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I want to die

This is true, Michael wouldn't want you to feel that way! Remember that he lived his life to the full, had his children and put his all in to everything. He made his mark. Michael was snatched away from us, but we need to be strong for those who were truly close to him as well as ourselves and each other. Much love xxx
 
Please don't do anything to yourself. :( Michael wouldn't want it, I know it's been said so many times recently around here, but it's true he really wouldn't. Think how amazingly Michael dealt with all the crap he had in his life. We have to take inspiration from him and move forwards with this. We've all suffered a huge loss, but we have to try and deal with it, although it may seem hopeless at times. Please PM me if you wanna talk about this, or about anything. So many people here care for you. *hugs*
 
I understand you are hurting right now, we all do and so are we, but dieing isn't the answer! We need you and Michael needs you to continue to spread his love and message.

Please look after yourself, even though it's so painful right now, we're all here to help x
 
MJJ Lover xOX said:
:( but how? everything is so pointless...
a world without MJ...what kind of world is that?
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It's NOT a world without him, let's all understand that!!
He's here through his work and will be for generations to come -that's the way he wanted it to be. He knew he would die someday but wanted to live on through his music.
And now, as he becomes a legend, this will be getting stronger every day.. We'll be watching Michael become a myth through his creation, always present among us..

I know EXACTLY how you feel, cause I felt like that some days ago.. I'm better now but still can't listen to any of his music.. But overall I'm better, something inside of me wants to outlive this.. I can tell you that at some point it DOES get better.. Be patient, be strong. the day will come.
 
MJJ Lover xOX said:
:( but how? everything is so pointless...
a world without MJ...what kind of world is that?
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Hon, MJ is very much still a part of this world. He's becoming a greater legend as we speak! His legacy will keep on growing, and it is up to us to carry it into future. There is still so much lying ahead of you, don't let the loss of Michael end that for you. Michael made it his goal to live life to the fullest, and so should you. And you can do it! Together we can do it. It does get better over time, trust me. Hang in there :better:

Ps: feel free to pm me any time, and if you really feel like it's getting to much please be adviced to seek professional counseling!
 
I know how you feel. Sometimes things seems to be so pointless. I believe that for everything there is a season, maybe we dont understand it now, but in time we will. Never let go of hope. One day you will see that it all has finally come together.

Take care!! *hugs*
 
MJJ Lover xOX said:
im sick of this, im sick of hurting
i cant explain this pain
:( i wish i was dead
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Ofcourse not darling.
Life is to beautiful to end it, just because your idol passed away. You don't have to do this and what about your family? They would be so sad, no don't do it.
Remember when James Brown passed away, Michael didn't commit suicide, he wanted to live his life to the fullest.
What about children in the future, you can tell them you were witness from the biggest star ever in history.
So life is too beautiful to end right now.
You can be every time with Michael in your dreams.
 
Science freak said:
Ofcourse not darling.
Life is to beautiful to end it, just because your idol passed away. You don't have to do this and what about your family? They would be so sad, no don't do it.
Remember when James Brown passed away, Michael didn't commit suicide, he wanted to live his life to the fullest.
What about children in the future, you can tell them you were witness from the biggest star ever in history.
So life is too beautiful to end right now.
You can be every time with Michael in your dreams.
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Yeah, just think in years to come kids are gonna be like, "you were so lucky to be around when Michael was!" I know its not comforting at all right now, but think about the stories we'll be able to tell one day. :)
 
please dont do anything. there are people here who care and want you to feel better. everyones hurting in the mjcommunity at the moment and we all need to be there for each other so if you feel unable to talk here please see a doctor or counsellor. at the very least michael would not want anything bad to happen to you.
 
There are a lot of kind words in this thread. But more than anything, you would NOT want to inflict the kind of pain you are feeling now, on other people. You may or may not think your family and friends would grieve that much for you, but taking one's own life leaves a terrible legacy behind, of people who grieve and feel guilty.

I understand your pain. Take it day-by-day. Keep talking to us here-- the ones who truly understand.

love,

Victoria
 
Come on, the world went on before Michael. It will go on after Michael. He just made it extra good, we were treated.
 
Science freak said:
Ofcourse not darling.
Life is to beautiful to end it, just because your idol passed away. You don't have to do this and what about your family? They would be so sad, no don't do it.
Remember when James Brown passed away, Michael didn't commit suicide, he wanted to live his life to the fullest.
What about children in the future, you can tell them you were witness from the biggest star ever in history.
So life is too beautiful to end right now.
You can be every time with Michael in your dreams.
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Exactly :) That is what comforts me too, that Michael can at least live in my dreams :)
 
I've said it before and I'll continue to say it again. Michael was a survivor. Look at all the tragedies, turmoil, and heartache that he endured throughout his life. Sure, he wasn't a perfect saint... but he handled his problems and all the madness that surrounded him in the public-eye the best way he knew how. He did NOT do something as selfish and stupid as suicide. He carried on for his family, his friends, and his fans for as long as he could. Again... if you truly love Michael... You should STILL be inspired by him, and keep on truckin.' Just like he did. :hug:
 
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Know how you feel mate. We all do. Joining this community will hopefully help me and I know for fact that talking to like minded people about how they are coping with this tragedy that you will undoubtly come up with your own way to get round this eventually.
 
