MJAN Open Letter to the Jackson Family - UPDATE MJAN 2nd Open letter PG 19 (Not a MJJC letter)

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I agree with him too (I don't know him either). Everyone knows including his family that Michael didn't want his kids in the media like this. Yes they were at the memorial and they accepted the grammy lifetime award but those were rare occasions. Michael would be rolling in his grave if he saw Paris posing for a picture with Joe's perfume bottle. He would be outraged with some of things with his kids. Whether you like Michael or not it was very plain to see he wanted his kids left alone. When they are adults then the story will be different but for now the less we see them in the media the better. We can't tell Katherine how to raise them but people don't want to see his kids used or exploitated in any way. Especially knowing how much Michael loved and protected them.
 
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Very harsh. Where's the love and respect for the Jackson family, I see none. Nobody is perfect, I am not and they aren't either. I understand that fans are upset about many aspects of the Wales tribute concert, but to do it like this, I don't know....

Amen to that! Famous or not, Michael was their son, brother, uncle, nephew, father, not a fan commodity or property. If for nothing else, the Jacksons don't deserve to be attacked like that. Are some of their business dealings questionable? Yes, but that doesn't give anonymous people who don't have ANY personal connection to Michael the carte blanche to treat them like criminals. If some fan jumped on me like that while I was burying and mourning the homicide of my loved one, I'd tell you all to go straight to HELL. Shame on you......
 
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Amen to that! Famous or not, Michael was their son, brother, uncle, nephew, father, not a fan commodity or property. If for nothing else, the Jacksons don't deserve to be attacked like that. Are some of their business dealings questionable? Yes, but that doesn't give anonymous people who don't have ANY personal connection to Michael the carte blanche to treat them like criminals. If some fan jumped on me like that while I was burying and mourning the homicide of my loved one, I'd tell you all to go straight to HELL. Shame on you......

Sheila, some fans had more personal connections to Michael than members of his family. We know they spent years without seeing each other. And I'm pretty sure, if you had to bury an uncle, you would not try to use his name to sell stuff. You would respect your deceased relative. So no one would have to say anything. That's the exact reason that caused this letter to be written : the fact that THEY use him as a financial commodity, and not their son and brother.
 
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They're down with it cuz it's the easy way and they don't know any better. It seems to me as if Katherine raised her children that way. Look at them, many of them were deadbeats at one point, had financial troubles numerous times. Most of them haven't worked in a couple of decades. Most of them believe regular work is 'beneath' them because they used to be famous in the 70s. Just because Michael was fortunate enough to earn whatever he earned doesn't mean all of them are entitled to it. How many more millions did Michael have to spend on his relatives for them to be satisfied?

You help them once, you help them twice, you help them thrice, he put the majority of his siblings kids through school. What else is he expected to do? People say they were there when he needed support, now I'm gonna be bold here and say it out loud. SO WHAT? So what if they were?! You want them to get something in return because some of them decided to support him when the man was battling his life?! Isn't that what 'family' is supposed to do?! To be there? And after everything Michael's done for them, the least they could do to return his numerous favors was to be there, without expecting anything back from him in their minds.

There is no doubt in my mind that they would have led regular lives somewhere across the United States WITHOUT Michael. Katherine sees no harm in exploiting Michael if it benefits the rest of the gang, because she's been doing just that throughout Michael's entire life. It's like they are trying to 'punish' him for achieving whatever he did. But again, it wasn't Michael's fault that he was gifted while the others were not, it wasn't Michael's fault that he was disciplined while they weren't, it wasn't Michael's fault that he posessed the work ethic the rest of them lacked. It wasn't Michael's fault that he made it big while they were buried in oblivion. It wasn't Michael's fault that he was who he was, and the others were not. Michael did MORE THAN ENOUGH for them.

And you know maybe, just maybe if they had behaved differently toward him, without all the jealousy, resentment, bitterness, lies, scheming- involved, maybe he would have thought better of them. Maybe he wouldn't have distanced himself from them as early as he did. I'm even surprised Michael managed to reach 50 with all the madness involved in his life, madness pure nastiness he was facing from all sides including from his family at times.

