Today we did our monthly visit to Forest Lawn and Debbie Rowe was there.

I really hope seeing and feeling some love from us (Michael's fans) helps her feel included and diminishes the anxiety and sadness she would have been feeling about being hated. It's really sad to think she was feeling that way. :better: I hope the letters stop!
 
I can’t understand how anyone can call themselves MJ Fan and at the same time send hate mail to his children's mother. They should be ashamed. Have we not learned anything over the years? Have we not seen what hatred has done to our beloved Michael? Well, we have seen it, felt it and we have also fought against it. Why do the same to anyone else. Treat others as you want to be treated.
Thanks for showing Michael Love once again, That's a nice story. I miss Michael more than anyone could imagine.

Yup, there are "fans" that do the same thing to Michael's brothers and sisters. I mean really, do you think Michael would appreciate these kinds of gestures to the mother of his children and siblings?
I know for a fact MJ would've given us all a big thumbs up if we sent hate mail to Tom Sneddon, but would've been pissed to know the same was being done to his loved ones.
 
thanks for posting this. that pic is heartbreaking. bless u guys for going up there all the time and taking gifts and treating debbie like that. im gonna go sometime guess its just making that decision on when to do it. but frankly it scares me to u know what and i think to myself well i have forever to go there so i guess i can take my time *sigh*
 
As always on the 3rd of the month, myself and members of our Michael Jackson fans of southern California took our trip to Visit the Grave of Michael Jackson. We bring cards, letters and gifts from fans around the world. We have been doing this for the last 6 months. Some fans from this site have joined us and many have sent flowers and cards.

Today, like any other 3rd we were at Forest Lawn, when one in the group noticed Debbie Rowe driving back and forth. At first we thought he must be seeing things but then she drove up and we were surprised it was really her. Heidi and myself the group founders walked to the car to welcome and introduce ourselves.

What we were faced with was a woman who was in great pain. The moment she stepped out of the car She began to cry and gave us amazing hugs. After spending some time with Debbie today..we realized two things, she is devastated by the death of her former husband Michael Jackson..and she loved him more than we ever imagined. She is a grieving woman who loved MJ and her children. The second thing we learned is that, she is a kind and lovely woman.

When we asked Her why she was driving back and forth, and this broke my heart..she said she was afraid to stop because she saw us all there and was afraid to stop, she thought that Michael's fans hated her because of all the hate mail she receives. We assured her there was no hate for her with us only gratitude for giving Michael two of the three most precious gifts of his life.

Debbie Rowe was a friend to Michael Jackson for nearly 20 yrs before they married and she is the mother of his two lovely children, Prince and Paris. Let me tell you..looking at her, you see Paris everywhere. I hope that fans will be kind when it comes to her because if you had seen what we saw today...she is a really special person.

We gave her one of our new JUSTICE4MJ tee shirts and she said she would ware it. We have pictures of the visit which will be on our site soon. http://www.facebook.com/group.php?v=wall&ref=nf&gid=324254322849

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I'm so glad you all were nice to her. The media and all this stuff all the time... paints people a certain way but sometimes if you actually get to see the person one on one you realize what they are really like.... kinda like Michael.... what was that he always said, about you can't judge a person until you sit down and talk with them face to face?

I bet she is in so much pain and nobody understands her :( Thank you for showing her there are fans out there that will embrace her and know she's human too :heart: Really really well done :huggy:
 
Am I missing something here? I didn't think fans were allowed near Michael's grave???

For the record, Debbie should've earned every fans respect after the Bashir rebuttal and her testimony at the trial.
 
Am I missing something here? I didn't think fans were allowed near Michael's grave???
u can go into the grounds and upto the door of the building and see him from looking through there but u cant actually go into the building itself
 
I would hesitate to post a photo of her ... I could have done this too but ... It it from the facebook site and I thought this one could do only with the allowance of the owner, may be you had it.
 
u can go into the grounds and upto the door of the building and see him from looking through there but u cant actually go into the building itself

Thanks, I didn't realise this.

Does anybody know what it's like there? Does he have an epitaph?
 
