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Beautifulyl said :clapping::angel:"Mr.Jackson keep being yourself...YOU already know the only thing that ever mattered is YOU being YOU..!"
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Look! Michael 20 years ago! He lost it then too I guess. But he still sold 30 million records with his latest album then, and several years later with new material too! Gee Williagers Batman! That's amazing!
Even though I think this is quite funny, I would wish we wouldn't do it.
The general puplic - the people who needs to buy his music if he wants to come back - they do not approve this. They will say he is weird and a freak. AND talking about stuff like this, it's hard to disagree. I've never ever seen a man in my town dress like this. I know MJ is not anyone, but I understand why people who aren't fans, would say he is weird.
It doesn't do anything good for MJ when the tabloids are bringing these stories! So I just wish he wouldn't do it. This makes him an easy target!
Not at that times when he dresses against other peoples expectations or taste, I am sure he does this in full awareness and know what it will bring....... he cares about the tabloids when they really hurt him in his human rights or his right to be loved or left alone.
I have been a fan of MJ for over 20yrs, just before people attack me for what I'm about to say and love and respect MJ and his family.
Now how does MJ expect the media and public to stop calling him ***** or ***** when he comes out dressed like this. I think it is rather sad. Also how would you feel if your dad went around dressed like that.
I think these outfits are getting tired. I just feel so sorry for him, as he doesn't need to dress or act like this to be noticed.
L.J. Thanks for your thoughtful, and brave, post. (I'll attempt to match your bravery here. LOL)
Folks, this is a discussion board, and people have a right to their opinions within the parameters of respect and common sense (and board rules). It is ok to have an opinion. It is not ok to bash people if their opinions are different from yours. Doing that just creates strife and negativity and is about as useful as arguing about politics or religion at a cocktail party. Within the aforementioned parameters, people DO have a right to express themselves.
In terms of the photos. . . .. I'm all for personal expression/expression of self. I also agree with L.J.'s "funny farm" remark, only I'd couch it more in terms of "a few fries short of a happy meal. " It would be great if we were all free (from abuse and criticism) to express ourselves. With that said, there are certain cultural norms that make for smooth functioning of human interactions. I would not wear shorts in an Italian cathedral, for example. Lots of Americans (and some others) do just that. I would not wear army boots to a wedding. And so on. Paradoxically, I would like to be free to do so, and I would still choose not to.
MIchael gets a lot of abuse from the press. His fans catch abuse, too, from those things that he does that seem. . . unusual. It's not right, but it does happen, at this moment in cultural evolution. He does not like being called "a few fries short of a happy meal." His choices are, to understand and conform to a minimal parameter of what is usually accepted, or not. If not, sadly, there will be abuse. Such abuse is NOT right, but it is reality. One must pick one's battles. If one's personal expression in clothing is really, really important to one's identity, then go for it.
It's a complex situation, but his choice of attire IS "problematizing." What we have here is a middle-aged, immensely talented rock-star who has basically been shredded by media for decades. This must be painful. Also what we have here is a middle-aged, immensely talented rock-star who chose to go out in an outfit that is not from his own culture, and in mainstream, American culture, looks very much like a dress. That's ok. But, on top of that (literally) is a fedora, a very male-associated item. This fedora is paired with a lacy woman's scarf, although Michael has not shaved and is sporting stubble. OK? This might, just possibly, have flown without the zorro mask, but. . . . . .seriously? I mean . . . . . . . really?
Personally, my vote would be for him not to have gone out that way, because the negative outweighs the positive in terms of media reaction, and this particular battle is simply not worth it.
This is my opinion, and I respect the opinions of others even if different from mine.
Victoria
Define Normal!!!!