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Chanya

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I'm hurting so much right now. I can't take the pain anymore, and the worst part is that nobody even cares. I'm used to being ignored and left to myself in my life, but at a time like this, it's too much to bear. :cry: Help me please cause I can't take it anymore!
 
We all care for you here! Hugs, compassion, and love to you. We're all hurting...
 
We all here! Don't worry, we all are feeling what you are.
 
Chanya said:
I'm hurting so much right now. I can't take the pain anymore, and the worst part is that nobody even cares. I'm used to being ignored and left to myself in my life, but at a time like this, it's too much to bear. :cry: Help me please cause I can't take it anymore!
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:hug: you're not alone here :hug:
 
Thank you guys. I never thought I'd find myself making a thread like this, because I don't want to draw attention to myself or seem like I'm looking for sympathy, but right now the pain is overwhelming and I have no one to talk to, so I had to reach out. It helps a lot to know that you guys are so supportive
 
Chanya said:
I'm hurting so much right now. I can't take the pain anymore, and the worst part is that nobody even cares. I'm used to being ignored and left to myself in my life, but at a time like this, it's too much to bear. :cry: Help me please cause I can't take it anymore!
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I think we're many that are in that position right now - but the thought of not being alone in that position makes it easier - not easy, but easier.

You can always write either here on the forum or PM, I'm here for and with everyone of you guys :)

I just wrote a long answer in a similar thread, I don't know it it helps at all... but feel free to take a look:
http://www.mjjcommunity.com/forum/showthread.php?p=2077557#post2077557

It takes time, and as corny at it may sound; time is a healer.
Time can't heal the scars, but it will heal up the open wounds.
 
Hi Chanya, when people are grieving it can seem like they're all alone but many many other people are feeling the same. Do you see a Doctor regularly that you trust and like? That could be a good idea, if only to talk about how you are not coping so well and need some help to make it through this rough period. Likewise, are their helplines in your area that you could phone and talk to a counsellor? There are many people out there feeling the same and who understand and will not judge you. Remember you are not alone!
 
I'm here for you sis *hugs*.

Talk to you on MSN. You're not alone in this pain.
 
hey chanya. I know your pain. And I know that feeling alone is so hard. But the pain's gonna be there either way. No matter how many times one is hugged, or one talks about it, I can't escape the fact that my hero is dead. No amount of comforting will ever get rid of that - I'm still gonna be seeing his smiling face when I close my eyes, hear is laughter, and feel "why is God so evil". But it's still important to reach out if you need that at this moment.
 
Thanks, you guys are so great and supportive, I don't know what I'd do without you :heart:
 
Chanya, what you are feeling is very, very common after a bereavement. I felt the same when my hubby died, I felt as though the whole world was out there living their lives and I was totally alone. Like I couldn't be part of anything anymore.
You are not alone sweetheart. We're all hurting along with you, but I just know Michael is so proud of every single one of us. He is proud of you. There is nothing wrong with caring and hurting and grieving, it is the downside of loving somebody I think. And Michael was loved so, so much.
For what it's worth, I'm sending you a big hug. Hugs for all of us. xxx
 
Chanya, you're not alone. we love you, you're a member of our family
close your eyes and imagine us all around the globe thinking of you. we do care and we feel your pain. ((( hugs )))
 
I feel like that now sis :cry: I'm so sad and lonely. My mind knows we are feeling the same pain and it knows we are all here for each other but my heart is feeling something else.

I wish there a different world just for Michael, his kids, family, friends and his fans. WOW, what a world.
 
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Sigh, I can symphasize being alone and getting used to it, but now its on a different level. :hug:
 
a *hug* for you chanya!!! hang in there! we're here with you!!!
 
Fluffy_Oz said:
This is what Heaven is going to be like for all MJ fans when our time comes. :)
No hate, no pain - just love and beauty and friends and wonderful music all around.
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I can't wait for that day. :cry: When there will finally be love - true love. I can't stop crying...

God I hope Chanya is feeling better.
 
Chanya said:
Thank you guys. I never thought I'd find myself making a thread like this, because I don't want to draw attention to myself or seem like I'm looking for sympathy, but right now the pain is overwhelming and I have no one to talk to, so I had to reach out. It helps a lot to know that you guys are so supportive
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There's NOTHING wrong in looking for sympathy when you feel down and sad.. Don't let anyone tell you it's a bad thing cause it's just human nature. Everyone needs confort when we're down, and the reasons that we are down have to do with the things we love and care about.. So it's NOBODY'S bussiness to criticize anyone of us who feels helpless because of Michael's passing.. At the end of the day, if others can't relate to your pain, come here and talk to us -we all feel like you..
Other than that, I also give you my hug.. I've felt like you do quite a few mornings in the past month.. Don't worry, at the end, at some point, better mornings will come, where the pain fades and the sweetness (of MJ) will be left in us..
feel free to pm me anytime!
xx
 
Chan! I haven't been online in a while. I'm exhausted not getting to much sleep and getting up early for work. How have you been lately? I hope you're feeling better :) I'm on MSN now if you want to chat???

Take care ;) luv always
 
good news!!! thanks for sharing. I must admitt I was a bit worried, now it's definately feeling better.
 
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