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ArabianGirl~AllTheTime

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Let me just say that I am so glad I have a place like this to come to. Nobody and I mean NOBODY I know understands my love and appreciation for Michael except for maybe my older brother, who converted me to Michaelmania when I was very little. He told me about MJJC and I have been in love with it every since I started coming here. I was so sick of people telling me to get over MJ because he is dead now. One person actually told me to stop listening to his music if I loved him, I told her if I stopped listening to him, that means he truly will be dead. Nobody quite gets it like all of us here. I am so glad I have this place to come to! Long Live The King!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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Awww I feel your pain.....I can't never get over his sudden death!! It's amazing everything that I've achieved in life have been with the help of his music!! so I'm not about to get over this man yet!! I'm with you!
 
I totally understand you. I just don't like mentioning it around people, because I just know they won't understand me and well us either.
I'll never be over this, it's all just to horrible:cry:.
I Love Michael too much to just forget about him and stop listenig to his Music!

I'm with you 2 on this always!
 
I'll sign this!! I'm one step away from telling my hubby to get over his job, or whatever he's constantly talking about (I wouldn't know, cause I'm preoccupied.. :lol:) Anyway, it's great to have this place when no one else understands you!
 
Wonderful thread!
Yes I love this site:D I'm here everyday and can stay on all day,which I usually do. I have everyone around me saying " Your not over him yet?!" They actually even comment when I'm looking his pictures, videos, or even on here and they say "that (won't say) still on there?"
I love being able to express my love for him freely without being criticized without having some stupid hater say "He was (wont say)!"
I hate confrontations anyway, always have but with MJ I will stand there and tell the haters why he wasn't a (won't say) and I tell them that he had a rough upbringing. One person even told me " I did too but you don't see me popping pills."
One of my friends always brings up the face that I wasn't really a Michael Jackson fan until his death which I kick my butt every day for that and that she lived through the 70's and 80's and she watched all he did and how she "knows" he bleached his skin. I tell her no he had vitiligo and ugh it just makes me so mad how people are so stupid to where they can't take the time to try and love him.

Sorry about the long post but I just had to give an example of why I love this site soooo much!
 
^Some people are just stupid! :( My hubby goes around telling me these stupid jokes like they had to buy 12 burial spots so he could be recycled properly... WTF?? :throwingstones Guess who's not getting anything tonight..
 
Campari said:
^Some people are just stupid! :( My hubby goes around telling me these stupid jokes like they had to buy 12 burial spots so he could be recycled properly... WTF?? :throwingstones Guess who's not getting anything tonight..
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:shock:wth!!
Man I would have made him sleep in the dog house outside. People know not to say crap about MJ without immediately apologizing.
My dad actually said "man you don't see me going around talking about Elvis, listening to Elvis, having posters of Elvis." I laughed at him and told him Michael is different than Elvis.
 
People tell me to get over it all the time. I usually get angry and than go off on my own and cry my eyes out over it. I am not dealing very well with the loss of Michael it shocked me so much. 30 years he has been a part of my life and now he is gone I feel like my heart has broken.

I am so glad I joined this site because now I have somewhere to go where I can talk about Michael without people thinking I am strange. I do not understand people they are so nasty about Michael they will not even try to understand him it makes me so sad.

I love it here everyone is so great :)

Julia
 
Julia said:
People tell me to get over it all the time. I usually get angry and than go off on my own and cry my eyes out over it. I am not dealing very well with the loss of Michael it shocked me so much. 30 years he has been a part of my life and now he is gone I feel like my heart has broken.

I am so glad I joined this site because now I have somewhere to go where I can talk about Michael without people thinking I am strange. I do not understand people they are so nasty about Michael they will not even try to understand him it makes me so sad.

I love it here everyone is so great :)

Julia
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Yeah whenever people talk nasty about him I want to ask them if they've ever listened to his song Childhood and if they haven't just pop out my mp3 player and make them listen. The video would be better though.
 
I think people should learn to accept that he's gone... But not to get over his music or anything like that.

His music lives forever. But everyone has to die some time...
 
