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How can a person as famous as Michael jackson ever find real love? Every woman he meets will have been a fan of his at some stage in their lives. They will have gushed over him and tell him all the right things, but after enough time as passed, the media attention focussing on her, she will get corrupted too. It is a nearimpossible situation. Makes me feel sad dsometimes when thinking about it. Cansomeone as famous as MJ ever find real unselfish love, or will he allways be someone in the dark, crying for your love. How will he know;)
 
Roxanne said:
i would truly love him forever and ever and ever :wub: i would never get corrupted ;)
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The trouble is that a woman might feel thsat way at fist, but when she suddenly finds herself the centre of attention on account of being Mrs Jackson, that is where issues really start, cause overnight she becomes a celebrity, not just a wife. Human nature dictates that she becomes self-cetred and demanding.Dollar signs and divorce are not far behind.:mello:
 
Those are very good point (s), Mr.Jackson likes his privacy and who to say he hasn't kept "Someone In The Dark" for years...

There is a time & place for everything~~~

Sincerely,
Susie
Cleveland Rocks :)
 
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I guess it's sort of a dilemma. On one hand, pursuing a fan would be unwise, and on the other, putting himself out there to a woman who isn't a fan would be quite difficult in his position. Whatever the case family-wise, I hope he gets everything he needs; he may already have it, who knows?

Also, LOL @ the fans saying stuff like "I would love him forever" and all that. I truly believe that at least half of the fandom, knowing nothing about MJ personally other than what they've researched, heard, and seen on TV, would marry him. And that, in a nutshell, is why pursuing a fan is unwise. MJ can do whatever he wants, though.
 
The trouble MJ has is that everybody has been a fan at sometime in their lives. Although I take what you are saying. The media is the main problem, cause they tend to persue these partners relentlessly, and sometimes people who suddenly get tossed into the limelight can feel that they are more important and lose sight of the reason that they got married in the forst place.
 
I agree
I think he does has a love interest and keeps it "In the closet"

thats the only way .. to have a half way normal relationship

"aint nobodies business but mine and my baby's "
 
Datsymay said:
The trouble MJ has is that everybody has been a fan at sometime in their lives.
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I know what you mean, but the people who simply acknowledge that he has some good music wouldn't be that much of a problem, IMO. I'm talking about the people who before he meets them, have already decided he's the greatest guy there is. And I'm sure a lot of the fans would say, "Well, I'd get to know him first," but honestly, with a lot of them it'd just be a formality and they'd already have their minds made up lol. MJ could never really know where he'd stand with the person if he weren't a pop star, other than that the person in all likelihood wouldn't be aware of his existence...

But I'm speaking generally about superstars and fans. I'm really not into talking about a particular celebrity and their love lives lol.
 
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As long as hes been in the business and a celebrity im sure hes got it pretty fine tuned as to whos real and whos not.
Of course he will find true love someday. I think theres one person for everyone. :yes:
 
theres someone out there for everyone isnt there ?

hope he finds/found etc whatever hes looking for :yes:
 
suspicious_mind said:
As long as hes been in the business and a celebrity im sure hes got it pretty fine tuned as to whos real and whos not.
Of course he will find true love someday. I think theres one person for everyone. :yes:
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so true . and we said it at the same time lol.:hug:



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Well, in my opinion, it's already difficult for an average person to find real love, so it's even more difficult to a star to find it. Especially when they were born under the spotlight.
 
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Hmm well I think God will provide for him what he needs, I truly believe that.
I have no idea where MJ is as far as happiness is concerned, but it looks like MJ has found some peace...with his children, his friends, his past being cleared...i dunno, who knows what MJ is feeling at this time in his life.

And who knows if MJ will find that 'one'. Hell, he may have already found her and is keeping it on the DL (which i don't blame him lol). Who knows. I just hope he's happy.
 
I kind of agree with everyone here. :lol: Everyone has good points.

I think it is POSSIBLE for him to find real love....and to find that "someone special". But...it is already difficult for an average person (believe me...I KNOW! :lmao: I'm already about to give up hope myself already! :lmao:)...so it must be even more difficult for MJ. Not only does he need to find someone who'd match what he is looking for....he also needs to find someone who isn't after his fame and money. I don't envy him. But anyways...like I said....I think it IS possible to find "the one"....it's just not easy.