When Michael said he was a very strong and that he had rhinoceros skin, I wasn't entirely convinced, in my mind I thought he was trying to hide his real feelings, that he couldn't be that strong. But now being older and seeing a tiny bit of how much crap he actually had to deal with from everywhere, including his family. I totally believe him. Michael was indeed a very strong man, and he had to have had rhinoceros skin. He must have been a strong man, because I know I wouldn't have made it as long as he did with all the people around.

And it's even sadder to think what the man outlived/dealt with only to be killed at the hands of an incompetent arrogant asshole as Murray. You'd think this family would actually fight for justice, the least they could do is fight for Murray to be convicted but it seems as if speaking out against Murray - the man who killed their son/sibling- is even too much to ask from them. It's a travesty, a real travesty to witness all the madness unfolding after Michael's death, and no Michael did not deserve this, he did not deserve to have a family like this one, he does not deserve to have siblings and parents interested in money only.

It's not right that many of them sold interviews 1 week after Michael died selling him out, selling his children out, it's not right for them to say Michael and his children were not blood related yet 4 of them did just that. It's not right for them to say Michael was an addict, a junkie in denial, them comparing Michael to a horse that had to be led to water was not right either. It's not right for some of them to go around and proclaim their sympathy toward Murray, it's not right for them to go around and state Murray is the fall guy, when by all accounts he is the one who killed Michael.

It's not right for them to sell interviews to the press saying they've forgiven Murray. The Jackson's are willing to jeopardize this entire case against Murray for the sake of the mighty $. And that's just not right no matter what justifications some might come up with. NO NO NO


You nailed it!
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Look what rapper named Bun B said last year:
http://www.mtv.com/news/articles/164...st-peace.jhtml
oh that was a tear jecker and he is so right. Why is that so difficult for family members to understand that?:cry:
 
Some of us fans (like me) might be too chicken to say anything like this out loud. I applaud this letter not only because it's true of whats really happening in this situation, also because of the respectful way it is addressed (EVEN THOUGH most of us are clearly upset)! Even if it was not respectful... I might still agree with it cuz what they're doing to Michael, his children and his legacy is NOT respectful at all. I know some say we have no right to get in the Jackson family business... But this is Michael we're talking about. So far, we(fans) WERE THE ONLY ONE That didnt want anything from him except his LOVE, Health and Music. We are still the ones that Dont want anything from him except to give our love and loyalty to him after his passing.

Most Jackson family members tend to forget that we WERE Also there for his trials and tribulations since the 1993 case. Taj might say he flew to where Michael was when that horrible ordeal started in 1993 But he might have forgotten that we were also there every step of the way even though we were not as Close. So I'll say to him that he and other Jackson Family members have NO RIGHT to tell us what and who to fallow and decide if we are true fans or not because WE ARE TRUE/REAL/LOYAL/LOVING Fans of Michael Jackson not the Jackson familiy. Michael said on his 45th Birthday? he said "My children are your children..." remember? Well even though we might not take it literally, we should consider what Most of the Jackson family is not... that the children are too young to be promoting, getting $$... etc for the other family members.

We'll always disagree on these kinds of things but we have to remember who we are here for. It's for MICHAEL not the Jackson family... (most of us at least). Michael loved them... ofcourse, and i do to, to a certain point... Some ppl. NEED to know that the dislike for the family didnt just start after Michael's passing... it was before that too. If you want to find out more about that do some research on it. What cut it for most of us is whats been happening after his passing. Lets not get into an argument without knowing the full story since decades and over ago.

Dude,
twinklEE Thankyou sooo much for your post... you said it all! :heart:


L.o.v.e.
Romi
 
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Sheila, some fans had more personal connections to Michael than members of his family. We know they spent years without seeing each other. And I'm pretty sure, if you had to bury an uncle, you would not try to use his name to sell stuff. You would respect your deceased relative. So no one would have to say anything. That's the exact reason that caused this letter to be written : the fact that THEY use him as a financial commodity, and not their son and brother.

