earthlyme
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ginvid;3018064 said:As I said before, if you feel someone is going too far, than report the person. It is very simple. And members are not aware what goes on behind the scenes. I get tired of people assuming what is taking place in situations they are not privy to. And they act as if being a moderator is so easy. And we sit around doing nothing. Mods are giving of their time, to try to make it a place where people can feel free to give their opinions. It is often times not easy. And it is a no win situation where you're hated from people who think you are not acting and from people who think you are acting too much. It is often thankless work that people don't appreciate. Mods are not here to tell people how to think and feel. We are here to react when needed and address the concerns that members have. But, we have our own opinions as well. We try not to take lightly the responsibility in keeping the forum in order. We try not to be people who censor everything that comes out of a person's mouth. And it often means we have to go against what we personally feel.
And if a person feels Randy is behind the interview, so what? There are many opinions on this board where the posters have nothing to back them up but their opinions, their gut. As long as they are implying it is just their opinion, can they not have it? Fans should be aware that they will hear many opinions. You have to be reponsible for what you accept as fact. I myself have still been asking for info about what Randy has done so that I can make an informed decision and until I do get more info I cannot share the opinions of some on this board. But I do not try and stop them for feeling that way. Maybe they do know and just don' t want to share with me? I don't know.
I think as I said before that is going to take both sides giving a little. If you feel a person is demeaning you for no reason, you have much power in your hands to address it. Sometimes we do not understand why something is offensive to you or what is hurtful about it until it is pointed out. Because we don't see it the same way. I don't know what more to say about all of this. I don't know how to make people understand what is acceptable here. It is very tiring mentally.
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Well Said… Thankyou!!!
L.o.v.e.
Romi