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oldmoon20 said:
Awww what's wrong:better:
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It's quite complicated. There is a guy in my class, I begin to actually have feelings for him. He has a girlfriend but we have really fun together!
He sends out the wrong signals to me and it's very hard because we are joking with each other, hugging each other constantly and messing around all the time, so I'm sort of confused, what does he want? Guys are the best at sending out the wrong signals.
Maybe I'm over-reacting ... :unsure:
I have no idea what to do, cause I smile everytime I see him, but I know I
shouldn't because as I said before, he has a girlfriend. :sigh:
Okay, now that I read it, I'm over-reacting. But at the same time, you have to be there to know what I mean. It's hard to explain, cause he gives me these looks and I don't know what I should do.. :sigh:
 
pandakatt said:
It's quite complicated. There is a guy in my class, I begin to actually have feelings for him. He has a girlfriend but we have really fun together!
He sends out the wrong signals to me and it's very hard because we are joking with each other, hugging each other constantly and messing around all the time, so I'm sort of confused, what does he want? Guys are the best at sending out the wrong signals.
Maybe I'm over-reacting ... :unsure:
I have no idea what to do, cause I smile everytime I see him, but I know I
shouldn't because as I said before, he has a girlfriend. :sigh:
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Oh man that does sound complicated! I have never had a boyfriend , but what I believe you should do is like him as a friend and don't let your feelings overrule you! Don't worry and everything is going to be ok! :hug: Also I hope this makes sense because I have never experienced a relationship before and tell him how you feel ; don't be afraid! :hug:
 
Sweetiegirl86563 said:
Oh man that does sound complicated! I have never had a boyfriend , but what I believe you should do is like him as a friend and don't let your feelings overrule you! Don't worry and everything is going to be ok! :hug: Also I hope this makes sense because I have never experienced a relationship before and tell him how you feel ; don't be afraid! :hug:
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Same here, never had a boyfriend, so I'm kind of new with this. Yeah, I should like .. take it easy and see what happens...
 
pandakatt said:
Same here, never had a boyfriend, so I'm kind of new with this. Yeah, I should like .. take it easy and see what happens...
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Pray about it because I have been in a situtation where I liked a guy from school, but didn't know if he was the right one a couple of years ago! I didn't know if he had a girlfriend at the time! :hug:
 
pandakatt said:
It's quite complicated. There is a guy in my class, I begin to actually have feelings for him. He has a girlfriend but we have really fun together!
He sends out the wrong signals to me and it's very hard because we are joking with each other, hugging each other constantly and messing around all the time, so I'm sort of confused, what does he want? Guys are the best at sending out the wrong signals.
Maybe I'm over-reacting ... :unsure:
I have no idea what to do, cause I smile everytime I see him, but I know I
shouldn't because as I said before, he has a girlfriend. :sigh:
Okay, now that I read it, I'm over-reacting. But at the same time, you have to be there to know what I mean. It's hard to explain, cause he gives me these looks and I don't know what I should do.. :sigh:
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:better:
These situations are always hard.

He has a girlfriend so I suggest you just keep your actions friendly and nothing more. If he wants to flirt with you or do 'more then friendly' things with you tell him no. Well that's what I would do at least. Let him know you do like him but when he has a girlfriend you're just a friend.

You're not over-reacting.:hug:

I quite honestly think he's a jerk for messing with you like that. He's also a jerk for doing that stuff with you when he has a girlfriend. It's not fair to either of you.
 
oldmoon20 said:
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These situations are always hard.

He has a girlfriend so I suggest you just keep your actions friendly and nothing more. If he wants to flirt with you or do 'more then friendly' things with you tell him no. Well that's what I would do at least. Let him know you do like him but when he has a girlfriend you're just a friend.