Thanks for sharing this :( we are all hurting edpecially those who were close to michael at some point. It's a shame debbie has to fear fans sometimes people go too far. I wouldn't say I like her but I some respect her for being a good friend.

I'm still wondering about the demerol injections she allegedly gave michael in the early 90's though.
 
Does anybody know what it's like there? Does he have an epitaph?
theres pics of it on the net. after karen posted the pics on her FB. dont think theres one


btw is that schaffel with debbie. thats the only thing i find dodgy.
 
thanks. that makes me cringe. its like ppl are dancing on his grave. same as haters etc being at the memorial. its like the final insult
 
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thank you for posting this photo. heartbreaking.:(

was she allowed inside the building to the grave?
 
:cry: This breaks my heart... :weeping:
She has my respect. Thank you for being there for her! :yes:
And thanks for sharing this story!

Edit: Oh my... Seeing that picture... :weeping:
 
She must break down when she see's her children, especially Paris's speech at the memorial and Prince all grown up at the Grammys. Or even just seeing how much Paris looks like her and seeing Michael in Prince, that would kill her.
 
I wonder if the kids have had those supervised visits? I know its none of our business but I'm curious just to know if any have taken place.

That pic of Debbie hugging a fan is so sad, she must feel so alone :cry:
 
Ok now, hold on.. She was afraid to visit her ex-husband's final resting place because she was scared of the fans?? That's just... Uh, what can one say to that. :sigh: That paints a sad picture of Michael's fans. I'm glad she did stop and that you were all there to comfort her.

That picture of her shows raw pain, no doubt about it :cry:
 
My heart goes out to Debbie. She's in deep pain and still grieving very much. I'm glad you were there to comfort here and to assure her that not all MJ fans hate her. I certainly don't hate her. She gave Michael two of his precious children because she wanted him to be a daddy. And seeing her children speak, so mature, must tear at her heartstrings too.
She's an amazing lady.
 
Thanx for sharing this beautiful story, you guys!
And also thanx for going back there every month!
Micheal deserves this honor from every person in this world who loves him and this loves reaches him through you. Thank you!
And if you may ever meet Debbie again, wish her all the strength, she is a good person!!
 
I wonder if the kids have had those supervised visits?
last we heard docs had been filed saying she hadnt.that was a while ago though so it might have changed?
 
When we asked Her why she was driving back and forth, and this broke my heart..she said she was afraid to stop because she saw us all there and was afraid to stop, she thought that Michael's fans hated her because of all the hate mail she receives. We assured her there was no hate for her with us only gratitude for giving Michael two of the three most precious gifts of his life.

Debbie Rowe was a friend to Michael Jackson for nearly 20 yrs before they married and she is the mother of his two lovely children, Prince and Paris. Let me tell you..looking at her, you see Paris everywhere. I hope that fans will be kind when it comes to her because if you had seen what we saw today...she is a really special person.

THANK YOU for giving her the respect she deserves. If I knew where to send fan mail to her, I would. She was key to helping Michael being vindicated in that trial She always stood by him, and should be adored by fans, not scorned.
 
I can’t understand how anyone can call themselves MJ Fan and at the same time send hate mail to his children's mother. They should be ashamed. Have we not learned anything over the years? Have we not seen what hatred has done to our beloved Michael? Well, we have seen it, felt it and we have also fought against it. Why do the same to anyone else. Treat others as you want to be treated.
Thanks for showing Michael Love once again, That's a nice story. I miss Michael more than anyone could imagine.
Stupid minds feel the need of hate, I don't understand how anyone can hate the woman the guy had children with.
 
Just saw the pic of her.....she looks so heartbroken :(
Poor debbie :cry:
 
She proved herself a real friend during the trial when prosecution called her and she broke all their hopes testifying for Michael and praising him against their expectations.
I'm sure she really loves Michael. Another prove - she was never on TV after June 2009 as far as i know.

I agree with you. I don't understand why Michael's fans would send her hate mail. Maybe it's just the ones that are jealous of everyone that was close to Michael. Just a few unstable bad apples probably. I am glad that she got to meet some kind and decent fans. Thanks for posting this story.
 
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