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How can they be doing ok?? How??

YellowButterfly

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How can MJ's kids be doing ok now? In all the interviews that I've heard, people always say that the kids are happy, having fun, playing with their cousins and getting on with their lives. Yet, every day I'm an emotional wreck. He was their father and they can move on like normal after a month. I didn't even know Michael personally yet I still can't find happiness because I'm grieving and hurting so much...how is this possible...
 
well no one would TELL the press if they were having emotional break downs everyday. I tell people that i'm fine when i'm not and the same probably happens for them. I doubt they are just like "okay, daddy's gone...next! what fun things can we do" There are little sad stories of Paris cuddling her bear at night that MJ gave her and things like that, but it would be horrible if people were blabbing to the press about their anguish
 
i know exactly how you feel... Im also an emotional wreck, but i like to think that they are sorounded with so much love and hugs that the pain is berable. Mine isn`t though... Im just glad i had the chance to see him live once.... How i wish he would come back, i wouldn`t care if he never sang another song, or ever preformed again..... He was the Jesus of our time, im more and more certain of that every day that goes by... God wanted his son the chosen one back.. We had him, fore a measured time.... (i don`t meen to offend any religion when i write this)...
 
Some younger children around Blanket's age don't understand the concept of death. Other people don't mourn forever. Some cultures even celebrate death. Each person is different and don't have the same reaction as other people.
 
They are children. Children play and keep active. I'm sure their daddy is in their minds and hearts every second of every day.
Also being so young, the magnitude of their loss may not have hit them yet. :cry:
 
tinkerbella said:
i know exactly how you feel... Im also an emotional wreck, but i like to think that they are sorounded with so much love and hugs that the pain is berable. Mine isn`t though... Im just glad i had the chance to see him live once.... How i wish he would come back, i wouldn`t care if he never sang another song, or ever preformed again..... He was the Jesus of our time, im more and more certain of that every day that goes by... God wanted his son the chosen one back.. We had him, fore a measured time.... (i don`t meen to offend any religion when i write this)...
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I understand.. I kind of see it this way too, Michael was a great gift to earth. He was a gift to the world. Its incredible to think about all the achievements he has done in his life. He has contributed the most to charities, sold the most records, and he is just so beautiful inside and out. I am so inspired by him and he has inspired me to be who I am today. I miss him terribly and love him alot, he has my whole heart.

The children have the love of all the Jacksons, and theres alot of Jacksons so they have moral support around them 24/7.. Im sure they cry and think about the times they had with Michael and are sad too but we just dont hear about it.

I will always be praying for Michael and his children and hope they are ok:angel:
 
Imagine what the tabloids would say if they were told the kids were still devastated and crying all the time, they'd twist that and make some kind of mockery out of the poor children :( Anyone who has ever lost someone they've been close to will know that it takes much longer than a month to accept the fact they're gone, especially if it's a father/mother. The children are obviously still torn up inside but the family have to act strong and try and move on for the children's sake. It could be damaging for the children if they are left alone with their sadness.
 
Natashaaa said:
Imagine what the tabloids would say if they were told the kids were still devastated and crying all the time, they'd twist that and make some kind of mockery out of the poor children :( Anyone who has ever lost someone they've been close to will know that it takes much longer than a month to accept the fact they're gone, especially if it's a father/mother. The children are obviously still torn up inside but the family have to act strong and try and move on for the children's sake. It could be damaging for the children if they are left alone with their sadness.
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I agree.
I think the Jackson family just wants to shelter the children and divert the media attention from them, so they just say "yeah, they're doing fine", and never really much more than that so as not to give any rag any base for making up stupid stories.
It's obvious that the children are grieving terribly, I mean - we've all seen Paris at the memorial, haven't we?
I've read in last Sunday's newspaper that apparently Jermaine said that Paris is sleeping with a doll that Michael gave her because it still smells like her daddy... And that they've got a therapist there, too, to help them when they feel too overwhelmed.
The way I feel sorry for these children... No words. :cry:
 
I think kids see death differently to us. Yes they were sad, but they are too young to dwell on subject matters. Kids float from one distraction to the next continuosly. When one is a child, everything is interesting, they are probably very stimulated right now by their lives. This isn't to say they dont' miss their father, they imo are treating his death the best out of anyone.
 
Everyone is different. I have a friend whose father died when she was a teenager and a week after the funeral, she was already back to school and hanging out like nothing happened. A lot of people were suprised because she was so close to her Dad, but it only started to really set in for her later on. She told me that when good things happened to her especially, that's when it was the hardest.

That's what i've heard from everyone who's lost loved one's actually. The kids obviously miss MJ a whole lot i'd imagine, but it's times like their Birthday, Christmas,etc. that they'll really miss him. Those are the hardest times. Everyone deals differently though, I know they're coping as best as they can. I pray for them and the family all the time. I hope they can remember the good times and not be sad all the time. I'm actually glad they are smiling and coping well (at least for the time being).
 
Michael once said "dont believe it, unless i tell you". so i'd rather say - we know nothing of how the kids deal with it. Paris tears were enough for me. Her voice and her look on recent photos (Michael would be shocked!!! his children are in all magazines!!! :( :( ) made me feel that she's grieving.
 
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