You're not over-reacting.:hug:

I quite honestly think he's a jerk for messing with you like that. He's also a jerk for doing that stuff with you when he has a girlfriend. It's not fair to either of you.
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exactly, it feels like I'm in the middle. Should I flirt with him? But I can't really do that because he has a girlfriend, but it feels as if he wants to be more than friends with me. I should take it easy and see what happens ..
 
pandakatt said:
Thanks for the advice, appreciate it :flowers:
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You're welcome! One of my friends had the same situation also and I told her don't flirt with the guy that she likes because he already has a girlfriend because you don't want to mess with someone who is already taken! You don't want to get into that problem and he is the one who is doing wrong by cheating on his girlfriend! Just remain friends and don't let your feelings get to you! :hug:
 
Sweetiegirl86563 said:
You're welcome! One of my friends had the same situation also and I told her don't flirt with the guy that she likes because he already has a girlfriend because you don't want to mess with someone who is already taken! You don't want to get into that problem and he is the one who is doing wrong by cheating on his girlfriend! Just remain friends and don't let your feelings get to you! :hug:
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Thank you ! :huggy: :)
 
pandakatt said:
exactly, it feels like I'm in the middle. Should I flirt with him? But I can't really do that because he has a girlfriend, but it feels as if he wants to be more than friends with me. I should take it easy and see what happens ..
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First I'd like to say I don't know exactly how you feel but I have a friend in a similar situation so I can sympathize with you. :better::flowers:

My advice. No flirting whatsoever unless he and his girlfriend break up. Be a friend to him but once he starts to want to be more than just friends let him know that won't happen unless he has broken it off with the other girl. It will be hard not to flirt with him but it will be for the better.;) If he asks why you stopped then simply tell him why. :)
 
oldmoon20 said:
First I'd like to say I don't know exactly how you feel but I have a friend in a similar situation so I can sympathize with you. :better::flowers:

My advice. No flirting whatsoever unless he and his girlfriend break up. Be a friend to him but once he starts to want to be more than just friends let him know that won't happen unless he has broken it off with the other girl. It will be hard not to flirt with him but it will be for the better.;) If he asks why you stopped then simply tell him why. :)
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Thank you! :hug: I feel a lot better to be honest. I feels good to talk to someone about it, cause I can't really talk to the other one in my class, then he will know ...
 
82Thriller84 said:
Well, well, well. . . We will have to see :fear:
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:cry:..... we'll defo see about that :shifty:
pandakatt said:
Thank you! :hug: I feel a lot better to be honest. I feels good to talk to someone about it, cause I can't really talk to the other one in my class, then he will know ...
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Aww, Panda I'm sorry to hear about yuor situation.
Well, since everything has been said already, I agree with the others. Just let it be friendly until he breaks up with that girl ;)
Then you can make your move.

feel better soon :huggy:
 
theoriley said:
:cry:..... we'll defo see about that :shifty:

Aww, Panda I'm sorry to hear about yuor situation.
Well, since everything has been said already, I agree with the others. Just let it be friendly until he breaks up with that girl ;)
Then you can make your move.

feel better soon :huggy:
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Thank you :) Yeah, I shall do my move later :shifty: :laugh:
 
growl people!


been having a bath for the first time in ages! :baby_bath:

I've managed to burn my face today redder than a thriller jacket! :rant: I swear all I have to do is dangle my skin in the sun for a second and it burns :weeping: I'm like one shade away from albinisim I swear! its nooo fun! the sun reflects off my white arms and blinds me :lol: so I went to waitrose and sunscream is £14.99!!!!! for like a tiny bottle!!! I could go through it ina couple of days! I can't afford summer :weeping: Maybe I should just buy an awesome umbrella instead :D

:sun: :umbrella:

look like a shrivelled tomato :blush:

charlie what pillow website is this????
 
prismsagainst5live said:
growl people!


been having a bath for the first time in ages! :baby_bath:

I've managed to burn my face today redder than a thriller jacket! :rant: I swear all I have to do is dangle my skin in the sun for a second and it burns :weeping: I'm like one shade away from albinisim I swear! its nooo fun! the sun reflects off my white arms and blinds me :lol: so I went to waitrose and sunscream is £14.99!!!!! for like a tiny bottle!!! I could go through it ina couple of days! I can't afford summer :weeping: Maybe I should just buy an awesome umbrella instead :D

:sun: :umbrella:

look like a shrivelled tomato :blush:

charlie what pillow website is this????
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Evening shrivelled Tomato! :lol:
 
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