Actually I'm experiencing quite the opposite, didn't expect that though! :)
When people see me wearing my MJ shirt or seeing me busy with stuff related to him and so on, they always talk about 'oh yeah now he's dead huh?' and I say 'yes he is...and that's sad'.
And then most of the times the conversation turns out where I will be telling my thoughts about what think have killed him and how he was misunderstood, what kind of person he was etc., and I must say...I'm probably a good mind-changer cuz in the end everyone is like 'oh man I love him, how come I didn't know that'.
The best thing is, I'm not even the one starting about it! Most of the time they make a comment and I just reply on that in a very thoughtfull-way. :cheeky:

Love you Mike, I'll do anything to change this world! :heart:
 
..i understand
everybody want me to get over him ,,but they're CRAZY to even think about it...
i hate everybody ...they're so....cruel..and selfish...i just hate my life............i hate everything!!! !i wanna die
 
Campari said:
^Some people are just stupid! :( My hubby goes around telling me these stupid jokes like they had to buy 12 burial spots so he could be recycled properly... WTF?? :throwingstones Guess who's not getting anything tonight..
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hahahaah!! that is so funny!! ^^^^
 
I'm also so glad to have this forum, THANK YOU MJJC!!!!!

Here I can say what I need to say, I can share the feeling I have with others without being judge, I can just read, listen, watch and enjoy as much as I want about Michael, and for now, this is all I need.

When I was still talking to 'non-fans', some said to me to get over it (the first week, come on!!!) but then I just didn't want to hear anything about non-fans who just don't get it, so since then, I'm just talking to fans.

BUT THANKS TO THIS WONDERFUL COMMUNITY, I LOVE YOU ALL!!!!!
You've saved me, really!
*MUAH*
 
I want to get an MJ shirt so I can wear it everywhere I go lol but walmart doesn't have them anymore I don't think
Our stupid car doesn't have a CD player or I'd be blasting his music everywhere I go.
When ever I have to take my brother somewhere and have to wait for him I always take out my mp3 player and listen to some of MJ's music, and I'm always wishing that I could make everyone around me here it, if they look at me weird , who cares! lol it's better than what I've heard on others peoples radios when they drive by
 
oldmoon20 said:
I want to get an MJ shirt so I can wear it everywhere I go lol but walmart doesn't have them anymore I don't think
Our stupid car doesn't have a CD player or I'd be blasting his music everywhere I go.
When ever I have to take my brother somewhere and have to wait for him I always take out my mp3 player and listen to some of MJ's music, and I'm always wishing that I could make everyone around me here it, if they look at me weird , who cares! lol it's better than what I've heard on others peoples radios when they drive by
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I know what u mean!! I always blast his music when im driving with the windows down, and when i stop at light ppl give me dirty looks, especially cuz im usually singing and dancing to the music.. haha! but i dont care! each song makes me feel passion and want to dance even if i have heard it 5238294756 times before!! IT WILL NEVER GET OLD!!!!!
 
I tried to teach my 6 year old to moonwalk today :lol: He just walked backwards but who cares, he looked cute!
I figured, since hubby "hates" Michael, I'm gonna go ahead and make our son a fan! Moahahahaha!!!! *thriller style*
 
hibhib said:
I know what u mean!! I always blast his music when im driving with the windows down, and when i stop at light ppl give me dirty looks, especially cuz im usually singing and dancing to the music.. haha! but i dont care! each song makes me feel passion and want to dance even if i have heard it 5238294756 times before!! IT WILL NEVER GET OLD!!!!!
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If people give me dirty looks I'd just turn it up and look at them weird lol
 
I am LUCKY. LUCKY AS I CAN BE. I am surrounded by MJ fans. From my family to friends to co workers. Even if i wanted to get over him i couldn`t possibly because of them. My mom shes soo adorable. In june she was the one who called me and said his gone. And upon my arrival she was glued onto the tv watching CNN. I remember she said when she saw his clips on CNN "woh, his sucha handsome boy, how old is he!! 24 or 25 mebe" And i said MOM his 50. LOL and just recently one morning she tells me that she had a dream about Michael. This is the dream in her words "There was a knock on the door and i went to get it, it was your brother Sam. And behind him was this beautiful boy. It took me a while to recognise him, then i said..Michael Jackson!!" and she woke up. Isnt that hilarious...i laughed so hard and later on she tells the dream to my older sister. I love them soo much. Couldnt have asked for anything else. But a family that loves HIM..
 