StaceyMJ said:
Think how amazingly Michael dealt with all the crap he had in his life. We have to take inspiration from him and move forwards with this. *hugs*
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I am thinking about this more than i have ever thought. And now i am trying to act like he did more than ever. To accept bad things, words and people with dignity, never allowing my anger hurts others. This was what he taught us, wasn`t it? But don`t you think with Michael all that came naturally because he was so extraordinary and so dignified? Can anyone of you remember a time when Michael hurt somebody intentionally or not intentionally? Even with all the trials nightmare, people using him, did he ever turn to hatred and spite? I think we all must try to be like him in that attitude now. It is part of his legacy and a very important part.
 
Miss_star said:
Exactly :) That is what comforts me too, that Michael can at least live in my dreams :)
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Yes, dreaming is the best thing the fan could do. Dreaming will take the fan to Michael for a long time and because the human brain can make things so real, Michael will never leave us.
If you wake up you can live your life to the fullest, because you were with Michael. It makes me happy when I dreamed about him and I guess someone else too.

So MJJ Lover xOX, don't end your life, you know you could be with him.
And don't you wanna see his kids growing up. I would love to see them in the future.
 
..............Dont harm your'eself,oke?
((((( warm hug)))))))))))))))))))))))))
 
but maybe im just not as strong as michael.....:( :( maybe i dont have that kind of strength!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11 to keep on :(
i just want him here!!!! EVERYTHING IS SO WRONG :( i dont want to tell stories about him...i want him here
i know he had to pass away one day :( it just doesnt feel right...it wasnt the right time

thankyou so much everyone for the lovely words *hugggs* im not going to do anything stupid...i know that i couldnt...its just, trying to deal with this pain is so hard...
 
MJJ Lover xOX said:
but maybe im just not as strong as michael.....:( :( maybe i dont have that kind of strength!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11 to keep on :(
i just want him here!!!! EVERYTHING IS SO WRONG :( i dont want to tell stories about him...i want him here
i know he had to pass away one day :( it just doesnt feel right...it wasnt the right time

thankyou so much everyone for the lovely words *hugggs* im not going to do anything stupid...i know that i couldnt...its just, trying to deal with this pain is so hard...
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Very good:clapping:
We all like to have him back, but we can't bring him back.
I hope you dream alot of him, that's the only place where you can meet Mike, not heaven. (this is written for the persons who are reading this thread and are in the same situation.)
 
deni_avr said:
I am thinking about this more than i have ever thought. And now i am trying to act like he did more than ever. To accept bad things, words and people with dignity, never allowing my anger hurts others. This was what he taught us, wasn`t it? But don`t you think with Michael all that came naturally because he was so extraordinary and so dignified? Can anyone of you remember a time when Michael hurt somebody intentionally or not intentionally? Even with all the trials nightmare, people using him, did he ever turn to hatred and spite? I think we all must try to be like him in that attitude now. It is part of his legacy and a very important part.
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Amen to that. How he did it I really will never know but it amazes me. He inspires me to be a better person. :)
 
deni_avr said:
I am thinking about this more than i have ever thought. And now i am trying to act like he did more than ever. To accept bad things, words and people with dignity, never allowing my anger hurts others. This was what he taught us, wasn`t it? But don`t you think with Michael all that came naturally because he was so extraordinary and so dignified? Can anyone of you remember a time when Michael hurt somebody intentionally or not intentionally? Even with all the trials nightmare, people using him, did he ever turn to hatred and spite? I think we all must try to be like him in that attitude now. It is part of his legacy and a very important part.
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Cheers, good post :yes:

MJJ Lover xOX said:
but maybe im just not as strong as michael.....:( :( maybe i dont have that kind of strength!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11 to keep on :(
i just want him here!!!! EVERYTHING IS SO WRONG :( i dont want to tell stories about him...i want him here
i know he had to pass away one day :( it just doesnt feel right...it wasnt the right time

thankyou so much everyone for the lovely words *hugggs* im not going to do anything stupid...i know that i couldnt...its just, trying to deal with this pain is so hard...
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You have the strenght, you really do! You just have to believe in yourself, no matter what it's gonna take. Have faith in yourself ok, together we will make it through :yes:

MJstarlight said:
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MJJ Lover xOX said:
but maybe im just not as strong as michael.....:( :( maybe i dont have that kind of strength!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11 to keep on :(
i just want him here!!!! EVERYTHING IS SO WRONG :( i dont want to tell stories about him...i want him here
i know he had to pass away one day :( it just doesnt feel right...it wasnt the right time

thankyou so much everyone for the lovely words *hugggs* im not going to do anything stupid...i know that i couldnt...its just, trying to deal with this pain is so hard...
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I feel you are discouraged by how long it takes to heal.. I know, pain does last long. But it is also a certainty that eventually it does heal. It goes many circles and comes in waves, but you'll be better one day not too far.. Believe me, i know what I'm saying..
 
I Know excatly know how you feel.. I am already dead inside my heart since he was gone :(
But please dont hurt youself... Michael WONT THIS HAPPEN!! :S He lived life full out, and the same should you do... Look... James Brown was Michael biggest inspiration, Michael had the same feeling of us when James brown died, but he didnt kill himself, and he shows that he strong enough to live life without James Brown.. So the same should you do. You SHOULD be strong like Michael did.
 
MJForever94 said:
I Know excatly know how you feel.. I am already dead inside my heart since he was gone :(
But please dont hurt youself... Michael WONT THIS HAPPEN!! :S He lived life full out, and the same should you do... Look... James Brown was Michael biggest inspiration, Michael had the same feeling of us when James brown died, but he didnt kill himself, and he shows that he strong enough to live life without James Brown.. So the same should you do. You SHOULD be strong like Michael did.
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