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Re: Frank Cascio "My Friend Michael" book release date Nov 15 ,2011 / Excerpt posted at @pg151
And btw he mentioned the partyes he thrown in neverland
And btw he mentioned the partyes he thrown in neverland
I can't believe how many excuses people make. So it's OK if folks surrounding MJ just throw some ish out there and then say "Hey, I don't know if this crap is true, but let me put it out there" so people can speculate, assume and jump to their own conclusions. SMH. How would you feel if your friends did this, spread stories that they don't know if it's true, including regarding your medical condition, which every human being has the basic right to be private and in the process contributing to negativity the media is spreading about you?
And fans wonder and even question Michael about distancing himself or cutting Frank out.
The above mentioned mistakes of Frank are not just some random mistakes of his but they relate to his relationship with Michael.
It happens all the time in my family, especially if the person is dead so it's no big deal to me. You should see some of our facebook accounts.
Everyone has their version of the truth, good or bad. This is just Frank's version of events so I don't know why you are so upset and seem to have such issue with fans who are willing to look at Frank's words instead of just dismissing them.
Are people never supposed to write or talk about Michael again?? whatever we knew about Michael at the time, we just freeze it there? Or only allow fantasy like story telling and exclude anything that relates to controversy... it's been 2.5 years now.. Would it make a difference if people start writing books 10 years later? When will it be ok without it considered "selling Michael out"..
Books were made about Michael during his life, and will always continue...
That's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about if Frank feels inclined to talk about Michael's flaws and what Michael did to him after the trial, then perhaps he should also mention what he did to Michael before the trial. Those things are there in trial transcripts. Like throwing wild parties at Neverland while Michael wasn't there, which resulted in depletion of ranch resources. Inviting people to Michael's bedroom while he wasn't there. And so on. You may say things like these happen. Not good but sometimes things like these happen between friends. True. But if Frank doesn't tell about these, do we get the whole picture about their relationship? If he doesn't tell about this or if he doesn't tell about his relationship with Friedman, do we not miss something which could perhaps be another explanation of why Michael behaved with him the way he did after the trial? That's why I'm saying if he intends to keep it perfectly real perhaps he should tell not just about Michael's mistakes but about his own as well.
Has this book changed people's opinions about Michael? If this book is mostly positive and the media only reports anything negative like the drugs then that is all the general public will hear about Michael. The fans don't need to be convinced how great Michael was. My concern now is the public and non fans. I would like to see people be less negative of Michael. I know not everyone will come around but it's better than nothing.
I didn't read the book but in general I don't know if books are the answer to helping Michael since it seems more fans will read it than non fans and the media only want to report what they want and that is usually the negative stuff. Jermaine and now Frank said they wrote books to help Michael yet I wonder if it has done that at all.
Add to this Frank telling Friedman that MJ faked the spider bite... How did that benefit or help Michael and for what purpose was done in the first place?
Anyway, I personally am not desperate for the positive information in Frank's book. I could've done without it perfectly fine if that meant no additional negative crap in the media about MJ.
Frank's book is certainly better than those books, no doubt. However he too has his biases. In this case we learn every detail about Michael's flaws but he doesn't say anything about the conflicts they had because Frank took advantage of his association with Michael.
But, Frank said he wrote the book to help the misconception that is out their about MJ didn't he? So if it don't help MJ or benefit him and contardicts many things we heard like the Spider bite incident and who is tellin the truth about it and many things then what purpose does it then serve other then to create doubt on either him or MJ?It doesn't have to beneft or help Michael..it's purpose is to tell the truth.
When I read the book, MJ is a human being who would make mistakes but MJ tried his best to be a good father, friend, mentor. MJ gave his talent to the world. I actually admired MJ more after I read the book. He really is a very strong and determined person and he never gave up.
But, Frank said he wrote the book to help the misconception that is out their about MJ didn't he?
you should have read the book before making assumptions, because your post is flawed.
- Frank did wrote the parties in his book (all the people involved, alcohol and women)
- Frank did wrote due to some visitors / event Michael asked him to leave Neverland
- Frank also wrote that sometimes both Michael and Frank liked the same woman and it created a tension
- Frank also wrote some people around Michael accused him of taking throwbacks - taking money
- Frank also wrote that not only Michael his brother Eddie as well thought Frank abandoned Michael during 2005 trial
he's not painting himself as a saint. he mentions a lot of his own flaws and accusations / allegations against him as well.
I think that the fans that are against this book have not actually read the book........that's the only logical explanation that I can come up with.
The book is a good read......not perfect, by any means, but the positives outweigh the negatives hands down. I bought 10 books to give out as gifts. I have one left. If someone has not bought it because they don't want to put money in Franks' hands, let me know. I'll be happy to let you have it.
bluetopez;3558689 said:^ lol I thought he had promise to clear up many misconceptions about MJ? Was he only talking about the allegations? Well, then no wonder.
respect77;3558697 said:OK, thanks for clearing that up. At least he doesn't paint himself a saint then.
MoeJack;3558696 said:I don't know guys, it seems like alot of people didn't actually READ the book. It was such a loving and warm-hearted account of his time with MJ. People make it seem like Frank was vicious in the book talking about Michael's negativity. Not at all! Throughout the entire book Frank does nothing but praise Michael over and over again and says how much he loves him and everytime he's away from Michael he feels he just can't live without him and ends up coming back. When Frank talks about the wonderful times they had together, he just says it the way it happend. Maybe some things people might think weren't very nice of Michael. But it's ethically more proper to tell the whole story then to just say all the good stuff and skip all the "bad". In my humble opinion, that would be just as bad as saying all the bad stuff and skipping the good..because either way he wouldnt be telling the truth and giving a complete picture of Michael the person. But just to reiterate, there wasn't actually anything that negative in the book that Frank mentioned. Michael was a human being. He was talented and charismatic, but a human being nonetheless. He had his good days and his bad days. Made good decisions and bad decisions. It's normal. I think for alot of fans, they've just built up this non-existant image of Michael in their heads where he's some kind of apostle or something. Michael was a normal guy just like you and me..and that's essentially what he'd been trying to tell the world and the press through his entire career..
I don't know guys, it seems like alot of people didn't actually READ the book. It was such a loving and warm-hearted account of his time with MJ. People make it seem like Frank was vicious in the book talking about Michael's negativity. Not at all! Throughout the entire book Frank does nothing but praise Michael over and over again and says how much he loves him and everytime he's away from Michael he feels he just can't live without him and ends up coming back. When Frank talks about the wonderful times they had together, he just says it the way it happend. Maybe some things people might think weren't very nice of Michael. But it's ethically more proper to tell the whole story then to just say all the good stuff and skip all the "bad". In my humble opinion, that would be just as bad as saying all the bad stuff and skipping the good..because either way he wouldnt be telling the truth and giving a complete picture of Michael the person. But just to reiterate, there wasn't actually anything that negative in the book that Frank mentioned. Michael was a human being. He was talented and charismatic, but a human being nonetheless. He had his good days and his bad days. Made good decisions and bad decisions. It's normal. I think for alot of fans, they've just built up this non-existant image of Michael in their heads where he's some kind of apostle or something. Michael was a normal guy just like you and me..and that's essentially what he'd been trying to tell the world and the press through his entire career..