggested on an Michael Jackson board.

Sorry, call me humorless and pc, but you probably never went through something like that, or you would never suggest such a thing.
 
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One of the many rules I live by is this:

If you can't take it, don't give it.

That's the key thing you're missing. The would-be recipient in this case is far from innocent. If you don't know that, I suggest you read the thread again before you start preaching to me.
 
kopwatcher said:
One of the many rules I live by is this:

If you can't take it, don't give it.

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I have a rule that says 'Do unto others as you would have them do unto you' (which kinda includes not to do horrible things even when I consider someone a jerk- not a big friend of 'eye for an eye', I'll leave that up to Karma)

Considering the pain Michael had to somehow live with, I find it unfathomable to even suggest games like that.

But I do find a lot of wisdom in your rule actually. It could mean the same thing as my 'rule'. I know I wouldn't be able to 'take' an untrue accusation, so it stands to reason that you don't dole out untrue accusations. I like your rule!
 
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Yeah, stalking somebody like that is normal?

If somebody gives me crap like that, he'll get it back...........DOUBLE!!!!! Like sending him a virus or something to let his whole pc crash.

But if he recieves it back the way kopwatcher said, isn't that the same as karma? Get something bad for doing something bad?
 
kopwatcher said:
Start a rumour that he came onto you in a sexually provocative way but you rejected him. You have to be totally serious about it though and make out you're both completely gay. The minute you indicate it's all fiction it breaks down and looks completely weird.

You can have a lot of fun. I can do it for you if you want.
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WHAT!!? I can never do that. What kinda help is that? And besides I never ask for anyones help, anyways if people keeps on saying that Michael's gay, I'm telling they're gay, people calls anybody gay with no reasons makes them gay.
 
Ignoring is really the best thing to do. You could also turn it all around which has worked for me a few times in life, but that works better IRL. Since this is online, just ignore it.

May have been suggested but you could just report it to the owners of the site.
 
Pentum said:
Ignoring is really the best thing to do. You could also turn it all around which has worked for me a few times in life, but that works better IRL. Since this is online, just ignore it.

May have been suggested but you could just report it to the owners of the site.
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I kept tell you I'll report on him if he's at it to me again, it's been a month since he last pulls a crap on me. Another note, I didn't ask for anybodys help.
 
heres my advice witch pretty much the same as everyone eles is to just ingore this person. they do want to get a rise out of you bc thats how they get their power bc if they make someone eles feel down then they feel better about themselves bc they have a shit life and feel the need to take it out on ppl who havent done anything to them bc it makes them feel good. ive been harassed by my own friends and more so after michael died. i was so hurt and all i could do was sit and cry my eyes thinking what did i do and why are they treating me like this? i stayed strong and just didnt say anything to them back. they know and should know that what they said hurt me but they didnt care. not one time did they ever say sorry for hurting me. im still struggling with it but im getting better. the best thing for you to do it just dont give this person and pleasure in making you feel bad. if worse comes to worse just remmeber that this person is just a sad little troll with nothing better to do then to harrass ppl on a computer screen. report him and hoppefully things will stop. just do what you feel needs to be done and dont let it get to you. its hard i know trust me not a day goes by that i wish i could smack my friends who hurt me but i know that by not doing anything it makes me the better person reguardless bc i dont have to result to hurting someone just to feel good.
 
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