That person was me and why do I have to apologize? StacyJ didnt knew for a FACT until Janet confirmed it.. and that was my damn issue, if you dont know for a fact then its better not to speculate at all. StacyJ was just making some damn assumptions based on the very few shots of Janet during that memorial and since she didnt knew for a fact, yes I said it was wrong of her because at that time she had no idea.
What I also said was that its obvious the family has been grieving in their own special way- there is absolutely no right or wrong way to grieve. Do they have to burst out in tears in public to please the fancommunity? If Janet never cried up til recently, does that mean she wasnt grieving the loss of her brother?
StacyJ kinde make it look like the family havnt looked devastated at all or grieving which i also think is not right.
Im sure Janet has been grieving, doesnt it say a lot that it took almost a year or more for her to even be able to listen to Michaels music and watch his videos? She says in the interview that she is still mourning. It seems like Janet has been avoiding the pain, trying to escape and not realize the fact her brother died. That is also grieving.. like I said, i believe they have been grieving -in their own way and noone has the right to say they are grieving the right way or not. its getting old now.
Something tells me ppl are gonna make a big deal out of this saying Janet is throwing MJ under the bus again.. sighh! Michael has also been very vocal how his family called him names and teased him and that words can be more hurtful that physical violence sp ppl should be more understanding with Janet regarding this. Did we see any fans saying MJ was throwing his family under the bus? No so stop it god damn it. Dont be such a hypocrites.. its obvious both Janet and MJ suffered alot from the verbal bullying.