And about MJ dating a fan....Yeah, there are pros and cons. A fan probably won't have a "bad image" of him, and is willing to support him...HOWEVER....I agree with the danger of fans having a "certain image" of Mj in their minds. Some fans think they KNOW Michael...they are in love with some image they have created of him in their minds. You know, in their minds MJ is everything they ever wanted in a man. He's perfect. So if the fan doesn't recognize that...it will never work out, because as soon as they get to know Michael and realize that he may NOT be what they THOUGHT he is like...they are in for a huge disappointment. You know, like when fans say they'd have sex with MJ in an instant or they'd marry him in an instant....To me that's silly because we don't KNOW Michael. We know what we have heard him say in interviews...what we have heard other people say...or what we know of him and his behaviour from short meetings...But we don't know what he is like in private. Besides...how do you know what he is like in a RELATIONSHIP? You know...just like with ANY relationship with ANYONE...you CAN NOT know if you will be perfect for each other until you know each other and try it out. So if MJ ever were to date a fan, he'd need to find one who is not a gold digger, first of all, who isn't loking for a career in show business...and who is aware that he is just a person too and has his bad days and bad habits and may not be "everything" the fan ever dreamed of...You know...that he is just a HUMAN too...

I think with another celebrity the problem is that there will be a "competition" of who's bigger. And someone who is a celebrity might not want to really be there for MJ and the kids because she'll be so focused on her own career, and there will be her people involved in the whole thing too so it will all easily become a "publicity project" instead of a real relationship, so I think that can end up being "dangerous" (in the sense that it will easily end up in an ugly divorce...).

And I agree to some extend about "keeping things secret"....You know, that way there is no pressure from the media...However, if MJ all of the sudden is married to someone no one has ever seen before...The media will rip the relationship to pieces....You know, if it seems like there was no dating (even though when there was in private), they'll turn it all into a publicity stunt (sort of like what happened with MJ & Lisa Marie)...And then from that day on they will just have to keep convincing the media and that can become exhausting.

If I were MJ, I'd date the girl in private, until I was really sure I can trust her and really sure of my feelings...and then go date in public. But I wouldn't make the girl another "star" of the show. You know, MJ is the STAR....who ever he dates, is just his girlfriend or "significant other". You know, it shoudld be MJ in interviews and on stage and all that...not Michael AND the girl. That way she woudln't be pressured into a "star role" (if she was just an "average girl")...and she wouldn't start thinking of herself as a star either. You know, accompanying to awards shows, etc...that's fine. But in public, I think it should be about MJ. Because he's the star. You know like with other celebrities...their wives or girlfriends are present at the award shows...but they don't give interviews. And during TV interviews it's just the star, not their girlfriends. I think that's a pretty good way to handle it.

But anyways...that's just what I'd do, if I were MJ. But what do I know....I ain't MJ! :lmao:
 
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Datsymay said:
How can a person as famous as Michael jackson ever find real love? Every woman he meets will have been a fan of his at some stage in their lives. They will have gushed over him and tell him all the right things, but after enough time as passed, the media attention focussing on her, she will get corrupted too. It is a nearimpossible situation. Makes me feel sad dsometimes when thinking about it. Cansomeone as famous as MJ ever find real unselfish love, or will he allways be someone in the dark, crying for your love. How will he know;)
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I get what you're saying, however I really think that there are some decent women out there who will see past the fame.

I mean, sure, everyone on the planet knows who Michael is. And I can only speak for myself, but apart from being a huge fan of the man I *think* Michael is, I would love to see what he is like behind closed doors. When the mask comes off and the scrutiny is gone.

I think many people (including fans) tend to forget that Michael is one of us- a human being. We are blinded by the fame and fortune, by the hype and the media. I am pretty sure that whatever girl Michael dates, they will always be intimidated by his presence and his aura. But I believe that Michael is patient enough to see through that and wait till it fades away. I also believe he waits a long time before he truly shares his heart, so that he won't get hurt.

I'm too young, but I'd love to see THAT Michael Jackson. The one that likes to sit around in his PJ's and with his children, and watch a movie. The one that spills his drinks and swears when he knocks something over. And the one that looks a mess and needs care when ill or hurt. :yes:

I hope he finds love again someday. He deserves it :flowers:
 
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Man summer u be cracking up a LOT :lol:

But I agree with everything you said lol

I guess its all up to Mike and what he wants in life.

Thinking about this, I wouldn't wanna marry him (even though i find him attractive lol, not so much sexy any more but handsome/attractive lol). I'd really wanna be his friend though. I just wanna chill and hang out with him. Get to know him. That's what i'd do. I can tell being in a relationship is DRAAAMMA with him :lol: Not sooo much because of him, but because of his life style. And I'm sure he has his quirks...that'll probably irritate the hell out of me. But knowing MYSELF, i think i'll be able to accept them (i have in past relations lolololol).