You obviously missed the point of my post. Fact is, whether they were hanging out with each other 24/7 or not, they are still his FAMILY and he came from them. You, I and many others are just fans and to assume that Michael (who was fully aware of how his family is) would co-sign someone speaking so hatefully towards them is delusional at best. None of us have the best family in the world because none of us are perfect, but to dismiss and disrespect that family bond he had with them just because you bought some albums, concert tickets and t-shirts is foul at best. I've been a fan since their Motown debut (which is probably longer than you've been ALIVE) and I would never write a letter so disrespectful, tasteless and crass as that, regardless if I think some of the things they're doing are cool or not. There is a way to express concerns and differences better than that and, at the end of the day, it really is none of our business, ANYWAY, nor do we have a say in their personal family matters just like they don't have a say in ours.



BOOYA!!!
 
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I think the recent news that Prince is in Berlin with BOTH Mann and Weisner says quite a bit about the situation these children are in? Mann, a porn-producer, and Weisner once sued Michael (or tried to) for 64 million dollars. In Katherine's contract with Mann, it says to "EXPLOIT" the children. That is EXACTLY the language that's used. And now Prince is WITH them? I don't think it takes any leap of the imagination to say Michael would be APPALLED by what's happened with those children since his death.

I don't really care about Michael's family one way or another, EXCEPT for his children. He kept a distance from his family, for a REASON, and now we are seeing more, and more, of WHY.

You can "choose" your friends, but you can't choose your family. Except for his children, and a stipend for his mother, Michael didn't include his family in his will, which is a pretty clear statement on his part?
 
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You obviously missed the point of my post. Fact is, whether they were hanging out with each other 24/7 or not, they are still his FAMILY and he came from them. You, I and many others are just fans and to assume that Michael (who was fully aware of how his family is) would co-sign someone speaking so hatefully towards them is delusional at best. None of us have the best family in the world because none of us are perfect, but to dismiss and disrespect that family bond he had with them just because you bought some albums, concert tickets and t-shirts is foul at best. I've been a fan since their Motown debut (which is probably longer than you've been ALIVE) and I would never write a letter so disrespectful, tasteless and crass as that, regardless if I think some of the things they're doing are cool or not. There is a way to express concerns and differences better than that and, at the end of the day, it really is none of our business, ANYWAY, nor do we have a say in their personal family matters just like they don't have a say in ours.

I totally got the point of your post, and I still dont agree with what you're saying. :)

I dont agree with the way this letter is worded, some sentences go too far, regarding what you can tell other people. No one can tell me how I'm allowed to grieve, or what I'm allowed to say. But I dont see family bonds as sacred. As I said before, you can love your family but not like them. You can be much closer to people with whom you share no DNA, you can even love them more than family members. Being members of the same family is an accident of nature. Some people are lucky, others arent. Being my mother, aunt or sibling doesnt make you a respectable person, doesnt mean you'll do right by me. I wouldnt mind people criticizing members of my family if they were acting like most of the Jacksons these days. Personally, I see no hate in the letter, anger certainly, tactlessness too. But I see no respect in most things most of the Jacksons do, no respect for us, for Michael, and for his kids.
I think we do have a right to express our concerns. I also think there are better ways to do it. Could it change anything? It could, if all fans understood that supporting ventures using the kids is wrong. Will it happen? Considering the number of people following Paris on twitter, I doubt it. I am extremely worried about those kids. Not because of what Michael would have thought, because of what I know, myself, from my job. I never assume what Michael would have liked or not. He didnt tell me, I was not in his head. This being said, he did things I didnt approve, and I certainly do things he wouldnt either.
It has nothing to do with the "coolness" of what the family does. That's seriously underestimating the damages they're doing to his kids, and his legacy. And that, yes, is MY problem. Like my neighbors' kid being abused is my problem. Because Michael means so much more than concert tickets or shirts.



"I've been a fan since their Motown debut (which is probably longer than you've been ALIVE)".... tsk tsk tsk... Being that old and experienced should have taught you not to assume you know everything about the people you talking to through a screen...
 
There should be another letter after the families latest actions with jr and weisner.
 
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