Michael is my recharge everyday. I need his music, I need him everyday to feel recharged and alert. I'm lacking energy today and can't help but feel down :cry:
 
I love it here!
Everyone gets you!
Im not shy in school talking to people about how much i love him, but no one really listens!
And people say such horrible things about him to me, peoples ideas of Mj are so messed up sometimes! People tell me these jokes like there nothing, but they cut me up inside, to me hes family and you wouldnt say to someone whos family member just died, a horrible joke about them.But people dont get how i feel!
But ive made my mum realize what a beautiful person he is, i got her to read dancing the dream, like it did me, it showed her who he really is! A caring, loving beautiful guy!

Now to show the rest of the world hay!
 
it is annoying, but i honestly don't care what people think or say. they have a problem and it's not my problem that they feel they need to lash out their negative opinions or care that i love michael and his music so much that i need to hear and talk about him every chance i get.

big hugs! stay strong and don't let people ruin anything you love
 
thanks ArabianGirl for opening this thread :D :clapping:

@Moon, you thought your post was long? :giggle:

@Camp, you're killin' me with your comments :lmao:

@thrillerchild, we're all here to get support from each other
you're not alone :better:

@Nippleina, well said :clapping:
how's Boobie doing? :giggle:

@crazy4umjackson, this is great :D, my mom went with me to TII the first day & we may be going the last day too :D she's the one person i really needed to know how i feel about him, now that i have this, i don't care about what anyone else thinks - i just hope she stays that way :)rolleyes2: i'm really pushing it staying in front of the comp. all day long downloading MJ stuff, playing his music & short films & PMing here :rolleyes2:)

@shaugnie, oh :better:
we're always here to listen
it's here where i really understand what Michael was talking about in the opening part of JAM

actually i've reached a point where i speak of the non-MJJC as "the outside world"

so, here is the deal
at first my friends were all like "okay we know you love him but we don't have to listen to his songs all the time when we're out"
so i would change to another singer for a song or two then i get fed up & change back to Michael's
after a while i would go like "ok, that's it, my car, my rules"
i'm not saying they're not good friends but they really get on my nerves when it comes to this point.

i haven't gone out with them in 6 weeks coz they kept telling me i should get over it by now.
but 2 days ago, one of them called & said she wanted to go out, i said that if i went out i'd be goin' to see TII, she sighed & said "oh well, i just need to go out"
i told her there would be no talking during the film & no comments afterward"
but actually she loved it & began to understand who Michael Jackson really is :D
she only had a comment about his clothes but i told her 2 things
1. he didn't want to be like any one else, & he got what he wanted
2. he's MJ & he gets to wear what he wants :p :yes:
i don't know when i'll be able to start going out with them again after TII showing is over though :scratch:

i feel i've talked too much :giggle: but i needed to vent :sigh:
so to sum up :D

[size=+1]No one has the right to tell you who to love, what to do, no one has the right to tell you "it's been over 4 months now, just get over it already", no one has the right to tell you how to feel. Real friendship means that your friends should appreciate your feelings.[/size]

EDIT: i just found out this is my 777th post :giggle: spooky? :blink:
 
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^ Apples!! :wild: :hug:


crazy4umjackson said:
I am LUCKY. LUCKY AS I CAN BE. I am surrounded by MJ fans. From my family to friends to co workers. Even if i wanted to get over him i couldn`t possibly because of them. My mom shes soo adorable. In june she was the one who called me and said his gone. And upon my arrival she was glued onto the tv watching CNN. I remember she said when she saw his clips on CNN "woh, his sucha handsome boy, how old is he!! 24 or 25 mebe" And i said MOM his 50. LOL and just recently one morning she tells me that she had a dream about Michael. This is the dream in her words "There was a knock on the door and i went to get it, it was your brother Sam. And behind him was this beautiful boy. It took me a while to recognise him, then i said..Michael Jackson!!" and she woke up. Isnt that hilarious...i laughed so hard and later on she tells the dream to my older sister. I love them soo much. Couldnt have asked for anything else. But a family that loves HIM..
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Wanna trade families?? :lol: Your family sounds awesome, you're lucky! :yes:
 
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