I'd never wanna marry him though. How compatible are Virgos and Sagittariuses anyways? LOL

Seriously i think i know enough about him to know he's a sweet, good man...or at least tries to be. And that is enough for me to want to be at least a good friend. I already am his friend, from a distance lol
 
J5master said:
Man summer u be cracking up a LOT :lol:

But I agree with everything you said lol

I guess its all up to Mike and what he wants in life.

Thinking about this, I wouldn't wanna marry him (even though i find him attractive lol, not so much sexy any more but handsome/attractive lol). I'd really wanna be his friend though. I just wanna chill and hang out with him. Get to know him. That's what i'd do. I can tell being in a relationship is DRAAAMMA with him :lol: Not sooo much because of him, but because of his life style. And I'm sure he has his quirks...that'll probably irritate the hell out of me. But knowing MYSELF, i think i'll be able to accept them (i have in past relations lolololol).

I'd never wanna marry him though. How compatible are Virgos and Sagittariuses anyways? LOL

Seriously i think i know enough about him to know he's a sweet, good man...or at least tries to be. And that is enough for me to want to be at least a good friend. I already am his friend, from a distance lol
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Well....what can I do...I just laugh a lot. :lmao:

I could marry him, if I got to know him reeeally well first, and fell in love with him and was convinced we'd work as a couple (you know...just like I'd do with ANY guy). But ya know....if he'd pull the disappearing acts on me, like he did with Lisa (6 weeks and no contact...Divorce coming at cha Mike! ), or he'd be kissing other women on the MOUTH in public....I'd be out. Sorry...not into that. Not even if you're MICHAEL JACKSON. :huh: That's what I meant with one needing to know what he is like in a relationship. You know, if he'd do stuff like that....Nope. Wouldn't work. Not with me. :wacko:
 
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waaaiiit hold up. So u sayin MJ cheated on Lisa when he was married to her? LOL I don't remember that.

I dunno it's hard to judge that Lisa relationship cuz there are two sides to every story especially when it comes to relationships, and I've heard ALL of lisa's side. But MJ never talks about it except for the generic "lisa is a nice person" LOL And even AFTER getting all the sides of the situation, it's still not enough to assess how a person is in a relationship. Or judge. Or whatever. Sooooo Lisa/MJ will always be a mystery to me. (well all of it should be, but Lisa likes to run her mouth lol).

And plus, I could never 'assess' that cuz there are other factors (like FAME, and TOURING, and all of that)...that i could never relate to, that had a hand in that relationship. So who knows what really happened, in what context, or whatever.
 
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This subject is very interesting. I would hate to see it drift into an MJ/Lisa thing. That part of his life is over.
 
J5master said:
waaaiiit hold up. So u sayin MJ cheated on Lisa when he was married to her? LOL I don't remember that.

I dunno it's hard to judge that Lisa relationship cuz there are two sides to every story especially when it comes to relationships, and I've heard ALL of lisa's side. But MJ never talks about it except for the generic "lisa is a nice person" LOL And even AFTER getting all the sides of the situation, it's still not enough to assess how a person is in a relationship. Or judge. Or whatever. Sooooo Lisa/MJ will always be a mystery to me. (well all of it should be, but Lisa likes to run her mouth lol).
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No, I was just saying that IF he did a disappearing act like that...Don't know if what Lisa said was the truth...But I was just giving an example. You know, I wouldn't care if it's MICHAEL JACKSON....if he'd do stuff like that...I wouldn't tolerate it. That was my point. :lol: And I didn't mean he was cheating on Lisa...But remember the pics at the Ivy of MJ and Lisa kissing? MJ was married to Debbie at that time and Debbie was PREGNANT. If I would have been his wife he would have had a HELL of a lot explaining to do...He would have been in MAJOR trouble. I didn't think that was a very great move from MJ. I was like "WTF are you doing, Michael??!!" when I saw the pics. I thought it was very disrespectful towards Debbie. So you know, I was JUST SAYING...that I wouldn't look at stuff like that for very long. You know, I was just trying to make a point. :lmao: You know, fans say they LOVE Michael and they'd marry him right away....but you know, like I already said.... We DON'T KNOW what he is like and how he'd be in a relationship. Would you be willing to accept ANY kind of behaviour towards you ....just because it was MICHAEL JACKSON? I wouldn't. I wouldn't treat him any differently than I'd treat ANY guy. Period. That was my point. :lol: Hope that helps. ^_^

And I don't want this to turn into an MJ/Lisa thread either...I was just using those as examples. :lmao:
 
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