Re: Wade Robson files claim of childhood sexual abuse against MJ-Estate
If I were an outsider/non-fan with no knowledge of this, I would find it strange that he didn't say any encouraging words to REAL victims of child sexual abuse. Real sexually abused kids always talk about "awareness" and speak out FOR the other victims. Robson said nothing of the sort in support of real victims of sexual abuse. It really wasn't even about his own alleged abuse. It was all about damaging Michael Jackson.
Yes, this.
He's talking in total generalities and even repeated word for word for Lauer asked of him. Word for word. While I understand that a cheesy morning show isn't the place to delve minute details of personal things - you don't speak in generalities. I understand not going into very specific details of sexual abuse (I have related specifics in an affidavit and usually those that had access to it don't even know what to say).
The thing is though that those who lived through go through great lengths describing the mental shackles around your brain - and especially how that made you feel. You can't help it, I think I even did that in my last postings. You spill the beans and usually can't help but mentioned specific situations and you also have more than one of these situations ready to pop from your mouth - the the point that others might even think you're a bit freaky because they're so specific.
I heard this whole 'he role played and trained me' - about what situations, what did he say, how did you feel etc. Specifics, not these generic talking points. Abusers also have more than one or two lines - talk to a couple of those who lived it and they will be able to spontaneously write down entire novels of specifics.
Seen countless counseling sessions and so many abused start out rattling off situation after situation, just because they can finally get it out.
Something is totally off, have yet to see someone sitting so calm and raising a single outbrow at himself when saying 'my truth'.
Especially the beginning of the interview sounded beyond scripted, bad acting.
I'm sure the next few interviews will be adjusted.
To me . It is clear You have some BIG issues robson . You are quite scary .I am psychologically and emotionally completely unable and unwilling to understand what you have claimed.
You make no sense whatsoever.
A relative of mine suddenly started out accusing a spouse of rather odd things, infidelity etc. Family was beyond rattled. It then escalated to accusations of "there are plans to murder me" etc. Mental illness is one of the worst things to witness - what I have noticed was that total stoic attitude and the hanging on to specific phrases etc - as if the mind is jumping to phrases just to find a literal grip.
Family was beyond rattled, horrified etc. Later on came a break when it became obvious that there was mental illness involved, but the damage was sure done.
I don't want to speculate too much but something is totally off and accusations of that kind after 'peaceful' years happen often on the roadway of mental illness, too.
Browse some mental health boards and you'll be pretty saddened to read with what kind of accusations family members sometimes have to deal with - only to discover later on that a loved one had slipped into mental illness.
Usually that dredges up all sorts of actual issues that had been gone unspoken. Conflict, unprocessed anger, love, expectations etc.
Who knows what other issues are boiling below the surface, the whole 'I was brought to the US". If he knew all along that his was experiencing sexual abuse - well, I'm not sure that someone over the age of 20 does not realize that sexual relations with a 7 year old are not an expression of love. Mental retardation is something else altogether, but I don't buy that a male of his age in 2005 would not have realized that he too was abused - when your abuser is on trial.
And hell would freeze over before I would have a BBQ with my abuser, numb feelings or not.
There was no regret about supposedly having aided an alleged pedophile. The guilt of that would be horrifying, you'd be explaining that at every opportunity, explain the dynamics etc. Nada in that interview. Nothing.
I'd be inventing new words to explain it to Lauer - not copy his words. I'm sure that'll be 'corrected' in the next interview.
I would for the next interviewer to point out that a claim for money for being filed. "No amound of money is going to make me go away"- cognitive dissonance, Wade? You filed a monetary claim. He didn't even flinch when saying that. If he doesn't understand how he contradicts himself on that - what else isn't adding up?