That's the thing Tinketbell, this statement" "Michael was BLESSED and he lived and loved perfectly the way he did, UNCONDITIONALLY..You have to chose are you A Michael Fan or a Jackson Family HATER ? You cannot be both !! For LOVE cannot exist in the same place as HATE !!" I snot true. Michel was blessed, but no man has ever lived and loved perfectly the way he did, UNCONDITIONALLY except Jesus. Since you didn't know the ends of out of Michael's life, how do you know he loved unconditionally? Who are you to say that Michael never hated something or someone just because you have this idea that he was a saint. Even the Saints from the Bible didn't live an unconditional loving life. Even Martin Luther King, Jr, Mother Teresa, and Gandhi who I personally consider modern saints didn't lived lived and loved perfectly with unconditional love. These are humans, not God nor Jesus. None of us, even the best of us, can ever be perfect. Love and hate is also part of being human. To say you can't hate is like saying you're can't be human. You can hate and despised actions without hating the person.
Also this comment is not a fact: "it's simply states a FACT..how can some Fans say they love Michael's children but hate their Family" There are some members in my own family that I do hate or at least strongly dislike, but my dislike doesn't carrying over to their children. Michael's kids can love their family all they want, but that doesn't mean I am obligated to like any of them. Especially when they do something that harms what Michael stood for or his kids. Do you really think it is healthy for force a 7-8 years to go on tv when they clearly don't want to or forced them to sign autographs when they had done nothing but be someone's parent? Aren't we telling the kids that they are better because they got the blood of Michael Jackson flowing threw their vains and they have a loyal legion of fans who will follow them to the ends of the earth because o that fact. That is not something you want to be teaching any child.
Also: "They are a Family, they are Michael's family, they are as ONE in their hearts, a FACT" This is not a fact, this is an opinion. A family doesn't have one heart because it is made from individuals who all have their own morals, beliefs, and faith. Family is also not limited or dictated by blood. We can chose our family because people who we consider friends can become our brothers, sisters, or cousins. Why do you think the army has a motto that said army of one and brothers-in-arms.
You still also haven't answered my question. If Michael forgave Gavin, would you protect him from fans the same way you're doing for his family? In fact by your logic since Michael loved unconditionally, you have no right to judge anyone who badmouth Michael. Michael loved so he surely wouldn't hate Gavin and wouldn't approved of fans talking about him. He didn't hate Sneddon, despite writing a song about him, so we have no right to judge Sneddon on his action. The same with Gene. Michael never spoke bad about him, so we must not call Gene greedy and amoral because Michael wouldn't want that.
Are you honestly telling me that you're willing to do all the above?